Anuj was wrong

In a parallel universe where Anupamaa was not such a manipulative hypocrite and Shah kids were actually sensible and good natured, Anuj's dialogues to Vanraj asking him to take care of his own kids and to Anupamaa to prioritise him and his daughter over her own biological kids would've been very problematic.

Anybody who doesn't follow the show and watches today's episode would think Anuj is so wrong for making that request of Anupamaa and would consider he's simply emotionally manipulating her.

I started watching recently but since i had not watched all epi i somewhere felt anuj accepted anupama with her past and there were few dialogues in epi where they discussed about handling everything together even about adopting ca anuj said he will handle if something goes wrong. But now he seems to be understanding that it's not easy to take care of kid. Even though i understand his state of mind but there could have few more dialogues added.

And he should have atleast put a word that ppl who really care for anu like samar, bapuji and kinjal,kavya they are always welcome into the house but ppl who are selfish they do not have any rights to call them when they are in trouble.

And nobody is welcome into house except those ppl.

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

I started watching recently but since i had not watched all epi i somewhere felt anuj accepted anupama with her past and there were few dialogues in epi where they discussed about handling everything together even about adopting ca anuj said he will handle if something goes wrong. But now he seems to be understanding that it's not easy to take care of kid. Even though i understand his state of mind but there could have few more dialogues added.

And he should have atleast put a word that ppl who really care for anu like samar, bapuji and kinjal,kavya they are always welcome into the house but ppl who are selfish they do not have any rights to call them when they are in trouble.

And nobody is welcome into house except those ppl.

In a parallel universe, where AnupaMaa is not so clingy to her ex, her kids are mature and sensible adults, Anuj would never tell Anu to prioritize only her husband and kids. The man had an outburst after he reached the breaking point. Only if MAA knew how to balance things really, this situation would not have arisen. I did not find Anuj wrong at all.

Originally posted by: CheekuKaBeej

Bold: Exactly. Without these dialogues, it conveyed something else.

but I think those people did understand him, and wouldn't take his words to heart

they have always considered him apna so they know what he's feeling right now and that his outburst was long overdue

Sorry but in any universe, when Vanraj threatened almost killed Anuj in jealousy, this outburst was but a mild reaction. It was overdue, I guess.

You would expect Vanraj to stick to his word and Leela to hers, saying: "Tum apna ghar dekho main apna".

There is a difference in, dependence and interdependence. Shahs needed to be cut-off with a point of no return because clearly they do not respect boundaries.

In every parallel world, a woman won’t remain so close to her ex-in-laws and cling onto their daily dose of toxicity especially when the new env. is so peaceful and healthy. Even pigeons leave such fish-marketish homes and flock to a new abode in search of peace.

I didn’t find Anuj’s outburst rude or that he missed to mention those. Those 4 people already seem to have understood his pain more than Anupamaji. And from the precap, Samar doesn’t seem to care at all. 😆

Alright guys. I'm really really sorry from every universe in this world. Really sorry for this post🤔

Originally posted by: CheekuKaBeej

Alright guys. I'm really really sorry from every universe in this world. Really sorry for this post🤔

Originally posted by: CheekuKaBeej

In a parallel universe where Anupamaa was not such a manipulative hypocrite and Shah kids were actually sensible and good natured, Anuj's dialogues to Vanraj asking him to take care of his own kids and to Anupamaa to prioritise him and his daughter over her own biological kids would've been very problematic.

Anybody who doesn't follow the show and watches today's episode would think Anuj is so wrong for making that request of Anupamaa and would consider he's simply emotionally manipulating her.

@bold but the bigger problem is that people who follow show on regular basis are also criticising anuj.😆