Have you ever been in love in your life? - Page 7

Originally posted by: ffkhan

If they cannot drive their shyness away and make the girl confused in the long run, then it's their loss, nothing to justify about it really

Men cant be shy or nervous or insecure. Both sexes do. They need some slack cut

Originally posted by: Maroonporsche

Maybe he was nervous

Like what? Why? We’re dating for a couple of months, what’s there to be nervous?

Originally posted by: SteFanSalvaTor

Like what? Why? We’re dating for a couple of months, what’s there to be nervous?

Can you repeat the story one time for my full concentration ?

Originally posted by: ffkhan

@Bold: He'll never tell that directly in front of your face because that's what they want, to keep you in guessing and that's how they roll their dice. But good that you’ve already sensed his aloofness and not falling for his trap.

And don't ever think that it's your mistake honey, coz it's not the case. It's good that at least you tried to get to know him better initially, so there should be no regrets from your side...otherwise there would always be a "what if" question on your mind. If he ever try to knock you or anything then you can confront, but for now keep him out of your mind scenario too. After all, you deserve all the self-nurturing.❤️

I guess you’re right. Honestly, I live alone and my life is stressful so once I got to know him and he gave me attention, it felt good, I thought things were finally working out but I guess I misread it. Thanks for the advice, I’ll keep out of touch with him? If he doesn’t call or text then I think I’ll just forget about it, and next time he does I will just ask him what does he actually want?

Originally posted by: Maroonporsche

Can you repeat the story one time for my full concentration ?

So here’s the full story..

2.5 years ago we were introduced through a common friend and we texted few times and after that he told me he’s romantically odd so he doesn’t see anything happening between us. I was like okay. I unfollowed him from my social media too.

2.5 years later, like two months ago he followed me and texted me, he started showing interest and gave me attention and after few days took my cell phone number, we started getting to know each other over texts and call. Then we met, it was just after my birthday so he brought gifts for me too. After that we bonded better, and things continued well, god conversations and all.

Last week the last thing he texted me was he cooked a delicious dinner for himself to which I replied with a general delicious and yummy comment. After that he just stopped texting or calling, it’s a week now?

I mean what’s this behavior? We didn’t even fight, nothing happened, he just stopped contacting. If he’s expecting me to contact then I’m not doing it, he was the one to approach, he should have been more responsible. I’m very very annoyed right now.

Originally posted by: SteFanSalvaTor

So here’s the full story..

2.5 years ago we were introduced through a common friend and we texted few times and after that he told me he’s romantically odd so he doesn’t see anything happening between us. I was like okay. I unfollowed him from my social media too.

2.5 years later, like two months ago he followed me and texted me, he started showing interest and gave me attention and after few days took my cell phone number, we started getting to know each other over texts and call. Then we met, it was just after my birthday so he brought gifts for me too. After that we bonded better, and things continued well, god conversations and all.

Last week the last thing he texted me was he cooked a delicious dinner for himself to which I replied with a general delicious and yummy comment. After that he just stopped texting or calling, it’s a week now?

I mean what’s this behavior? We didn’t even fight, nothing happened, he just stopped contacting. If he’s expecting me to contact then I’m not doing it, he was the one to approach, he should have been more responsible. I’m very very annoyed right now.

Wow

I wanted to give him benefit of doubt but he sounds like a jerk. I honestly think he is trying to keep you interested so he can use you as a final option. I think he may be seeing other people too. An wants you as failsafe. Thats why he only randomly makes contact.

Originally posted by: Maroonporsche

Wow

I wanted to give him benefit of doubt but he sounds like a jerk. I honestly think he is trying to keep you interested so he can use you as a final option. I think he may be seeing other people too. An wants you as failsafe. Thats why he only randomly makes contact.

After reading her full story, I have been thinking the same.

If they two practically dated, like doing couple stuff, then he was the one who took advantage. And even if nothing happened but he showed interested in her while keeping her at the bay, then also it means he was enjoying her attention only.

In dating terms it's called submarining, where the guy keeps disappearing and then reappears out of the blue when he needs 'supply' again.

Originally posted by: SteFanSalvaTor

So here’s the full story..

2.5 years ago we were introduced through a common friend and we texted few times and after that he told me he’s romantically odd so he doesn’t see anything happening between us. I was like okay. I unfollowed him from my social media too.

2.5 years later, like two months ago he followed me and texted me, he started showing interest and gave me attention and after few days took my cell phone number, we started getting to know each other over texts and call. Then we met, it was just after my birthday so he brought gifts for me too. After that we bonded better, and things continued well, god conversations and all.

Last week the last thing he texted me was he cooked a delicious dinner for himself to which I replied with a general delicious and yummy comment. After that he just stopped texting or calling, it’s a week now?

I mean what’s this behavior? We didn’t even fight, nothing happened, he just stopped contacting. If he’s expecting me to contact then I’m not doing it, he was the one to approach, he should have been more responsible. I’m very very annoyed right now.

I didn’t know all these details before, but now that I have read your whole story, I would suggest you to call him and communicate about everything, ask him if he has any sort of expectations from you. And then if he still shows confusion about dating you, then block him from everywhere. Earlier I thought that the guy was nothing but a crush/casual friend, so my suggestion was based on that. But since that you two met and he even gave you gift and stuffs, so you have the full right to directly ask him about everything for a closure.

Originally posted by: ffkhan

After reading her full story, I have been thinking the same.

If they two practically dated, like doing couple stuff, then he was the one who took advantage. And even if nothing happened but he showed interested in her while keeping her at the bay, then also it means he was enjoying her attention only.

In dating terms it's called submarining, where the guy keeps disappearing and then reappears out of the blue when he needs 'supply' again.

Exactly ask for some closure. Ask him why he ghosts you ? Maybe ask him who else he is seeing ?

Thank you for all the suggestions guys. Yes, he met me, gave me gifts, raised my expectations and everything was going all right and now that’s why I was being pissed off as he’s not calling or texting anymore. I’ll listen to you guys and call him tonight and no matter what he says I’m done with this shitty behavior of his. I’ve given him two chances, are har more could I do?