Pandya Store|Episode Discussion #212 - Page 62

Originally posted by: mpks1

Noooooooooo I want Raavi to stay out if it. Suman and Shiva will make her life even more miserable of she goes against Dhara.

I am so glad Alice will not be in these scenes as she was sick and taken off, wish it was longer break because little more rest won’t do any harm, but I guess she wanted to come back to work yesterday.

I am also glad we are not getting any Shiva-Raavi scenes for the past 3 days, because the way they write the scenes are pathetic, not relatable at all.

Raavi gets called for lying and hiding information bit Shiva is doing the exact same thing bit he is justified because he is doing it for Bhabi and the family.

@bold - agree the past few scenes have been so pathetic

yet again the makers have shown Shiva as only listening to dhara and only coming back to the party for her 🤢

aisa aisaan nahi chaiye 😵

only good thing was Raavi’s look - so beautiful

Originally posted by: NayaD31

It’s high time they show Raavi’s upper-hand against Shiva, Suman, and BhabhiMa..The only way TRP will increase if they release a promo of Raavi calling everyone out.. especially dora the explorer...!! Then only the TV audience will watch the show.. nahi toh out....kuch nahi ho sakta..!! Aur kuch nahi dikhana toh band hi kardo... very boring and repeat it is...

even if this happens, it will be brushed over with a new kaand as usual

and like last time, Raavi will be portrayed as the villain for having such ‘malicious’ thoughts against dhara and she will be blamed for the following kaand

Originally posted by: SlytherInMe

even if this happens, it will be brushed over with a new kaand as usual

and like last time, Raavi will be portrayed as the villain for having such ‘malicious’ thoughts against dhara and she will be blamed for the following kaand

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Originally posted by: Kween_Snowflake

I just came across this post... though I don't know what this discussion is all about but some of your words caught my eye and I wanted to express my views regarding the same.

About the Actions of Lord Rama...

What u said about lord Rama being in his human form made him vulnerable to human emotions is something I completely agree with but I don't agree with the part where u said that it helped u to understand and accept him. Because sirsly I don't understand the need to accept or understand him.

You know I asked similar question to my grandmother once but she told me something along the lines of the answer u got and she also added that he has no other option but to choose between his wife and his dharma as a king. And Frankly I wasn't satisfied with this answer, I kept asking this question to other elders in my family and even to my teachers in school but never got a answer which will satisfy me and make me respect Lord Rama like I used to as a kid before coming across to this part of his story. Then one of teachers advised me that if u are not satisfied with the answer other people gives u then try forming ur own answer, analyse his actions and decide what is right and wrong for u...and I did just that.

After reading a lot of material over this topic, talking to a lot of people and deep thinking. I came to the conclusion that I don't need to understand or accept lord Rama for what he did became even Godess Sita didn't forgave him. I firmly that he himself never doubted Sita's piousness but he wasn't strong enough to take a firm stand for her. What he did was absolutely wrong and he spent rest of his life regretting it. He didn't even knew about the existence of his kids and couldn't enjoy the pure happiness of parenthood and not only him but the whole city who questioned Godess Sita, regretting their actions.

In my opinion every story (fictional or mythological) always have a moral. It is to teach u something. And this part of Ramayana thought me that if you ever question the character of a women or even fail to protect her respect than u will never be forgiven! When lord himself wasn't forgiven for such a crime than their is definitely no chance for a human to be forgiven.

Infact when lakshman cut the nose of Surpankha, lord Rama wasn't happy with this. He wanted lakshman to apology for this even after knowing the fact that she had evil intentions.

And Maybe this is precisely the lesson that lord Vishnu wanted to give us with his Rama avatar - To never disrespect a women! Because this will never be forgiven.

So I don't justify or understand lord Rama's action as a humans vulnerability but as lord Vishnu's attempt to teach us a important lesson. Similarly instead of justifying the actions of any human as his vulnerability against his emotions, we should just call him out for that because even god was punished for his crimes!

I would like the correct one minor point in your understanding, I said the perspective i recieved from that person helped me understand the character NOT ACCEPT his actions, I think there is a huge difference between the two, just because i understand a person doesn't mean I agree with their actions, if i look at it as a story, I understand it was a flaw in his character and why it was a flaw in his character, how it impacts the generations of people who are told this story without the intricacies that you and I were able to find and question in ram.

Like you said we don't need to justify the actions, but for me personally, I needed to understand him better than just a righteous god who never did any wrong (the way i & many others were taught to look at him, without questioning him) to take more away from the story, i.e he was wrong and i can question god and his actions just like i can do for characters from shows and books & real people as well as the same time providing myself the empathy to understanding why they did what they did.

Like I said understanding actions is not accepting them, accepting the actions makes us crude in a way (encourages one dimensional narrow minded thinking), but i believe understanding makes us kinder (a more complex open way of thinking)

I do loved to hear your experience of the same story and its interpretation too, quite similar to mine but a few new points i got to take back (like the regret Ram experienced, beautiful), I will carry it with me ❤️

Originally posted by: NayaD31

It’s high time they show Raavi’s upper-hand against Shiva, Suman, and BhabhiMa..The only way TRP will increase if they release a promo of Raavi calling everyone out.. especially dora the explorer...!! Then only the TV audience will watch the show.. nahi toh out....kuch nahi ho sakta..!! Aur kuch nahi dikhana toh band hi kardo... very boring and repeat it is...

The problem is that they have projected this show to be BhabiMa’s show and Raavi is not the lead. They are never going to write scenes of her calling out any of the family members. The girl is completely lost in love to the point she is not even thinking about how these idiots at Kandya Niwas are treating her. That’s how Choubays have written her character.
For every problem of theirs if the writers bring BhabiMa, it in itself shows that they are not interested to show other character’s POV at all. Writers want to show BhabiMa running a cult, it is simple as that,

Why do you think there is a new conflict going to arise between Dhara and Rishita because again BhabiMa is going to be shown interfering in Rishita’s affairs.

Originally posted by: mpks1

The problem is that they have projected this show to be BhabiMa’s show and Raavi is not the lead. They are never going to write scenes of her calling out any of the family members. The girl is completely lost in love to the point she is not even thinking about how these idiots at Kandya Niwas are treating her. That’s how Choubays have written her character.
For every problem of theirs if the writers bring BhabiMa, it in itself shows that they are not interested to show other character’s POV at all. Writers want to show BhabiMa running a cult, it us simple as that,

Why do you think there us a new conflict going to arise between Dhara and Rishita because again BhabiMa is going to be shown interfering in Rishita’s affairs.

I’d take a guess that the Tamil (original) version is not like this..!! A lot of times the supporting cast is liked more than the leads, the writers don’t deviate from the narrative, they just change the SS and develop parallel tracks.... this is nuts! Name is PS, but she’s the lead.. it’s a family drama, but she’s the lead...🤪 The PH needs to understand that this is 2022 and single starrer shows are old news now!!

Originally posted by: NayaD31

I’d take a guess that the Tamil (original) version is not like this..!! A lot of times the supporting cast is liked more than the leads, the writers don’t deviate from the narrative, they just change the SS and develop parallel tracks.... this is nuts! Name is PS, but she’s the lead.. it’s a family drama, but she’s the lead...🤪 The PH needs to understand that this is 2022 and single starrer shows are old news now!!

In the original, each character has their own identity and they will do what’s right for them and the family, most importantly they all have self respect 😆

Right now Kathir-Mullai ( Shiva-Raavi here) have left the house because the extended family blamed them Mullai for all the financial problems on her failed IVF, which was again shown realistically (there is no Anita or any other character trying to steal the embryo😆) Gautam’s character, Murthy, written much better out there is angry with them for leaving the house. But Kathir told them all that he is leaving because his and his wife’s self respect has been damaged that he will surely comeback to the family after he repays the loan

Mullai sold all her jewelry and made Kathir start a restaurant and they were waiting for the family members to come for the inauguration, everyone single one of them turned up at different times without the other person knowing about them. So this week is all comedy and in each episode a family member turns chori chupke to support the couple 😆

when I say extended family - problems caused by Dhanam’s mother, Meena’s parents and Mullai’s mother. The best part is as a couple they all make their own decisions and BhabiMa has no say in it,

Also BhabiMa doesn’t get involved in the fight between the husband and the wife😆 She gets involved in general family fights 😆

Originally posted by: mpks1

In the original, each character has their own identity and they will do what’s right for them and the family, most importantly they all have self respect 😆

Right now Kathir-Mullai ( Shiva-Raavi here) have left the house because the extended family blamed them Mullai for all the financial problems on her failed IVF, which was again shown realistically (there is no Anita or any other character trying to steal the embryo😆) Gautam’s character, Murthy, written much better out there is angry with them for leaving the house. But Kathir told them all that he is leaving because his and his wife’s self respect has been damaged that he will surely comeback to the family after he repays the loan

Mullai sold all her jewelry and made Kathir start a restaurant and they were waiting for the family members to come for the inauguration, everyone single one of them turned up at different times without the other person knowing about them. So this week is all comedy and in each episode a family member turns chori chupke to support the couple 😆

This is really beautiful 😍

And here all the IVF money was wasted on Dhara but nobody asked Dhara or Gaumbi for the money back 🤪

Gaumbi didn't have the self-respect in him that he would want to return the money that was wasted on his wife's IVF because he, along with everyone else, refused to believe Raavi about Anita's intentions. But they made Raavi the wrong party but Dhara is Mahan so how dare anyone ask her for the money back 🤬

Originally posted by: mpks1

In the original, each character has their own identity and they will do what’s right for them and the family, most importantly they all have self respect 😆

Right now Kathir-Mullai ( Shiva-Raavi here) have left the house because the extended family blamed them Mullai for all the financial problems on her failed IVF, which was again shown realistically (there is no Anita or any other character trying to steal the embryo😆) Gautam’s character, Murthy, written much better out there is angry with them for leaving the house. But Kathir told them all that he is leaving because his and his wife’s self respect has been damaged that he will surely comeback to the family after he repays the loan

Mullai sold all her jewelry and made Kathir start a restaurant and they were waiting for the family members to come for the inauguration, everyone single one of them turned up at different times without the other person knowing about them. So this week is all comedy and in each episode a family member turns chori chupke to support the couple 😆

when I say extended family - problems caused by Dhanam’s mother, Meena’s parents and Mullai’s mother. The best part is as a couple they all make their own decisions and BhabiMa has no say in it,

Also BhabiMa doesn’t get involved in the fight between the husband and the wife😆 She gets involved in general family fights 😆

Garam sitara doesn’t have any subtitles 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺 the show is so realistic ❤️❤️❤️❤️

Why don’t we have a meme thread for PS forum?