Originally posted by: ChirpyKiya10
Very well said!!
खुदगर्ज़ दुनिया में ये इन्सान की पहचान है
जो पराई आग में जल जाए वो इन्सान है!!
This verse sounds very good and inspirational. Right.
When we are single or alone, we can do and do a lot without thinking of consequences, take so many risks but when we become parents, we think first of all about our kids, we are concerned about their security and safety. I think there is nothing wrong with it.
Coming to Anupama, Anuj is a millionaire. he can arrange personal security for himself, his wife and daughter, and the whole family. Can a simple middle-class person get such security? Police will be there on his one call in case of any emergency. Is it possible for a middle or lower -middle class person?
If Arjun, would have thought that and kept his weapons down, then not only Draupadi, many women would have been humiliated, if he thought that the people are his own family members and showed mercy on them.
Not any intention to offend anybody.
My pov is diff here.
First of all who gave the right to yudihster to gamble Draupadi.. was she some commodity?
In Mahabharat, Star Plus, Draupadi raises such question, wont like elaborate much.
secondly, why did not anyone lift his weapon when Dushasan was outraging the modesty of a woman? leave others, arjun, bheem if not as husband, as men, was it not their responsibility to protect a woman. dont you think, they also needed to be punished?
If they have stopped or killed Dushasan at that time only, lives of thousands of innocent soldiers could be saved.
I really feel that Dusashan should have been killed at that moment itself. But then Duryodhan will also killed and when Duryodhan will be killed then all will be ready to kill Dhritarashtra and then Shakuni and Gandhari were equally to be blamed. Bheeshma stayed silent because of his so called promises, Arjun because of his promises, Yudhishthir because of his RajDharma. I honestly feel Mahabharat has happened because of everyone's mistake. PAndavas got a punishment of their mistake in the exile but Kauravas hadn't learnt their lesson. Krishna said that everyone has to be punished because that time the world was full of Adharma people, so Mahabharat was the purification.
I think insaan bahar ka kachra saaf karne se pehle agar apne ghar ka kachra saaf kare, ghar ki responsibility le, apne kids mei values inculcate kare, toh kuch toh change aayega.
Further, Laws should be so rigorous for such heinous crime that a man would not dare to even think about it. and justice should be carried out asap. should not be delayed for years at least for such crimes.
Nice post and true questions
My answers in red
Actually Mahabharat has happened because of the Man ka Dwandwa. Fight about perceptions it is. A right thought and a bad thought.
For the opinion you mentioned, we all ladies want this thing to happen, that it was Pandavas mistake, some will say it is Duryodhan's ego, some will say it is Dusashan's evil hands, it is the plot of Shakuni, blindness of Dhritrashtra , but the actual game was of Krishna's, if he had wanted to end people's life for a better cause then he will do it. He is the mastermind. He thinks of a greater good.
All the questions you have raised are correct and in the Mahabharat Star Plus, Krishna enlightens every character about about wrong they have done. Krishna tells Bhishma and Drona, that why you remained silent, why they supported the wrong.
When Arjun fears to raise his weapons, then he says that you are crying for the people who dont deserve it.
Anupama doesn't deserve such heavy talks but the situation of whether she should support Dimple or not. That reminds me of this Mahabharat situation