Confession scene analysis - Pt2 pg2- why ViDev is so Real. - Page 4

Yr telly ye apne itna cute signature lga lia h ki mein to isko hi dekhti jaari hu. Ye Dev kitni mischievous smile dera hai. Jb ye vidhi k bger rh nhi payega tb pta nhi kesi smiles dega. Uffffff! Isko dekh dekh k mjhe kuch kuch hora hai telly. ☺️

Such a beautiful writing telly

Aap hamesha perfect tarah se karte ho analysis And life is full of ups and downs so i think jo dev ne face kiya kabhi kabhi hum sab ne uska kuch part feel kiya hi hoga life mein

Originally posted by: Telly_Addict

Part#2 why ViDev is so Crucial.

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Dev...

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but pahle thoda sa flahback...

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A 45 yo man who lived last 30 years as A Son, as A brother,

lived just for others, was a giver all this while, always put his family (even strangers) first...

just imagine a 15 yo boy who lost his dad and he had to be an Adult overnight, who missed his teenage years in a blink of an eye.. and all he has left with are responsibilities of the household on his shoulders as Ghar ka Bada Beta.

and he took it all with pride.. cause this is not just any family its his Dad's beloved family... and he considered it to be an honor to be able to take care of it instead of his Dad...not everyone can do so.

And he gave his all... without cribbing. and while taking care of that family he mastered the skill to keep himself at the bottom of the list... in his very own list.

Just recall that khau gali ka scene when Dev says to Vidhi "bachpan ka ek ghanta lautane ka vada kiya tha,, tumne to pura bachpan lauta diya"

why that line was used.. why it was important...??

cause it was there to emphasis that Dev..even as 45 yo man now still misses those childhood days, still misses going out, having fun, making memories with friends......

he must hv had more such moments to miss his 16 yo self being a brat at home in front of his dad, to throw tantrum to get some thing dad dint want to give him, to hide behind his mom to be saved from his dad's wrath,

or 18 yo boy who could skip college to watch movie in theatre,

20 yo boy having fun in a college outing at khau gali...

and many many many more such memories...

but he never had those memories.. he couldn't create those memories as he was always living for others.. to let them make memories.

and it was so normal until when Vidhi took him to khau gali...

she let him be, he enjoyed as a free bird first time in life... he found a friend in her... cause that 15 yo kid is still craving for a friend but all he has around are grown up people who talk like adults behave likes adults...

and first time he found someone with whom he can be a child again.

(there is a saying in one of my fav kdramas that if you face a trauma in childhood.. a part of you remains in that childhood forever scared and scarred waiting to be rescued by someone who can dare to look behind that façade of The Adult you)

Vidhi did that very same thing... though unknowingly.... and that thing forced him to observe her more.

he was always drawn towards her for very same reason.

She was too Masoom for her age...

(may be i am overseeing.. but i felt Dev saw a helpless kid in her who had no one to guide her, to hold her hand to help her learn... just like he was left alone fighting his own battles at 15.. he connected with her mostly cause of that.. my personal POV)

So he saw a helpless kid in her.. whom he could help n groom...

while she unknowingly gave her hand and pulled that 15 yo kid out of his trauma of being An Adult so soon.

*as always blabbering post cause bahut kuch kehna hai.. but theek se likha ya nahi pata nahi.*

Thank you! for explaining it so beautifully. 😊

It just makes so much sense how finally after years of being alone he finally noticed someone and fell for her so gradually that he didn't even realise it.. if vidhi wasn't this vocal about her feelings, he would never have come to face the truth.. or even questioned his care or affection for her.. it would always had been ki wo alag hai, masoom hai, imandaar hai (he was at loss of words when Vidhi asked him this in his imagination)

Infact Dev ki jealousy, care, urge to spend time with her or share his secrets.. all these had started before he realised that Vidhi might be infatuated with him (1st coffee date).

Their love is more of Rooh ka connection than physical attraction.. (tabhi uncle banne mei insan ko problem nahi hui thi initially, jk 😂)

And those painful expressions (and snort) when he saw Vidhi on cloud 9 after his confession, is so beautifully potrayed by Iqbal.. Dev found his happiness after so long and he has to let it go.. that too for her only.. =(

Telly yaar.... Kuch words nhi hain mere pass... I just want to give you a tight hug... We both are connected by common pain of losing father at the most crucial age of our lives.. I can feel each and every word yaar...

But let me tell you you are the sweetest and softest person... Wishing you a life full of happiness yaar...

Once again thank you.. And a tight vala hug 🤗🤗

Damn.....always love this kind of post tht give personal touch to the scene to the epi n make it masterpiece in their own style..

Beautifully written yaar...n yes their confession was something different...esa lagta he yaar kya tha kuch bole n khatam..par agar un dono ko dhyan se dekho samjo to pata chalta he ki is shadgi me kitni sundarta he...

loved ur analysis...thanks for d tag...sorry thoda late ho gai me.

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The confession portrayal and all the emotions by both Dev and Vidhi were so natural and had so much of ease!!

Dev just wanted Vidhi to know what he felt. And Vidhi was happy to learn the truth.

Everything was so natural and organic. There was no OTT, no thaam jhaam. And the conversation that followed was also very natural. The maturity that Dev gained over the years shows here. Yes, confessing love is one huge step, but how you take your love forward is a huge different thing. As organic as their falling in love was, the path forward should be as organic and pure as possible. And I dont want the serial to fall into the regular TRP trope and mess things up.

And in all this, SW and Abhi are still holding on to what I perceived of them. And nothing cunning or conniving of them.

Loved how SW supports Dev through and through.

Loved how Abhi responds to Priya on why Dev stepped back on the engagement. He still has his respect and love towards Dev, but struggling to understand what will be a middle path between Dev and Chitra. He wants the best for both his siblings. Didnt bring in the "Step" sibling angle in (yet).

Deeply & Beautifully analyzed, bang on! There are thoughts about ViDev in my mind but will never be able to express in words, and you put my thoughts in words. Gave me Peace of mind, thanks and please keep analyzing 👍🏼

Shab

Originally posted by: Geeta06

Telly yaar your post bring tears in my eyes.. Let me tell you the reason. I lost my dad when i was 16..financial condition was not good at that time.. Being a elder sister i can relate to dev... Mera bhi chota bhai hai.. Jis din mere father ki death hui usi din se bhai ko settle krne ki tension hone lagi... College gyi but kabhi kuch enjoy nhi kiya.. Na Friends ka sath koi masti... Kuch nhi.. Bas ghar ko sambhalne ki tension.. Jo khud krna chahti thi.. Vo sab piche chod diya... Bahut achi thi study mein.. Bahut bade bade dreams bhi the... But sab bhoolna pada... Finally brother got settled.. I was 26...sab mujhe khadoos akdu , gusse vali nd pta nhi kya kya bulate the... Kyunki ho gyi thi main aisi... But i was very alone... Fir entry hui bestest part of my life... My husband... Mujhse 11 years bade hain... 2 months k dating period ka baad hi shaadi ki... Nd after 5 years of marriage you will see me as the happiest, chirpy, doing masti all the time type of girl..

My husband is literally my best friend.. He tried to fulfill all my dreams.. Thoda age ki wajah se kuch baatein puri na ho payi unki koshish k bawjood... But aaj mujhe life mein koi regrets type kuch nhi hai... I am reliving my childhood again...wo mujhe bilkul chote bacche ki tarah pamper krte hain... Aaj mujhe kisi ko settle nhi krna... Koi financial issues k bare meon nahi sochna.. Kuch nhi.. Vo bas yahi chahte hain ki main shararat karun... Tv dekhun... Friends k sath parties karin and everything jo main nahi kr payi... Nd now at 31 i am enjoying my life to the fullest...

Aapki post padhi to dev ka side ko bahut realistic likha aapne... Suddenly mujhe mere vo din yaad aa gye.. And once again i am thanking the Almighty for giving me world's bestest husband and my soulmate..

Thank you so much dear... May God bless you

Sorry thoda jyada lamba post likha.. Nd apni khud ki hi ramayan likhne baith gyi.. But i really wanted you to know ki why this post is close to my heart

I could feel the emotion that u wrote👍🏼🤗

Originally posted by: lilsasha

Deeply & Beautifully analyzed, bang on! There are thoughts about ViDev in my mind but will never be able to express in words, and you put my thoughts in words. Gave me Peace of mind, thanks and please keep analyzing 👍🏼

Shab

thank you so much for your kind words..

i have one last installment pending which i might be able to write this weekend...

thanks again🤗