Should Anupama give a tight slap to Pakhi? - Page 2

Pakhi is a spoilt and immature brat. I do not condone violence in any way but everytime she creates some issue, I will feel like slapping this rotten kid across the face. She seems to be in her late teens but acts very immature. As far as I can remember, when she was getting schooled by Anupamaa for wasting food and the labour undertaken by farmers was mentioned, this dumb chick had the nerve to reply that farmers don't slog but live their lives singing and dancing like it is shown in the movies. I mean how did she make it so far without failing any class?? She seems to lack basic awareness and common sense.

I side with Anupamaa in today's episode. In fact, she was very patient with her daughter and was explaining very well. Had I been the mother, I would have made Pakhi and the conniving Barkha and Adhik cry right there. Pakhi says that she is old enough to have a boyfriend but she is not old enough to not get manipulated by people due to their glamour/money. First she used to turn against her mom because of Kavya and now Barkha-Adhik. Looks like she doesn't have a functional brain and is still a kid.

Originally posted by: femmefatale09

I say its high time. She should whack her hard just this once. Saari tameez ek hi baar mein yaad aa jaayegi. And if Anupama is a good parent, even a little bit, she should NOT allow Pakhi to stay in her house. At least for now. Also, if Anuj is smart, he should also say no.

Apne bachchon ki har zidd puri nahin karni chahiye. It makes them entitled and rotten. Just like Pakhi and Toshu.

Khud ke bachchon ko Sanskaar nahin de paayi and Sanskaar ke bhashan deti phirti hai mahan devi Anupama. Unreal!!

Originally posted by: NiharikaMishra

No she shouldn't, and no she cannot.

This is not a newfound love for money and glamor that Pakhi has developed. She has always liked glitz. She took Kavya as her mother to school because she was classier, she argued about borrowing Kinjal's clothes and accessories so how does Anupamaa expect her to become an ascetic when she is now exposed to an elite environment via the Kapadias.

Also Vanraj has kept her happy with money all her life, by buying her love instead of toiling for it. All lectures of frugality have come just because "he" cannot spend as much now and Pakhi is looking for greener pastures.

I am really liking this because it serves AnuRaj right! They have used the wrong ways to develop connections with their children, Vanraj with money and Anupamaa with over-the-top servitude, without realizing that with old age, parents lose ability to keep giving these things to kids. There is no actual connection between the parents and the kids if they stop doing things for them.

Totally. Pakhi is/was this way from Day1, she didn't develop this kind of attitude, blame game over the night. She excels at emotional manipulation, emotional abuse, perfect example of Histrionic Personality. Never takes responsibility or acknowledge her flaws which goes well with her age, upbringing, nature vs nurture, Children learn what they see from elders the way she was going at Anu, she is speaking but the words belong to Baa, V, Toshu and Rakhi. Pakhi saw mostly negative behaviors except Samar but its mild and doesn't stick much.

Slapping is not a solution, it will add more distance n hatred towards Anu. Anu has been hearing abuse all her life but Pakhi took it to next level and V didn't really stop her as he is capable of doing it and she understood it perfectly.

Anu really need to stop giving ghas to her kids, she wants to go to the house to see Kinjal, Babuji better meet them outside everyday, she need to learn to let Pakhi go it wont be easy but Anu has to take the step. Anu is placing herself in position to vet abused.

Anu isn't wrong in wanting to have two houses in her life, but there is a limit. Anu is encouraging the cycle of abuse and anuj needs to put end to it. She will cry, she is already crying let her grieve and let her focus on her dreams. Move to different city for the love of god (Dream) Sometimes distance is necessary, like Anuj once said 'pyaar duriya sehsakta hai, par nafrat nazdikiya bardash nahin karsakta'.

yes she deserves a laat too.

Jab chhoti thi tab maarna chahiye tha...ab grown up bacho ko maara nhi jaata..plus Pakhi ne kaha bhi tha ki agar aap hath uthayengi to main hath rok bhi skti hoon..so ab slap maarne ka koi fayda nhi hai..yeh tab krna chahiye tha jab Vanraj ne Toshu aur Pakhi ko anupama ki beizzati karna sikhaya tha...ab Vanraj bhi chup hai because this is what he wanted..sare bache Anupama se door rahenge to vo unko apne hisaab se manipulate kr skta hai and also kyunki Pakhi Vanraj ko bhi bahut kuch bol degi....

Ab yahi solution hai, ki agar Pakhi grown up hai, ok move out, pay your own bills, job karo, padho, aur jee bharke affair kro...lekin is ghar mein rehke aur Vanraj pe depend hoke nhi..Kalko agar Adhik ko nikal diya Anuj ne Pakhi ko kaise rakhega? Kya khilayega? kaise support karega? Kaise hawa tight hoti hai phir Pakhi ki.. isliye is umar mein affair ko encourage nahi krte..kyunki hormones ki wajah se kabhi kabhi bache galat kadam utha lete hai..but ye sab ek moment ka hota hai..jaise jaise age bdti hai, akal aati hai..Vanraj ne bhi jab affair kiya, vo pura family pe depend hokr nhi kiya na hi Kavya ne, aur na hi Anupama ne...

Still no slap!!? After all this nonsense, are people still saying Anupama should not have whacked Pakhi?

Originally posted by: femmefatale09

I say its high time. She should whack her hard just this once. Saari tameez ek hi baar mein yaad aa jaayegi. And if Anupama is a good parent, even a little bit, she should NOT allow Pakhi to stay in her house. At least for now. Also, if Anuj is smart, he should also say no.

Apne bachchon ki har zidd puri nahin karni chahiye. It makes them entitled and rotten. Just like Pakhi and Toshu.

Khud ke bachchon ko Sanskaar nahin de paayi and Sanskaar ke bhashan deti phirti hai mahan devi Anupama. Unreal!!

I can understand your frustration and even I'm feeling the same amount of frustration.

But good parenting has no connection with slapping the children especially a teenager. Both the parents has to be very careful and sensible in this time period as it is a crucial stage.

But other ways like, sending her out of the house is a good idea.

Even though I think it won't have any positive effect on Pakhi.

But still Anupamaa should slap her for my sense of justice and sadistic pleasure🤣