You got to be kidding right?
Bapuji has never done anything for anupama. That man is the most selfish man on earth.
He never had spine to stand up for anupama when his ladla and wife used to make her life hell. Even his own mother moti baa used to stand up for anu but this spineless fellow didnt learn a single thing from that lady. He has always been this henpecked, worthless fellow when it comes to stand up against atrocities done to anu.
And whatever good things he had done so far for his so called beti are just pure selfish moves to ensure his own and his family's well being, nothing for anu.
I'll start right from when anu was leaving shah house. He stopped her from leaving and transferred half share of house in her name. He said he is giving hak to his beti but what he actually made sure that their eternal maid anupama never leaves the house and keep doing their seva because kavya definitely wouldn't have done it.
Next he rooted for maan marriage but again he was adamant to do it from shah house even though no one was ready for it. All the clashes, all the drama that was created which ruined the experience for maan was because of this man's faltu ka zidd.
And the heart attack....dont even get me started on that. Its purely amd purely his negligence. He only kept running here and there like excited little kid ignoring the physical capabilities of his age. He didnt even once think that if anything happens to him then everyone will blame anupama for it. And his health deteriorated because of his zidd of doing anu's bidaai from toxic house only.
His zidd was also again a selfish move. He even said that in a episode that he knows no one is happy from his decision but still he wants to stick to it because he feels what atrocities this house has caused to anu will only be rectify if they marry her off happily. So he was again being selfish for his toxic house and family members only.
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