Unpopular Opinion - Page 5

There is nothing unpopular about it.

Everyone agrees that all the kids in the family watched their father cheat and get away with it so obviously they will think a one time fling is fine.

Having urges is beyond one's control but acting upon them can be controlled. There would have still been scope of revival if it was a one night stand for Paritosh and his other "visits" were to subside a blackmail and not to have flings again.

Also the problem is the hypocrisy of how men can easily cheat as it's something natural for them but for women it shouldn't. More than Paritosh, it was Anupamaa's fake glorification of women that they can never cheat because they value marriage more than men.

Note that no parenting is better than bad parenting. Kinjal was right to decide to cut the cord of letting her child live in a father that thinks cheating is natural.

Are you saying that Anupama divorsed Vanraj for love and romance in her life?

Nope, I didn’t say that and I don’t think Anupama Married Anuj to Romance him..

I have several issues with people who keep saying the '40 days' thing. I asked this earlier and no one could give an answer so I'm going to ask it again. WHAT should happen in those 40 days than? Should Kinjal have been kept around Toshu with his betrayal hanging in the air? That sounds wrong, don't you think? It would give him more leverage to think he did nothing wrong. Don't you think even THAN Anupama would be blamed for hiding it and Kinjal would be upset that it was hidden from her for over a month?

Moreover, what difference does this naming ceremony make if they have to act artificial and feign happiness while knowing about such a huge betrayal? Is this ceremony more important than being honest and open?

Moreover, the whole "Toshu should be given a second chance"? Wtf? WHY? No, not everyone deserves a second chance. He doesn't even feel sorry and look at how he talks to his own mother, do you really think this moron is cut out to be a parent of any kind? You think cheating is just a whatever type of thing that can easily be forgiven?

Originally posted by: NiharikaMishra

There is nothing unpopular about it.

Everyone agrees that all the kids in the family watched their father cheat and get away with it so obviously they will think a one time fling is fine.

Having urges is beyond one's control but acting upon them can be controlled. There would have still been scope of revival if it was a one night stand for Paritosh and his other "visits" were to subside a blackmail and not to have flings again.

Also the problem is the hypocrisy of how men can easily cheat as it's something natural for them but for women it shouldn't. More than Paritosh, it was Anupamaa's fake glorification of women that they can never cheat because they value marriage more than men.

Note that no parenting is better than bad parenting. Kinjal was right to decide to cut the cord of letting her child live in a father that thinks cheating is natural.

Lol no I think the OP made several points that are not just highly unpopular, but controversial and regressive as well.

Originally posted by: Kabhi18

Lol no I think the OP made several points that are not just highly unpopular, but controversial and regressive as well.

Hello,

Well, the points I raised might be Controversial but definitely not Regressive..

I was against the divorce cos children or kids of the divorced parents suffer a lot..

I also mentioned, why can’t they look into other options..

If you ask me what are the other options.. I meant Conscious Uncoupling, Judicial Separation etc..

Unlike Divorce, If a couple is Judicially Separated each have same rights upon the children and wife has similar asset rights as a Married Wife

My thoughts are way more progressive as I wanted Kinjal to opt for a solution which not only benefits her but also her kid too..