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🤣Kya bol rahe bol rahe ho yaar,I am pretty sure they will not throw AK out,that too when he is the most loved Character on the show. And as for serial ending,Rajan Shahi will never let that happen,that too now toh finally the serial is coming on track slowly,so it's all good.

Originally posted by: shubhK2308

🤣Kya bol rahe bol rahe ho yaar,I am pretty sure they will not throw AK out,that too when he is the most loved Character on the show. And as for serial ending,Rajan Shahi will never let that happen,that too now toh finally the serial is coming on track slowly,so it's all good.

You never know. They may exit him and then bring him back. Typical ITV trope.

🤪Thu,thu,thu.

Nothing like that will happen😃

Originally posted by: ChirpyKiya10

Good Morning Friends

I have read so many books on Mind control, train our mind …. But even then, my mind does not remain in my control.😀

Again today morning, after watching Anupama, my mind is wandering here and there. I tried to make it sit at one place quietly bcoz its day of Anupama’s graha pravesh . But noooo, its bothering me with a question,”What is true love”?? For what Mr. Kapadiahad has been waiting for 26 yrs??

Anuj himself told Anupaama that there came many girls in his life and with few of them, he has one night stand relationship. Now plz enlighten me with those girls, what was he doing? Was he taking hit andtrial sessions that if he found a girl like anupama, he would marry her, or he was so much in pain that he did not know what was he doing Or He was just passing time with them as he knew that After 25 years, Anupama would get divorce fromher husband and he would get his love, soulmate forever and would set a new benchmark every time. Talk about women always; great. What about Mukku?? left her alone with Vaanu?? never showed discussion on her future ??

Really, I don’t understand this statement; Anuj has waited for 26 long years. I am also a fan of MaAn, love character Anuj but why go overboard with everything. What are makers trying to prove?? Instead of overdoing everything, can’t they show anything little bit close to reality? Don’t they have a responsibility towards audience especially young audience who has high hopes and dreams about their life partners? I feel, if they show career growth of Anupama (how has she overcome hurdles that she encounters bcoz of less education or age) with love life. Instead of masala daani haldi, pariwar mehandi, Anuj could have encouraged her to pursue her studies or even do some professional course in dance, help her in improving pronunciation. that would be a great example for everyone IMO.

Thank fully, they did not make any change inphere rituals. Like there should be eight pheres, four with Anuj walking ahead and four with Anu ahead.

P S: Not to offend anybody 🙏🙏🙏

But for sure, he wasn't looking for a long term relationship because he probably knew he would never be able to do justice with him and the girl. Although, i'll be very interested in knowing about his relationships. surely, he may have had short term relationships too. Or maybe a long one where he really opened his heart out and explained his stance? and pyaar ek se zyaade baar bhi toh ho sakta hai na? Toh kya hua uske saath?

On Mukku's bit - the whole track was pretty shabby! Nothing made sense. Even if she was introduced for Vannu, what was the idea? Just for her to be Vannu's muse? If so, then why was the DV track launched? That's one loophole I don't think they'll ever close. That track had JUST so much potential and the bond. One more thing to be salty about!

And yes, I agree, they are overdoing everything. yes an out and out fictional character works if that's the genre. right now, they are trying to mix prince charming with social messages. doesn't work this way. How can someone be THIS understanding? some reality checks won't hurt you know! Haldi, masala etc (not the parivarik mehendi - that was horribly executed) can be one off but that shouldnt be the base for this. Social messages right now are plenty - career progressions, personal progress - esp for her coming out of a traumatic past and that household, his - in terms of finally being with someone he has loved (though both need extensive therapy!), her inhibitions, his guilt (he mentioned the house was his parents, surely the guilt factor will now run at an all time high no?), them moving ahead accepting each other and supporting through issues as a unit. i'm not saying late marriages or second marriages are rare but they are tough. I mean, adjustment has its fair set of challenges and with kids etc involved, it doesn't get easier. Both will have set expectations and that's what needs to be shown. Not the lame and random property drama (if at all) or some new lame family drama!!

There are ways to take this to next level. I get it is itv and they need to incorporate drama, but surely, they can come up with better and newer ways!!!!

PS - I'm a sucker for out and out rom-coms and fairytales but life is not such and my ask for a life partner is someone like AK but not as blind in love and ji haan person like him!!!

Originally posted by: ChirpyKiya10

Good Morning Friends

I have read so many books on Mind control, train our mind …. But even then, my mind does not remain in my control.😀

Again today morning, after watching Anupama, my mind is wandering here and there. I tried to make it sit at one place quietly bcoz its day of Anupama’s graha pravesh . But noooo, its bothering me with a question,”What is true love”?? For what Mr. Kapadiahad has been waiting for 26 yrs??

Anuj himself told Anupaama that there came many girls in his life and with few of them, he has one night stand relationship. Now plz enlighten me with those girls, what was he doing? Was he taking hit andtrial sessions that if he found a girl like anupama, he would marry her, or he was so much in pain that he did not know what was he doing Or He was just passing time with them as he knew that After 25 years, Anupama would get divorce fromher husband and he would get his love, soulmate forever and would set a new benchmark every time. Talk about women always; great. What about Mukku?? left her alone with Vaanu?? never showed discussion on her future ??

Really, I don’t understand this statement; Anuj has waited for 26 long years. I am also a fan of MaAn, love character Anuj but why go overboard with everything. What are makers trying to prove?? Instead of overdoing everything, can’t they show anything little bit close to reality? Don’t they have a responsibility towards audience especially young audience who has high hopes and dreams about their life partners? I feel, if they show career growth of Anupama (how has she overcome hurdles that she encounters bcoz of less education or age) with love life. Instead of masala daani haldi, pariwar mehandi, Anuj could have encouraged her to pursue her studies or even do some professional course in dance, help her in improving pronunciation. that would be a great example for everyone IMO.

Thank fully, they did not make any change inphere rituals. Like there should be eight pheres, four with Anuj walking ahead and four with Anu ahead.

P S: Not to offend anybody 🙏🙏🙏

Sam,

Remember, we had talked about this weird choice of words in dialogues about bapuji's armaan, kids calling it their soubhagya? I feel they have committed the same blunder here too. Anuj's statement (haven’t watched the episode yet, but watched clip) comes across as odd.

Why would he wait for her, even though he knew she was married and had a home of her own? Why would he leave a mansion locked like this hoping for a day to dawn where he brings Anu? Doesn't make any sense,right? I feel that the wrong choice of words has ruined his char. I feel they should have worded this differently.

The prime attraction I had initially during the early days of this show was it was a normal household; with people I could easily relate to (not people who sleep with ton of jewelry!!). I signed up for this with a desire to watch how an uneducated woman who had no exposure to outside world makes a life of her own. How she proves to her abusers & the rest of the world what she is capable of. What other women like her are capable of.

Anuj's entry changed everything, but I still hoped to see her progress and liberate.

Of late, everything about this show is unreal.This is disappointing. I would have loved to see progress like what you have suggested.

We audience are at fault too whenever victims got divorce we start demanding new guy for female victim asap and want to see romance

I mean why new guy should enter asap when victim as soon got divorce

Why dont it happen ki pehle victim apni life nite apna career banaye phir kisi new guy enter

Why women happiness growth always depend on men. Why it always that jub tuk kisi divorcee women ki life men doosra guy nahi aayega woh khuch nahi kar sakti woh kabhi khush nahi reh sakti

Is duniya aisi divorcee lady bhi hai bina second marriage ke bhi apne aap stand liya hai

But since most of audience love romance they love jodi without romance they find show boring isliye writer bhi bus romance marriage pe hi focus hi karte hai victim ki own growth pe nahi

I am beginning to think, Auj should have been a char that she meets at work after divorce. That way, they could have shown how Anupama has set foot in the corporate world. He should not have been depicted as someone from her college days. That has has created too many holes in the story IMO.

HI kiya! Very valid point. 👍🏼

I don't have much of a mind left to mind! Makers have seriously botched up Anuj's character. They introduced him as the picture perfect one side lover who was going to be the wind beneath his beloved Anu's wings. But then they eventually reduced him to a yes man! Like you, I also wanted to see her udaan! Had she pursued her studies while MaAn steadily progressed with their relationship it would give a good message to the society that two adults can be in a fulfilling relationship even without the stamp of marriage. And secondly, if a woman is determined to step up in life, she can do so, no matter what the toxic background she comes from. They mentioned that Mukku has been taking therapy while conveniently ignoring that Anupama was also as much in need of therapy!

MaAn had so much potential initially. I would have loved it if, instead of placing the spring onion ring on her palm, he would have placed her salary slip (after deducting the loan installment)! Then may be Anupama would finally know if she's making enough to pay off the rent! But no! She has to be the perfect multitasking desh ki sabse mahan aurat! They made a mockery of Anuj the brother as well as Anuj the lover while trying to keep up the mahan image of Devi Anupamaa!

Thanks all of you for POV !

love to hear from all of u.🧡💛

I feel how much we have gotten attached to these fictional characters; We spend our time thinking, analyzing, and discussing them.

Makers bhi I think itna nahi sochte.😊

If they thought, they would have not ruined their lovely and wonderful creation in this way.

All I can say is...if someone can understand the definition of love then please do explain to me as well...

Regarding the PC, I just couldn't stop myself from remembering the Xmas episode... moment someone come in Anuj life, all he does to show his love is transfer his property.

When Mukku came in few episodes he transferred everything to her on Xmas without her asking.

Now after marriage he is giving everything to Anu without her asking. Agree bahu ghar ki Laxmi hoti hai, but she referred to money as haath ki mail. She needs to respect Laxmi first to get that position.

Why is this man so insecure and if you think money is way to keep your loved ones close to you, is this real love? And most importantly how insecure Anuj is shown everytime, gone the intelligence sensible business man.

He witnessed the whole SH drama on ghar Kaand in that Blue T-shirt, that few seconds eye exchange. Did he forgot how careless Anu is when it comes to signing paper and still he gave her everything. This is not love, this is Obsession, Blind Love where you ignore encourage your lover folly.

Just to strike a contrast here, in another serial ML knows how emotionally manipulated is FL by her X toxic family, so he buys the house on her name for her X family instead of giving them money. He adds a clause that she can't sell or transfer for 5 years..that's some brain, you support your love but stop others from exploiting her too. Anuj puts himself, his sister and his empire everything on platter for others to exploit. Disappointed..