[Member Poll] WHAT ARE YOUR LIFE CHALLENGES

The desire of knowing your own soul ends every other desire and is a gateway of success on each & every level when one becomes transparent with one's self.

Let's be honest and open and vote & discuss your flaws without hesitation or without caring about the image we all have portrayed on this forum over all these years. Taking advantage of this anonymity and lets grow together :)

You can discuss and share any other aspect as well not mentioned in the polling list, do.not limit this topic that has full potential for self growth for all of us.

Everyone is MORE THAN welcome to participate, not just the tagged ones.

I am not reliable in romantic relationships. I fall in and out of feels very easily. I am working on it.

Originally posted by: PyaasaMacchhar

I have all of these.

Most of us does.

In varied frequencies & magnitude.

Even I have many mentioned in the list.

It's just that until we start acknowledging them, the door of self improvement will not open.

I voted for no 4 though as at this point in time in my life I guess this is the one I need to work most at. :)

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I wish I could block the poll maker

Way too nostalgic, lives in the past mostly🥺

Originally posted by: hasini009

Way too nostalgic, lives in the past mostly🥺

Dear Hasini

I used to have this.

To get over a major chunk of it, the trick/way is that whenever you feel nostalgia, the memories, people, sites, sounds, places etc and your mind tries to glorify it to prevent you from enjoying the present moment i.e. LIFE, just start decoding that period of nostalgia with FACTS.

How ACTUALLY that time was in reality in that period, by going into it mentally, imaging yourself the person you were THEN and not now with a different mind set.. and with practice you will get outta the clutches of this overly glorified past aka nostalgia.

Nostalgia is an illusion, not reality, things were not like that back then which we view/conceptualize/glorify now.

If I have one flaw its that I have no flaws 😆

Originally posted by: Maroonporsche

If I have one flaw its that I have no flaws 😆

This makes you a narcissist Omar

So that's a major flaw

😆❤️

Too hard on myself. Im also very clumsy. Not the cute clumsy which they show in the movies. The one where I did not notice the wall that was right in front of my eyes and bumped into it. The one where I thought a random group was my friend group and almost went and sat with them😐

Originally posted by: Phenyl

Too hard on myself. Im also very clumsy. Not the cute clumsy which they show in the movies. The one where I did not notice the wall that was right in front of my eyes and bumped into it. The one where I thought a random group was my friend group and almost went and sat with them😐

Seems like anxitey related issues.

It's ok to be clumsy , we all r in one way or another, most r good at hiding it.

Maybe someone used to have in your life who used to shame or blame you front of others in the name of so called guidance and instill this nature of self doubt and self image issues.

Don't judge yourself. You are a being and a soul a human being and this is more than enough, provided you do not harm others or been mean to them and means well for others.