Why doesn't Pakhi understand? - Page 2

Originally posted by: Rein123

She said she doesn't want her child to grow under a father like Paritosh. Vanraj is still with his children now isn't he? Kinjal grew up having her father around too now didn't she inspit of him being a cheater as well.

What victim? Kinjal is not victim. She brought this upon herself by knowingly marrying a guy who is very likely to cheat on her. She is pretty much a culprit as well. So stop defending her.

That decision is only and only the wife's and no one else. Kinjal is not responsible for Anu's decision

And yes, Kinjal is the victim of a cheater. Just like if a person goes to a shady place and gets murdered they are still the victim and those who blame the victim are still victim blamers.

This is classic victim blaming and an example of the harm such storylines can bring to a country's psyche.

The only person who broke the family and is depriving the kid of a parent is the person who cheated on his wife and unborn kid. It was his decision and he broke the family

Originally posted by: HappySmiles

Looks like Paakhi’s education has gone to waste. She seems to have the same abusive mentality as people like Baa. Actually nah Paakhi’s character has been written so poorly along with the whole story.. no body actually takes a real stand for anything… they spout some lines about dignity, self respect, healthy boundaries etc and go back to the same regressive behavior within a matter of hours..

This show is a joke.

Originally posted by: Muskie

Don't worry Adhik is gonna betray her soon, and I would love watching her reaction to it

And of course Anupama shouldn’t tell Paakhi about his evil intentions even if she does find out according to Paakhi’s logic. Honestly Paakhi needs a reality check.

Shah family has always had one rule for themselves and another rule for the rest of the world. Shah family is sitting on a pedestal from where they can do no wrong while others are always wrong

dont agree. nothing justifies EMA specially when wife is in the last stage of pregnancy. Kinjal may not be an ideal wife but how is toshu a good husband. He married K for her money, wanted all the luxuries without working, is not able to hold or find a job, thought a child is a manhoos burden as didnt want any responsibilities, has double standards and is a despo to boot

When has PAkhi ever made sense? She's the residential clown of Shah house. She's the same person who complained about being from a broken home even when V was abusing and actually even hurt Anupama by pushing her. even a toddler doesnt tolerate that for their mom.

Plus I'm sure, Pakhi will be fine if Adhik apologised with a diamond set. She's like one of those women who know their husband is cheating, yet they dont care because they lovee the money.

Pakhi has seen from her childhood that abusers live their life without a care and get rewarded while the abused has nothing. That was the norm in her family. So she chose to become an abuser herself.

Originally posted by: Rein123

She said she doesn't want her child to grow under a father like Paritosh. Vanraj is still with his children now isn't he? Kinjal grew up having her father around too now didn't she inspit of him being a cheater as well.

What victim? Kinjal is not victim. She brought this upon herself by knowingly marrying a guy who is very likely to cheat on her. She is pretty much a culprit as well. So stop defending her.

When Pakhi can feel strongly about separating from her father do you really think the new born baby who happens to be Paritosh's daughter as well be any different? Kinjal seems to he against joint custody as well and that is not right. She doesn't want to stay with Paritosh is one thing but forcing the baby to stay away from him? What nonsense is this?

@bold- And how exactly would she know that? Just because a father cheated doesn't mean the child would do the same too. You cannot hold children responsible for parents' actions. Kinjal is the VICTIM in this situation. She was cheated upon and that is not her fault.

And we can't say that Kinjal will keep the child away from Paritosh forever. Right now she is acting on her emotions. She just got the biggest shock of her life. So it is natural for her to lash out at Paritosh and even keep the child away form him. But once the reality sinks in and things take the route of divorce, she might think with a cool head and agree to let the child and father meet.

Pakhi is an exact replica of her grandmother who thinks that men can make any mistake they want and women should be forever forgiving. And Pakhi has also made it a habit to blame her mother for every small thing and was never stopped by anyone.

Pakhi is entitled brat

when you bring up children giving everything they ask and not correct their faults toshu and pakhi are born

pakhi has seen vanraj rewarded by anuj and anupama and forgiven by baa and bapuji after ema with kavya and mukku and seen anuj hiugging kissing vanraj like brother after he snatched empire too

so shes fine with it

today if she says toshu is bad that eans vanraj will become bad too as per logic

so shes denying toshu fault so that she does not start questioning why vanraj was forgiven but not toshu