Why doesn't Pakhi understand?

She is trying to support Toshu instead of Kinjal. What if her husband would have done this to her? Would she/Pakhi forgive her own husband for ONS? If not, then why one rule for her and one rule for Kinjal?

Looks like Paakhi’s education has gone to waste. She seems to have the same abusive mentality as people like Baa. Actually nah Paakhi’s character has been written so poorly along with the whole story.. no body actually takes a real stand for anything… they spout some lines about dignity, self respect, healthy boundaries etc and go back to the same regressive behavior within a matter of hours..

This show is a joke.

How Baa and Paakhi can even think to support Toshu in this situation makes no sense.

Don't worry Adhik is gonna betray her soon, and I would love watching her reaction to it

Originally posted by: lizzb1987

She is trying to support Toshu instead of Kinjal. What if her husband would have done this to her? Would she/Pakhi forgive her own husband for ONS? If not, then why one rule for her and one rule for Kinjal?

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Originally posted by: lizzb1987

She is trying to support Toshu instead of Kinjal. What if her husband would have done this to her? Would she/Pakhi forgive her own husband for ONS? If not, then why one rule for her and one rule for Kinjal?

Why will she understand? her logic is the same as Rakhi's. It's not about taking sides, it's about depriving a child of both her parents. Having a broken family is not the best thing in the world.

Paritosh cheated but it's not like Kinjal wasn't warned about this now wasn't it? Rakhi already told her that paritosh would turn out to be no different from his father but she never paid heed to her mother and still went ahead by eloping and getting married to him. Kinjal often gives Paritosh sermons about how he should behave with his mother even if he disagrees with her but she herself treats Rakhi poorly making her a big hypocrite. She herself was never good wife, not that it justifies him cheating but did she seriously think this was not going to happen? her only priority was to only to be a good bahu who wants to live in a joint family without any consideration to what Paritosh may want, she never supported him or took his side, for her it was always anupamaa and shah family first. So why is she so surprised at getting cheated?

Pakhi is just reacting the way she is supposed to react. Anupamaa was like Pakhi does whatever she wants and that doesn't want any parental interference, but this is not true, Anupamaa has always interfered in her life be it in case of adhik or any other matter yet she bulshitting about living life on her own terms when she has pretty much been a controlling mother herself.

I hope bapuji ka ema ho aur I really wish anupama ko agar bapuji ka ema Pata bhi chal jaaye to bhi to bhi anupama ko nahi banana chayiye

Baa ka gyani lecture anupama wapas baa pe hi daalna chahiye ki kya Bata ke karte main aapks Basa basaya Ghar nahi Todna chahti Patni ki Asli Khushi Pati ke saath hi hai bhale hi woh cheater hi kyon na ho to aapka farz aapne Pati ko Har Haal mein khush rakhein .woh husband hai aapke Pati hai woh khuch bhi kar sakte Hai woh cheating kar sake hai but aapko loyal hona chahiye kyonki aap aurat hai aur woh mard hai

Anupama should same thing to pakhi too and anupama should not tell about pakhi husband ema to pakhi

Bapuji ka extra-marital affair hua toh Shah family ka three generations ho jayega. What a legacy!

Originally posted by: Rein123

Why will she understand? her logic is the same as Rakhi's. It's not about taking sides, it's about depriving a child of both her parents. Having a broken family is not the best thing in the world.

Paritosh cheated but it's not like Kinjal wasn't warned about this now wasn't it? Rakhi already told her that paritosh would turn out to be no different from his father but she never paid heed to her mother and still went ahead by eloping and getting married to him. Kinjal often gives Paritosh sermons about how he should behave with his mother even if he disagrees with her but she herself treats Rakhi poorly making her a big hypocrite. She herself was never good wife, not that it justifies him cheating but did she seriously think this was not going to happen? her only priority was to only to be a good bahu who wants to live in a joint family without any consideration to what Paritosh may want, she never supported him or took his side, for her it was always anupamaa and shah family first. So why is she so surprised at getting cheated?

Pakhi is just reacting the way she is supposed to react. Anupamaa was like Pakhi does whatever she wants and that doesn't want any parental interference, but this is not true, Anupamaa has always interfered in her life be it in case of adhik or any other matter yet she bulshitting about living life on her own terms when she has pretty much been a controlling mother herself.

Want to make only one point here

Kinjal DID NOT deprive the child of both parents

Anupama DID NOT deprive the child of both parents

ONLY and ONLY Paritosh did by CHEATING

He cheated not only on his wife but his kid which was still unborn. He made that decision to abandon his wife and kid. And he abanded his family by MAKING that decision

Everything else might be as you said but breaking that family is ONLY on the person who cheated and no one else

I think this is the exact harm the show does, the stupid logic BAA used where she blamed Anupama for breaking the family and not the actual person who cheated on their unborn child and chose another woman over his unborn child and people start parroting it

Once more

The ONLY person who is depriving the child and broke the family is the CHEATER. STOP victim blaming

Originally posted by: Harish111

Want to make only one point here

Kinjal DID NOT deprive the child of both parents

Anupama DID NOT deprive the child of both parents

ONLY and ONLY Paritosh did by CHEATING

He cheated not only on his wife but his kid which was still unborn. He made that decision to abandon his wife and kid. And he abanded his family by MAKING that decision

Everything else might be as you said but breaking that family is ONLY on the person who cheated and no one else

I think this is the exact harm the show does, the stupid logic BAA used where she blamed Anupama for breaking the family and not the actual person who cheated on their unborn child and chose another woman over his unborn child and people start parroting it

Once more

The ONLY person who is depriving the child and broke the family is the CHEATER. STOP victim blaming

She said she doesn't want her child to grow under a father like Paritosh. Vanraj is still with his children now isn't he? Kinjal grew up having her father around too now didn't she inspit of him being a cheater as well.

What victim? Kinjal is not victim. She brought this upon herself by knowingly marrying a guy who is very likely to cheat on her. She is pretty much a culprit as well. So stop defending her.

When Pakhi can feel strongly about separating from her father do you really think the new born baby who happens to be Paritosh's daughter as well be any different? Kinjal seems to he against joint custody as well and that is not right. She doesn't want to stay with Paritosh is one thing but forcing the baby to stay away from him? What nonsense is this?