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Okay I loved Nimrit & Sumbul’s parts the most yesterday!
1. Nimrit - She explained everything perfectly. She said that yes, she understood later that it would look wrong to the world but that’s her relationship with her dad, she has tantrums with him and acts like a 10 year old brat with him. Salman made the valid point that Papa was explaining the same thing that I have previously, about individuality, and it’s all because we see the potential in you.
I gotta admit, with the impressive way she answered Salman’s questions, I can see potential too but I think she should’ve waited a while before coming on BB, she should’ve given it more time after getting off her anxiety meds.
What I don’t agree with is Salman’s blanket statement that parents don’t have to praise their children. Sorry but no, it’s each to their own but many of us don’t believe that. I remember at around 10/11 having this convo with my dad and I told him that I won’t become arrogant if you praise me, I know you grew up differently but in our relationship, praise will be seen as encouragement and it won’t go to my head, it will give me confidence. And I used to nok-jhok and force him to praise me 😆 So yeah, that statement by Salman is definitely contentious.
Nimrit also answered back well to Priyanka’s view on her being lost - I can’t shout and argue about food all the time.😆
If only Nimrit was obsessed with Prenka and her game, she could’ve retorted - You’re lost yourself and you’ve become ShaTina’s to-and-fro 😆 but alas. 😆
2. Sumbul - Salman’s conclusion about her was really good. He was basically saying that she is a person who would rather suffer herself than go against those she’s formed a bond with - whether it’s family outside or bonds inside. And I also agree with that Shahid clip about people who can’t say no and it’s easy to take advantage of them - she strikes me as someone like that too.
I’ve also seen from a few instances in the house that she is also someone who, (and I have come across this before with a friend) when something happens, her first thought isn’t how dare this person do that, her first thought is, what did I do?
I remember being astounded once when a friend was like this, I was talking to them and this other “friend” was wronging her and she was like, I just want to know what problem do they have with me, what am I doing wrong? I totally blasted her, tried to make her see sense. I really hope that after BB, and as she gets older, Sumbul has people in her life who advise her how she should be viewing situations, how to stick up for herself etc.
In BB, Sumbul has displayed this with Shalin and Sajid. There was one time Nimrit had a really good 121 with her and I really liked that scene. I can’t fully remember but it was quite some weeks back. Sumbul was sitting by the pool I think and Shalin said something to her. In her later convo with Nimmo, Sumbul said something like “I don’t want him to look bad” and then Nimmo told her - Dude, who gives an F about him.. you should be thinking about yourself, your dad has told you to keep away for a good reason, think about yourself and don’t worry about how he looks.”
Anupamaa
