What is definition of Love❓❓❓

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Good Morning Friends


I have read so many books on Mind control, train our mind …. But even then, my mind does not remain in my control.😀


Again today morning, after watching Anupama, my mind is wandering here and there. I tried to make it sit at one place quietly bcoz its day of Anupama’s graha pravesh . But noooo, its bothering me with a question,”What is true love”?? For what Mr. Kapadiahad has been waiting for 26 yrs??


Anuj himself told Anupaama that there came many girls in his life and with few of them, he has one night stand relationship. Now plz enlighten me with those girls, what was he doing? Was he taking hit andtrial sessions that if he found a girl like anupama, he would marry her, or he was so much in pain that he did not know what was he doing Or He was just passing time with them as he knew that After 25 years, Anupama would get divorce fromher husband and he would get his love, soulmate forever and would set a new benchmark every time. Talk about women always; great. What about Mukku?? left her alone with Vaanu?? never showed discussion on her future ??


Really, I don’t understand this statement; Anuj has waited for 26 long years. I am also a fan of MaAn, love character Anuj but why go overboard with everything. What are makers trying to prove?? Instead of overdoing everything, can’t they show anything little bit close to reality? Don’t they have a responsibility towards audience especially young audience who has high hopes and dreams about their life partners? I feel, if they show career growth of Anupama (how has she overcome hurdles that she encounters bcoz of less education or age) with love life. Instead of masala daani haldi, pariwar mehandi, Anuj could have encouraged her to pursue her studies or even do some professional course in dance, help her in improving pronunciation. that would be a great example for everyone IMO.


Thank fully, they did not make any change inphere rituals. Like there should be eight pheres, four with Anuj walking ahead and four with Anu ahead.

P S: Not to offend anybody 🙏🙏🙏

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: ChirpyKiya10

Good Morning Friends


I have read so many books on Mind control, train our mind …. But even then, my mind does not remain in my control.😀


Again today morning, after watching Anupama, my mind is wandering here and there. I tried to make it sit at one place quietly bcoz its day of Anupama’s graha pravesh . But noooo, its bothering me with a question,”What is true love”?? For what Mr. Kapadiahad has been waiting for 26 yrs??


Anuj himself told Anupaama that there came many girls in his life and with few of them, he has one night stand relationship. Now plz enlighten me with those girls, what was he doing? Was he taking hit andtrial sessions that if he found a girl like anupama, he would marry her, or he was so much in pain that he did not know what was he doing Or He was just passing time with them as he knew that After 25 years, Anupama would get divorce fromher husband and he would get his love, soulmate forever and would set a new benchmark every time. Talk about women always; great. What about Mukku?? left her alone with Vaanu?? never showed discussion on her future ??


Really, I don’t understand this statement; Anuj has waited for 26 long years. I am also a fan of MaAn, love character Anuj but why go overboard with everything. What are makers trying to prove?? Instead of overdoing everything, can’t they show anything little bit close to reality? Don’t they have a responsibility towards audience especially young audience who has high hopes and dreams about their life partners? I feel, if they show career growth of Anupama (how has she overcome hurdles that she encounters bcoz of less education or age) with love life. Instead of masala daani haldi, pariwar mehandi, Anuj could have encouraged her to pursue her studies or even do some professional course in dance, help her in improving pronunciation. that would be a great example for everyone IMO.


Thank fully, they did not make any change inphere rituals. Like there should be eight pheres, four with Anuj walking ahead and four with Anu ahead.

P S: Not to offend anybody 🙏🙏🙏

If my mind would have been in my control, I wouldn't be typing this post now. 🙃 I would not be here only.

I don't know what is love and all. But whatever I have seen in TV or real life, I would say being there for your partner in every situation. I personally don't like PDAs and OTT in this context.

Whatever Anuj is doing, for that we have to coin a new term. I mean he could have given 25% share of his property. What about his sister? He himself said that he doesn't have any right? Then on what basis did he transfer their parent's house on her name? Let's not find any LOGIC here, I have lost all mine in that process.

Now I seriously seriously hope they either end this show or let Anuj die.. Showing all these nonsensical things would just degrade the charm of MaAn. Its better that it ends.

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Originally posted by: strancho

If my mind would have been in my control, I wouldn't be typing this post now. 🙃 I would not be here only.

I don't know what is love and all. But whatever I have seen in TV or real life, I would say being there for your partner in every situation. I personally don't like PDAs and OTT in this context.

Whatever Anuj is doing, for that we have to coin a new term. I mean he could have given 25% share of his property. What about his sister? He himself said that he doesn't have any right? Then on what basis did he transfer their parent's house on her name? Let's not find any LOGIC here, I have lost all mine in that process.

Now I seriously seriously hope they either end this show or let Anuj die.. Showing all these nonsensical things would just degrade the charm of MaAn. Its better that it ends.

haaha

seriously yaar

ab toh had ki bhi had ho gayi

I don't get it which type of audience do makers want to target.??

one more thing Ur POV is very technical. Are u from law background😀😂🤣

Lov ur POV.💛🧡

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: ChirpyKiya10

haaha

seriously yaar

ab toh had ki bhi had ho gayi

I don't get it which type of audience do makers want to target.??

one more thing Ur POV is very technical. Are u from law background😀😂🤣

Lov ur POV.💛🧡

Am from Engineering background. Software Engineer. Yeah I think everything technically. Mereko lagra ye log ka target audience aliens hai.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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What a great topic to tackle, Chirpsy! Thanks for tagging me in this, so I may chi(r)p in too:


Ouch, what is this thing called love? Would it smell as sweet if called by any other name ?.....(surri for mixing up scenes and sentences here 😃)


I think we may look at the serial this way - now that MaAn are/is finally married:

1. Happiness - to be rid of Uncle D(ustbin) - hopefully...

2. Happiness - that the makers did not mess up (too much) the wedding events

3. Happiness - that we still will be seeing Rupali and Gaurav --- "till the producers throw him out" (quote-unquote)

So, is this Happiness a form of Love?

Perhaps, yes, for it means love for our peace of mind, our lowered BP, and our continued friendships on IF - and of course, our continued MaAnoing 🤗

For the rest: let us rest our logic and wonder lust - that too, is LOVE ()

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Surri, surri for not tagging more folksies. ☺️

I'm still struggling with this tagging thingie >> will people only read posts when tagged ?

Am open to include all 🤗

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: T4Thahaanfan

3. Happiness - that we still will be seeing Rupali and Gaurav --- "till the producers throw him out" (quote-unquote)

They will soon throw him out. I have a gut feeling.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Anuj did not say that he is waiting for anu for 26 year

He is use to say ki main anupama se 26 year se pyaar karta aaya hoon aur marte dum tuk anupama se pyaar karta rahoongs


He want to say his love for anupama will never ever stop what ever conditions may be

True love is loving the partner as they are and never change priority looking at conditions of life partner

Edited by surabhi01 - 3 years ago
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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: ChirpyKiya10

Good Morning Friends


I have read so many books on Mind control, train our mind …. But even then, my mind does not remain in my control.😀


Again today morning, after watching Anupama, my mind is wandering here and there. I tried to make it sit at one place quietly bcoz its day of Anupama’s graha pravesh . But noooo, its bothering me with a question,”What is true love”?? For what Mr. Kapadiahad has been waiting for 26 yrs??


Anuj himself told Anupaama that there came many girls in his life and with few of them, he has one night stand relationship. Now plz enlighten me with those girls, what was he doing? Was he taking hit andtrial sessions that if he found a girl like anupama, he would marry her, or he was so much in pain that he did not know what was he doing Or He was just passing time with them as he knew that After 25 years, Anupama would get divorce fromher husband and he would get his love, soulmate forever and would set a new benchmark every time. Talk about women always; great. What about Mukku?? left her alone with Vaanu?? never showed discussion on her future ??


Really, I don’t understand this statement; Anuj has waited for 26 long years. I am also a fan of MaAn, love character Anuj but why go overboard with everything. What are makers trying to prove?? Instead of overdoing everything, can’t they show anything little bit close to reality? Don’t they have a responsibility towards audience especially young audience who has high hopes and dreams about their life partners? I feel, if they show career growth of Anupama (how has she overcome hurdles that she encounters bcoz of less education or age) with love life. Instead of masala daani haldi, pariwar mehandi, Anuj could have encouraged her to pursue her studies or even do some professional course in dance, help her in improving pronunciation. that would be a great example for everyone IMO.


Thank fully, they did not make any change inphere rituals. Like there should be eight pheres, four with Anuj walking ahead and four with Anu ahead.

P S: Not to offend anybody 🙏🙏🙏


Hahahah why are you so shocked my dear..anuj to starting se hi mand buddhi dikhaya hai..ye banda to paida hi anupama se shaadi karne ke liye hua tha..wo karli..mentally jaise anupama shah waalo ki slave hai..ye anupama ka slave hai..


Ab ye socho aaj bande ne apni poori property anupama ko di hai..ab dekhna ye hai ke anupama kal angutha lagakar kise deti hai..🤣🤣


And yes about that definition of love..inke pyaar me mujhe hamesha bas doosro ko please karte rehne ka or zaleel hone ka hi effort dikha hai..so for me definitely this is not true love..kyunki jahan self respect hi nahi wahan love kahan hoga..🤢

Edited by Priyankaa.jain - 3 years ago
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Posted: 3 years ago
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I think we must have come across lot of unusual love stories in real life as well,so true love might be rare but doesn't mean that it doesn't exist or is away from reality.

Most of the relations formed nowadays are on the basis of liking,compatibility and convenience,not on the sole basis of love.

Love is a feeling,an emotion,but most of us look at it practically.

And as for the property transfer and all,I think we should wait a little for the episode.

And i don't understand,everyone wanted Mukku to give back the property to AK,now all are like why did mukku give it so😆

And honestly,seeing Mukku,she couldn't really handle such a big empire,we have seen her making business decisions with ludo. And plus,she is a wanderer, her feet cannot be at one place for long. And whether Anuj thought he wasn't the rightful owner of the business,honestly he was,because he was the one who made the business what it is today.

And as for transferring the business in Anu's name, there might be an explanation for that,maybe it's for the restaurant project which was her idea and vision.

And since Anuj is already working with his friend in partnership,he cannot handle two different businesses together. Plus,Anuj had told that all these material things don't interest him anymore....he has reached a stage of life where he has seen a lot of glamor and glitter and now is seeking only peace and love...during the park bench scene.

Bug anyway,in ItV it's important to see the shows keeping aside your brains.

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