Anupamaa Live Update and Daily Discussion Thread 24 Dec 2022 - Page 3

If Anuj says anything about creating boundaries with Shahs, Anupama is quick to bring up her “main maa hu..” but when Baa repeatedly disrespects Choti Anu miss Anupama has nothing to say

She will be the self appointed ayyah/nanny of this kid under the name of "BADI MAA"

And she'll be more enthusiastic for everything concerning this kid than Pari/Arya or CA as this is after all her real pati parmeshwars kid

I think that if Vanraj and Kavya really were to ever move away, then Shah family would permanently shift into Shah Mansion. Anupama would take care of her ex husband’s toxic parents gladly.

I haven’t seen many episodes pre Anuj entry , but I feel Anupamaa’s concept of motherhood has been restricted to cooking for her children , taking care of their every need inc washing, ironing their clothes , mollycoddling them well into adulthood by giving them glasses of milk and cold coffee even when they’re old enough to make it themselves, giving useless Bhashans in name of Sanskaar and generally follow the Baa’s definition of being a mother . She’s never really tuned into their emotional needs , except maybe Samar , that’s why despite her talk claims “ Maa apne bachde ko pehchanti hai “ , she’s still shocked by the kind of monsters P and T have turned out to become ...

For CA she was never required to do these routine things as she was pretty independent and mature . Anupamaa was initially surprised and must have felt the kind of delight one feels when you realise you can make instant noodles instead of an entire meal . That time she used to take CA to Shah house , I felt as a kind of trophy to show off her new family and mahaanta , despite knowing v well that people there had not really accepted her . But when things got messy at Shah front , she conveniently ignored her , leaving her to fend for herself or with Anuj or Kaka . I can’t forget on that resort holiday she left CA alone floating in the pool , while unnecessarily fussing over that Baa . 😡

Anuj being an adopted kid himself is better able to tune in to CA’s insecurities and emotional needs . Though he says he’s afraid CA will turn out like Anu , she’s also like a mini Anuj right now -,the one whose struggled with Haq jatana his entire life . Whereas so called Universal Maa is completely clueless cz she’s too busy being Mahaan or mothering her grown up adult kids or seeking validation from her exes .

Heart really breaks for CA 💔( n Asmi is such a brilliant performer) , really wish she had atleast Kaka or maybe Kanta Maa with her at this time along wish Anuj .

I don’t think leap separation will happen , but things will escalate for drama before Anupamaa realises . How much they’ll stretch this I guess will depend on TRP

Originally posted by: HoneyBee7312

I keep wondering what even was the point? What was the point of Anuj and Anupama getting married if all MAA was ever going to do is take care of her precious Shah family? Anuj seems happy enough with adopted kid. Maybe that was all he needed, adopting a child of his own and raising them with good values. It would have taken away his loneliness, improved the life of a child in need and saved him from this toxic Shah nonsense.

At this point remaining unmarried whole life would have been better than what Anuj got. For all his considerations, there is no respect for him and his in this so called relationship. He is forced to fold hands and beg his wife to pay attention to their adopted daughter. I have seen step parents behave better than Anupama is with a child she claims to love.

The most heartbreaking end of the stick is handed to little Anu in this whole fiasco. From such a young age the poor child is learning that she is second for her mother, that she cannot take her troubles/fears to her parents because they need to take care of others before her. The worst scene was Anupama doing her stupid fake sobbing on phone and little Anu reassuring her! No child should ever have to grow so mature that they start comforting their parents, at least not at such a young age!

If there is no pay off, if the makers do not make Anupama change her ways or make her face real consequences after showing this track, I'm filing a damn complaint against this show. Because they are showing essentially what is straight up child abuse and that should never go unpunished

Infact, there is point in Anupama getting divorced from Mr.Shah to begin with. There is no progress on the professional or personal front. Only additional grief to others around her.🤔

Originally posted by: Sleeepyy

As ridiculous as this sounds I won't be surprised if this happens . Also as Kavya has become extra sweet these days she could say hamara bacha paalne me tum hmaari madad krogi naa Anupamaaa and Maa will say mein sabko saath leke chalungi 🤔

Originally posted by: SmithaRam

Infact, there is point in Anupama getting divorced from Mr.Shah to begin with. There is no progress on the professional or personal front. Only additional grief to others around her.🤔

She’s regressed only ... I don’t think she was this batsh*t crazy even when she was living with Shah’s post divorce 😆...the way she’s running around like a headless chicken , balancing Matkas and stuffing chocolates and having panic attacks every day

Originally posted by: ga1986

I haven’t seen many episodes pre Anuj entry , but I feel Anupamaa’s concept of motherhood has been restricted to cooking for her children , taking care of their every need inc washing, ironing their clothes , mollycoddling them well into adulthood by giving them glasses of milk and cold coffee even when they’re old enough to make it themselves, giving useless Bhashans in name of Sanskaar and generally follow the Baa’s definition of being a mother . She’s never really tuned into their emotional needs , except maybe Samar , that’s why despite her talk claims “ Maa apne bachde ko pehchanti hai “ , she’s still shocked by the kind of monsters P and T have turned out to become ...

Yes! that is exactly how her life was prior to her uncovering V's EMA. She had then vowed to turn things around. Waiting for that day to dawn!. Little did we know that her words meant nothing. Nada, zilch, zero, diddly-squat!

Does anuj has no househelp. I mean he is so rich but there is jo cook to make Chai .

I hope the episodes stay this way. I am loving the savage Anuj who is throwing sarcasm and truth bombs with every sentence. He looks hot when he gives it back!