Have you ever been in love in your life? - Page 5

yes I have his mom complaint to my mom that I send her son message and we broke up. Then during teenage his mom called my mom and we broke up I dated 2 boys in the past.

Yes, been in love twice. The first one really broke me, it took me 4 years to get over it and even start talking to opposite sex. The second one is current. I don't have regrets except for the fact that I wanted to have kids sooner. Hoping this one works, but I am very cautious now and if things don't last, I won't be as broken anymore, I am way stronger now.

Originally posted by: D3viL

Yeah in a day 🤣

Originally posted by: LazyBiing

With the same person I believe 😆

It's definitely 36 a day with different ppl

in hindsight, yes. A couple times. I did not know it then but the fact I think of them after these years means something...

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Originally posted by: SteFanSalvaTor

One thing which i do not understand is why do guys approach me, show interest and then just behave as if I was the one dying for their attention? WTF is wrong with their heads? Recently, someone approached me and showed so much interest, and all, met me and showed even more interest and all, then after few days he is like gone, no texts, no calls, like WTH am i supposed to do or understand from this? If time passing was his only motive then I guess he won, otherwise i mis-read him and thought sth serious could happen between us. I honestly have lost trust in men and i do not think i will find a stable relationship and someone who genuinely would want to be with me.

Either they are not aware that they are leading someone on by flirting, being nice and giving attention or they do not know that leading someone on with no intention of commiting to them is equivalent to killing them.. Most guys only understand pain when they actually get cheated on or when it is unrequited..

Originally posted by: YourCat

Either they are not aware that they are leading someone on by flirting, being nice and giving attention or they do not know that leading someone on with no intention of commiting to them is equivalent to killing them.. Most guys only understand pain when they actually get cheated on or when it is unrequited..

How can grown up men with full fledged education and job won’t realize that how fvcked up they’re? This is heights honestly, I don’t know what to di, whether I should text him or just stay like this, ghosted? But i have lost faith in men being intelligent and even trying to be real, no offense to anyone here but personally I’ve attracted the shittiest men out there, either it’s my fault or Meri kismat hi kharab hai

Originally posted by: ffkhan

I totally feel you girl! Perhaps it's better if we leave such guys alone, and if in case he's connected with you on the social media, better you start ignoring all his posts and mute his updates so that you don't have to see his face on the newsfeed anymore. I have noticed that the more we run and forget their existence, the more they try to come back again to get some attention from us and to seek validance.

Their main intention is to just play mind games with empathic girls. Such people will always be around, hence we are the ones who need to level up here. They teach us how to identify people like them better. Therefore now I don't take those guys back into my life anymore by creating a distance forever. Period.

I’ve muted his updates, and he’s shameless, he’s posting stupid pictures to seek my attention. If he’s not interested to date me anymore then why can’t he directly say it? I’m not dying in his love right, things can end in a nature way, but he’s just not contacting.

I think it’s my mistake, I actually thought giving him a chance might sparkle things between us. Anyways, I know you’re right, such losers probably want only attention. I’m going to ignore him. I just want to block him from my contacts too but I don’t know when to do it, I want to scold him and then ask him to Fvck off

Originally posted by: SteFanSalvaTor

I’ve muted his updates, and he’s shameless, he’s posting stupid pictures to seek my attention. If he’s not interested to date me anymore then why can’t he directly say it? I’m not dying in his love right, things can end in a nature way, but he’s just not contacting.

I think it’s my mistake, I actually thought giving him a chance might sparkle things between us. Anyways, I know you’re right, such losers probably want only attention. I’m going to ignore him. I just want to block him from my contacts too but I don’t know when to do it, I want to scold him and then ask him to Fvck off

@Bold: He'll never tell that directly in front of your face because that's what they want, to keep you in guessing and that's how they roll their dice. But good that you’ve already sensed his aloofness and not falling for his trap.

And don't ever think that it's your mistake honey, coz it's not the case. It's good that at least you tried to get to know him better initially, so there should be no regrets from your side...otherwise there would always be a "what if" question on your mind. If he ever try to knock you or anything then you can confront, but for now keep him out of your mind scenario too. After all, you deserve all the self-nurturing.❤️

Originally posted by: SteFanSalvaTor

One thing which i do not understand is why do guys approach me, show interest and then just behave as if I was the one dying for their attention? WTF is wrong with their heads? Recently, someone approached me and showed so much interest, and all, met me and showed even more interest and all, then after few days he is like gone, no texts, no calls, like WTH am i supposed to do or understand from this? If time passing was his only motive then I guess he won, otherwise i mis-read him and thought sth serious could happen between us. I honestly have lost trust in men and i do not think i will find a stable relationship and someone who genuinely would want to be with me.

Maybe he was nervous