I like rishita!!!!

I dnt know the general mood of this forum as I am not regular here.... But I like rishita

She is the most practical person in that bhabhi bhakt house...... I am all in support for the affection they have for dhara.... But it is Insane stupid on alll times....

Shiva had never liked raavi and yet married her for dhara..... Stupid choice..... They should have been given some time to deal with their respective feelings before asking them to get married..... Raavi took forever to forget dev and the hurt.... She needed that time and should have been peaceful without hyper shiva dancing around with his temper

Shiva married a girl he never liked from the start... He should have been given some time to see this girl as a basic girl and nthin else and understand her nature and likes dislikes instead of being made to feel like a scapegoat cos bada bhai bhag ke shaadi karega..... He needed time and patience to see through that....

Dhara should not have taken decision for others for any reason and these two should not have felt obligated as she raised them

Dev married rishita but constantly had the guilt of letting down his bhabhi more than his own mother....

Rishita always felt like an outsider as her own husband was busy in pleasing bhabhi and the jazz

Krish smoked in secret and only Shiva knew amongst everyone else as he was present in the house... Nahi toh usse bhi pata nahi chalta.... Y soo much authority to her?? Suman should have been made aware of this....

Then he liked janatdan ka daughter...... And the whole chori and bhagna happened.... This would have been very different if dhara had told about krish to the family before itself..... He knew she will cover for him and she got played..... Very much avoidable....

Now he wants to marry shweta so that chiku can stay with them......

Baba..... Give therapy to dhara and even shweta..... Dhare is emotional and obsessed with chiku.... Sad and all..... But that child needs to go back....... She did not steal this time, but knew that ge has to go one day... Therapy pe bhejo yaar isko..... Healthy attachment nahi karti yeh..... And she fell sick as soon as he got kidnapped.... U are not supposed to get sick for a child that is not yours and u know it...... Just not healthy

And mahan bhabhi ka mahan krish thinks keeping shweta here will keep chiku in the house and bhabhi maa will be khush....

Someone needs to tell them world does not revolve around bhabhi.. ..... He has a life of his own..... Decision to be made for self by self.....

Rishita pointed out nicely that u are not ready for marriage..... Shweta or no is not even the point.... He is just getting over keerti.... And now, he thinks shweta will work out??? How????

Raavi goes on a different trip as her understanding of things is limited to her exposure..... Rishita is more practical for everyone involved and is blunt is saying that.... Toh buri ban gayi woh......

All this mahanta bhabhi prem makes me like rishita more and more

She respects the relationship as they are supposed to and puts across her point of view strongly.... Does not back out cos bhabhi ko bura lagega......

These goody two shoes do not accept a practical approach and then blame her 🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️

Originally posted by: Shivifan

you are absolutely right. Only Rishita is in this family who won't worship bhabhi blindly. No one have guts to point out Dhara's mistakes in whole family except Rishita. Rishita is selfish because she knew if she won't take stand for herself then no one will take stand for her.

Being selfish isn't equivalent to standing up for your rights. Rishita is always jealous and pity. She's always irked when someone else gets something. It's like how can they get something, which she hasn't.. she always flips.. shows heart eyes to BhabhiMa, then shows holier than tho feminist attitude of how she should have financial independence and everything in her Life, Nothing wrong in that, but she interferes with Krish's love life viz a viz krish-kirti's relationship stating that she won't let it happen like as if.. she never hijacked Dev-Raavi's wedding and what not. It's always "twada kutta Tomy sada kutta kutta" with her. She's only practical with the Pandyas because she was always taken for a ride by Janu and MotiBen, but kept going back to them coz he was her father! In short, she's practical when it's convenient for her. She wouldn't have married Dev if she had found some real rich/hot NRI. She has only helped Kandyas when her own position was in question.

Originally posted by: Shivifan

she never try to control others life. She was against Krish and Kriti's relationship because she suffered alot after marriage. Dhara is always priority for devars over their wives. No matter how much Raavi and Rishita do for family but they never get any credit and always compared with Dhara. Rishita and Raavi never feel secured in this family again because of Dhara. If they went against Dhara or by mistake they hurt Dhara then they have to bear warth of their respective husband's and whole family. So when you are part of such toxic family where only one members happiness, pain, wishes matter in that situation sometimes we cross our line and fight for ourselves. Raavi is purest soul in family, kya kbhi pandya family ne uski value smjhi???? kya Raavi ko kbhi woh respect, space, love, care mili iss family jo woh deserve krti hai???? Nahi naa. That's is reason why I support her. She is wrong many times but still she is right because of toxic family

Bold 1: still it wasn't her call. The way she filed an FIR against her father before hijacking Dev-Raavi's wedding. It wasn't and will never be her call to take shots for someone else!

Raavi is a pure soul, but Rishita always causes trouble for the Pandyas coz of her father. Every other kaand happens coz of her. From Kidnapping to Loan to IVF kaand, still she gets the support.. BhabhiMa, Gaumbi, even vile lady Suman because she comes from Money and opens her loud mouth once in a while. I like strong practical character, but currently we don't have any. You see Rishita opened her mouth in front of Suman when she accused Raavi of tarnishing Pandya kandan's image coz of SM kaand. She said and i quote "Kisi aur wajah se why would Raavi leave her job", but it was Rishita who kept on pondering over Bikini kaand bikini kaand as per her convenience!! That's not being practical, it's mere pseudo feminism.. she flips all the time!!!

I have also liked rishita in most of the tracks. Of course she is over the top sometimes, but i don't know why I do get her. Atleast much more than dhara and her crying. I love raavi but sometimes i do not understand her pure and unconditional love for shiva and pandya family after what she went through because of them. So it's difficult for me to understand her reactions.

So all in all rishita with her flaws is a relatable characters for me.

Originally posted by: Pixierocks

I have also liked rishita in most of the tracks. Of course she is over the top sometimes, but i don't know why I do get her. Atleast much more than dhara and her crying. I love raavi but sometimes i do not understand her pure and unconditional love for shiva and pandya family after what she went through because of them. So it's difficult for me to understand her reactions.

So all in all rishita with her flaws is a relatable characters for me.

Rishita has her flaws and no denying that but the saving grace is she is practical on many topics.....

Dhara is the basic ITV bahu doing all the sacrifices and silently crying around.... Gets irritating after a point

Raavi was fun and bubbly and nice but now ahe seems to be in a different zone from the rest of the family.....

When she says I support krish as he likes shweta, raavi was more occupied with her own thing and hardly knew what was happening in the house!!!!!