Male Chauvinist Shahs

While all are happy that pakhi has been thrown out of house and not allowed in kapadiyas or shahs i think this is very unfair on a show preaching woman empowerment

Almost every female in ITV has run and married suddenly or missed her wedding

Did not kinjal and toshu run away and mary and anupama did arthi and welcomed them. She refused to give kinjal mom dad right to oppose daughter action saying shes her bahu now and gave 1 hour lecture to rakhi to accept what happened without creating scenes

Same anupama and shahs did kavya wedding to vanraj and did arthi and brought her to shah house

Same shahs were fine anuj and anupama staying in apartment without marraige and never cut off relationship from anupama for that

Same shahs were ok with samar throwing engagement ring at nandini face

Now only reason i see adhik and pakhi being kicked off fromboth houses is because adhik is not super rich like anuj kapadiya

So shah house men can run and marry anyone will be done arthi and welcomed

Anuj can live in with anupama because hes super rich and shahs are after his wealth so everything is ok

But adhik really marrying pakhi without using her and throwing her off like vanraj, toshu and samar did to other women is crime

There is one rule for vanraj, toshu and samar because they are shah men

Same rule as shah men apply to anuj kapadia because hes millionaire

But adhik is villan even after marrying his girl friend?

Is this women empowerment show or women abuse show?

When vanraj can have affairs with ritika, kavya, malvika etc and still hero arthi happens to him by all incuding anuj kapadiya

When toshu had affair when wife pregnant and giving birth and again hero welcome and sent to anger management course

When anupama can live in with classmate cum boy friend anuj kapadiya sing dance cook and god knows do whatever even a husband wife will not do living together in a conservative society

when toshu can roam with kinjal before marraige and samar with nandini before wedding

What is guarantee all these were not going to hotel rooms and houses to break maryada?

Only if daughter goes to resort with BF its maryada issue and she cannot fgo to college or sent off other city?

Only if BF marries his GF pakhi they are thrown out

Why was anupama not thrown from their lives by shahs for openly declaring that she loves anuj and staying with him in one house

Why was varaj kavya done marraige and arthi nikalo by anupam adevi and not kicked off by anupama and shahs?

Why kinjal and toshu not kicked off by anupama and shahs?

Same mistake and more this adhik pakhi did all above did much more actually

Is this truly women equality and empowerment show where any illegal thing FL and FL ex and her sons do as per society is women empowerment but same thing her daughter does is illegal against maryada?

Is this not what is patriarchy does?

Anupama and Anuj have love before marriage But at least both were not depended on family for their expenses of their marriage life .for whole life anupama ne to apne paise se shaadi ki thi the amount she got from dance competition

Anupama ne toshu ko bhi samjahya tha to have patience but he ran away and married to kinjal

Anupama did told to kintosh what ever u did wrong and today anupama told padhik u did same mistake like toshu kinjal did instead of learning from their mistake u both did same mistake

When kinjal toshu get married both at least did not stop studying and both were atleast thinking about career .

But here nether pakhi thinking how will they manage house hold nor adhik was thinking how will they manage house hold .shaadi to karne jaa Rahe hai but Ghar kaise chalayenge iske liye pakhi aur adhik koi bhi nahi soch raha hai bus in dono ko freeloader bun ke anuj ke paise se zindagi bhar life enjoy Karni hai

Anupama and Anuj has reason to stay at one house because at that time Anuj don't have house money to live at other rent house to us time anupama ne keh diya ki aap mere Ghar mein rahiye .so anupama help anuj at that time

Adhik has no family other than his sister. She is living on charity and as a short term option. Adhik has no job, Vanraj has no job so who is going to fund the requirements of Pakhi? Kinjal was a self respecting young lady with clear work goals

Pakhi thinks in Adhik she has found her prince Charming and will live happily ever after.

Both are short sighted and i wonder which temple allows such run away marriages?

Adhiks own sister doubts his intentions and his sudden confession. She has shown doubts of his intentions in the minds of the Shah's.

The marriage talks between Shah's and Faves had happened and was stalled due to Vanrajs EMA revelation.

I don't think we can compare Kinjal and Pakhis situation . Paritosh and Pakhi have emulated their father thin king they can get away with it.

It's not a patriarchal view alone. It is th ee lack of foresight that is resented.

I think adhik has done graduation from US and can find good job if he wants!

Since he is married and clearly knows that his wife wants to be housewife so he has to start earning for them both.

I am sure soon adhik will start working somewhere or in anuj’s company.

Plus point is adhik is educated so there is a hope!

Ab toh apna kaccha chittha bhi khol diya hai Anuj ke samne so ab toh Anuj ki properly hadapne ka kaam bhi nahi kar sakta.

I dont think it’s about patriarchy here. To be very honest, I find Adhik more genuine than this Pakhi. Adhik has at least completed his education and is 1 step away from getting a job. If he married, there is still chance in few months he’d manage it well and would be able to provide for his family. This is a common instance.

What is not common is the good-for-nothing Pakhi’s attitude. If there is true love, both girlfriend and boyfriend behave more sincere in proving themselves and earning to run their own errands. The girl never says ‘Ohh I want to become or remain housewife’. Girl with true love and intentions never put the pressure on only the boy to manage for their new lives.

Pakhi is a leech. I hope Adhik drops her like hot cake when Pakhi starts her tantrums about not being able to manage with Jobs or Money, and she realizes she is a waste of oxygen on earth. If the serial goes onto to show Pakhi learning from her mistakes and deciding to earn, then also okay, it’s be more realistic, but I really want Pakhi to suffer my wish would be unfulfilled then. 😆

Originally posted by: myviewprem

While all are happy that pakhi has been thrown out of house and not allowed in kapadiyas or shahs i think this is very unfair on a show preaching woman empowerment

Almost every female in ITV has run and married suddenly or missed her wedding

Did not kinjal and toshu run away and mary and anupama did arthi and welcomed them. She refused to give kinjal mom dad right to oppose daughter action saying shes her bahu now and gave 1 hour lecture to rakhi to accept what happened without creating scenes

Same anupama and shahs did kavya wedding to vanraj and did arthi and brought her to shah house

Same shahs were fine anuj and anupama staying in apartment without marraige and never cut off relationship from anupama for that

Same shahs were ok with samar throwing engagement ring at nandini face

Now only reason i see adhik and pakhi being kicked off fromboth houses is because adhik is not super rich like anuj kapadiya

So shah house men can run and marry anyone will be done arthi and welcomed

Anuj can live in with anupama because hes super rich and shahs are after his wealth so everything is ok

But adhik really marrying pakhi without using her and throwing her off like vanraj, toshu and samar did to other women is crime

There is one rule for vanraj, toshu and samar because they are shah men

Same rule as shah men apply to anuj kapadia because hes millionaire

But adhik is villan even after marrying his girl friend?

Is this women empowerment show or women abuse show?

When vanraj can have affairs with ritika, kavya, malvika etc and still hero arthi happens to him by all incuding anuj kapadiya

When toshu had affair when wife pregnant and giving birth and again hero welcome and sent to anger management course

When anupama can live in with classmate cum boy friend anuj kapadiya sing dance cook and god knows do whatever even a husband wife will not do living together in a conservative society

when toshu can roam with kinjal before marraige and samar with nandini before wedding

What is guarantee all these were not going to hotel rooms and houses to break maryada?

Only if daughter goes to resort with BF its maryada issue and she cannot fgo to college or sent off other city?

Only if BF marries his GF pakhi they are thrown out

Why was anupama not thrown from their lives by shahs for openly declaring that she loves anuj and staying with him in one house

Why was varaj kavya done marraige and arthi nikalo by anupam adevi and not kicked off by anupama and shahs?

Why kinjal and toshu not kicked off by anupama and shahs?

Same mistake and more this adhik pakhi did all above did much more actually

Is this truly women equality and empowerment show where any illegal thing FL and FL ex and her sons do as per society is women empowerment but same thing her daughter does is illegal against maryada?

Is this not what is patriarchy does?

People who are calling Shahs hypocrites for throwing Pakhi out and having different rules for her than others, please understand that it is not about girl vs boy. It is about who has the ability to support themselves and who doesn’t.

Paritosh and Kinjal: They were on the cusp of completing their MBA and sitting for on campus placements. Even if the family threw them out, they would have been able to survive as they had completed their education and were in the process of starting jobs.

Samar and Nandini: Both were working and earning at Anupama’s Dance Academy.

Anupama and Anuj: Both were earning and capable of taking care of family.

Vanraj and Kavya: At least Kavya was earning at the time of Marriage.

Now, Pakhi and Adhik: Pakhi has not completed her Bachelors and has no idea how to earn money. Adhik, while having completed his Bachelors education, has no job.

Yeh dono kisi amir ghar mein thodi paida hue hain that they are fed with Chandi ki chammach.

Middle Class families nowadays are quite open minded. They only want that their kids are financially independent and secure. Uske baad woh jo karen so karen.

This is still empowerment. Encouraging children to be financially independent is a form of empowerment.

The only caveat with ITV is that Anupama deviji should not let Pakhi and Adhik into Kapadia Mansion. Not even under the pretext that “tumhare paas ek mahina hai kaam dhundne ke liye”. Pata chale Mrs. Kapadia aarti ki thaal lekar khadi hai Kapadia Mansion ke bahar.

And Anuj needs to keep his trap shut and not start “Pakhi ki khushiyan meri Anupama ke liye zaroori hain and Pakhi ki khushiyaan Adhik se judi hain. Toh let me give him a job and let both of them live here in Kapadia Mansion”. This Anupama ke gungaan and seva without thinking about consequences is making this character intolerable.

They should do what Amitabh Bacchon did in the movie Waqt and made his son, Akshay Kumar, and daughter-in-law, Priyanka Chopra to stay in a out house. That movie was also about teaching responsibilities to his kids. Although they both were ultra rich.

Originally posted by: prerna4rishav

I dont think it’s about patriarchy here. To be very honest, I find Adhik more genuine than this Pakhi. Adhik has at least completed his education and is 1 step away from getting a job. If he married, there is still chance in few months he’d manage it well and would be able to provide for his family. This is a common instance.

What is not common is the good-for-nothing Pakhi’s attitude. If there is true love, both girlfriend and boyfriend behave more sincere in proving themselves and earning to run their own errands. The girl never says ‘Ohh I want to become or remain housewife’. Girl with true love and intentions never put the pressure on only the boy to manage for their new lives.

Pakhi is a leech. I hope Adhik drops her like hot cake when Pakhi starts her tantrums about not being able to manage with Jobs or Money, and she realizes she is a waste of oxygen on earth. If the serial goes onto to show Pakhi learning from her mistakes and deciding to earn, then also okay, it’s be more realistic, but I really want Pakhi to suffer my wish would be unfulfilled then. 😆