What is definition of Love❓❓❓ - Page 4

Originally posted by: Kakul

Anupama ka lover boy ya phir bhakt bankar hi reh gaya h wo

absolutely,

No scope for growth in his character in that case.

Gradually, he will lose his charm bcoz there is a limit to everything phir chahe sweet ho ya phir karela😃

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Anuj did not say that he is waiting for anu for 26 year

He is use to say ki main anupama se 26 year se pyaar karta aaya hoon aur marte dum tuk anupama se pyaar karta rahoongs

He want to say his love for anupama will never ever stop what ever conditions may be

True love is loving the partner as they are and never change priority looking at conditions of life partner

@ bold - agree!

I am not sure what writers had in mind- it happens in real life !

definition of love:

- it is a blend of all of these (and many more) emotions: care, comfort, respect, value, affection, etc.

percentage of those emotions.. depends on what kind of bond it is, keeps fluctuating with age of bond and persons involved:

Like childhood friends have care-comfort-value... when they grow up.... in teens .... may affection take center stage... as they grow older... respect adds on....

Mom-kids: has more of care and respect

spousal: care -comfort-respect-value-affection

friends - care -comfort - value

Originally posted by: ChirpyKiya10

Good Morning Friends

I have read so many books on Mind control, train our mind …. But even then, my mind does not remain in my control.😀

Again today morning, after watching Anupama, my mind is wandering here and there. I tried to make it sit at one place quietly bcoz its day of Anupama’s graha pravesh . But noooo, its bothering me with a question,”What is true love”?? For what Mr. Kapadiahad has been waiting for 26 yrs??

Anuj himself told Anupaama that there came many girls in his life and with few of them, he has one night stand relationship. Now plz enlighten me with those girls, what was he doing? Was he taking hit andtrial sessions that if he found a girl like anupama, he would marry her, or he was so much in pain that he did not know what was he doing Or He was just passing time with them as he knew that After 25 years, Anupama would get divorce fromher husband and he would get his love, soulmate forever and would set a new benchmark every time. Talk about women always; great. What about Mukku?? left her alone with Vaanu?? never showed discussion on her future ??

Really, I don’t understand this statement; Anuj has waited for 26 long years. I am also a fan of MaAn, love character Anuj but why go overboard with everything. What are makers trying to prove?? Instead of overdoing everything, can’t they show anything little bit close to reality? Don’t they have a responsibility towards audience especially young audience who has high hopes and dreams about their life partners? I feel, if they show career growth of Anupama (how has she overcome hurdles that she encounters bcoz of less education or age) with love life. Instead of masala daani haldi, pariwar mehandi, Anuj could have encouraged her to pursue her studies or even do some professional course in dance, help her in improving pronunciation. that would be a great example for everyone IMO.

Thank fully, they did not make any change inphere rituals. Like there should be eight pheres, four with Anuj walking ahead and four with Anu ahead.

P S: Not to offend anybody 🙏🙏🙏

- what connection between the girls and true love are you trying to make ?

- one night stand and a relationship are 2 different things

- he is always leaving women alone with Vanraj, Anupamaa included

- the "close to reality" part is him not being a virgin

- responsibility towards the audience is debatable ; i will say that it starts at home and your parents are responsible for teaching you what a healthy relationship looks like, so that when you watch a show like anupamaa, you realize it's just a show and you can easily pick up on the red flags. learning starts at home

- Anuj can still encourage her to do all of that

thanks for doing this topic...something that needed to be discussed.

- ali 💕

Originally posted by: Kakul

Mujhe Gaurav par bilkul bhi bharosa nhi. H .jis tarah wo live IG me baat karta h....to mujhe lagta h ye insaan agar apne character arc se satisfy nhi hoga then he will leave...and I am always ready to accept that..kyunki wo direct bolta h

do you think he will leave the #1 show though and be jobless even if he hates the character?

I cannot tell if you are serious or sarcastic?🤧🤔

Also, hello hi JSK!

Originally posted by: ektag06

I cannot tell if you are serious or sarcastic?🤧🤔

Also, hello hi JSK!