Arpita a mere Side Character! - Page 2

Originally posted by: Sutapasima

Just for fun ..some one can write a FF on this idea … Aryan is a Bi and he was heart broken when his partner Arvind was no more . Poor Arpita has no clue about his till date .

A bi Aryan would be very cool, but there is nothing funny or good about this premise. Fooling around with one's own sister's husband is disgusting. Aryan. Is. Not. Disgusting. It's incest.

Aryan is neither Imlie nor Malini. Nor is Aravind Aditya.

Originally posted by: -JaZ-

I too questioned this once why Aryan is too much affected while Arpita behaves normal and got some backlash.. it was weird from day one.. now they are exploiting it even more by showing it as if it was due to Aryan's trauma that too by wrongly thinking akt was responsible and fuming to take revenge on him Arpita wasn't able to move on.. ultimately Aryan is the culprit behind everyone's misery.. 🤦‍♀️😤

may be writers don't understand viewers will not feel connected to such storyline..

Why was it "weird" to begin with when he was supposed to be there at the factory in Aravind's place? He literally has survivor's guilt. Plus, Aravind was a like father figure to Aryan who had lost his father relatively young. Men can love each other a lot platonically uff.

Also, living without breaking down every single day doesn't equal to behaving normally. Arpita, till a couple of months back, couldn't even bear the sight of a lit diya.

Aru is being guilttripped by Imlie a little. But the truth is they all retrieved within their individual shells and dealt with their traumas in whatever haphazard ways. Aru isn't responsible for everyone's misery.

Originally posted by: -TeriMalang-

Oh chill, i was just irked about ARU trauma being mocked day and night thats it .

About arpi I think she have accepted arvinds death . And she earned that moving on will only be the option seeing her brother in the dungeons of guilt .

And arpi Sundar . They have no love to start with its mutual admiration . That's it . Our in house emma thinks she is pro at matchmaking and shoving an uncooked stry down everyone throat.

I really hope this is addressed and let them grow as partners before love jaap and shaadi karado maala

Aru's trauma has it's own place indeed. I don't want it to be questioned but I wanted to see Arpita's character leaving a mark in my mind. I didn't expect this from Narmada but definitely Arpita.

Yeah indeed now they are showing she has accepted. But they never explored that part I hope even if they don't show anything related to Sundar she should take a stand for herself and say no to everyone's forceful nature which I doubt will happen. They are just not invested in building up her character strong.😵 I neither like Imlie's bandar nor BMs fraud Rishta... and Arpita is just becoming invisible in the topic of her own marriage somehow 😒

For one to feel deeply for another doesn't have to be a romantic partner only.

Rishtey dil se bante hai.

Originally posted by: BlueJayFire

My thoughts were Aryan is younger and so much bonded to Arvind, that Arpita probably felt her pain she can take but not Aru's. Like sometimes, its difficult for a child to accept the reality of a dad passing away than his wife/childs mom herself. This is how I felt about this situation. Aru is like the youngest of the house and so much pampered by everyone.

He might be guilt tripped as a 23 year old. But I wanna know more to the story. Why was it not Arpita who hold the reigns of the house being the eldest child and it was on Aru?

Aru has to be sorry more because he took all his jiju's work on his shoulder and moved forward... they should have explored or shown Arpita's character too. The point has came the writers talked about Arvind Aru relationship which is absolutely okay but what about Arpita Arvind. She might have move on but she should have been shown in a light a strong persona or a character now her character just moves on according to others. BM or Imlie none should say about her life at least if it's not her. It started from the start not showing her past, we saw Arvind from Aru's eyes not Arpita's. That is what I wanted to point out that they never developed Arpita's character independently

Originally posted by: SundariP

Based on title i don't think she's a side char, the casting suggests a promising parallel track but...

There's always a big but y'know😴

I hope they gear up and show something nice. I am so tensed that she would be shown a typical lady with no opinions😭

Originally posted by: -JaZ-

I too questioned this once why Aryan is too much affected while Arpita behaves normal and got some backlash.. it was weird from day one.. now they are exploiting it even more by showing it as if it was due to Aryan's trauma that too by wrongly thinking akt was responsible and fuming to take revenge on him Arpita wasn't able to move on.. ultimately Aryan is the culprit behind everyone's misery.. 🤦‍♀️😤

may be writers don't understand viewers will not feel connected to such storyline..

Every human has dealt with death ! Not everyone take it easily . Every person has their own coping mechanism .

Why is aru pain questioned in the first place ?

Why is his pain/grief gauged with that of Arpita ?

He is a human aswell .

Arpi and aru are two diff ppl who lost someone very important to them . How do expect ppl to behave after losing someone who cannot ever return ?

Pain is huge it leaves a gaping hole ,couldn't even be put in words .and aru has a survivor guilt.

Arpi never moved on ,she just accepted things . She has her own pain. She talks it to arvinds picture . Aru keeps its Locked within .

All the living Rathore's lived that pain and they picked their shields.

AKT was still responsible for the death, even if his deeds were whitewashed he still has a role in arvind death .

And Arpita had no clue about arus revenge .

Originally posted by: Sutapasima

Just for fun ..some one can write a FF on this idea … Aryan is a Bi and he was heart broken when his partner Arvind was no more . Poor Arpita has no clue about his till date .

??? This seems so wrong in so many levels dear Aryan is such a good guy and he would cheat. I won't mind him being bi but cheating his sister? This isn't right, no one should write such stories 😒

Originally posted by: -JaZ-

I too questioned this once why Aryan is too much affected while Arpita behaves normal and got some backlash.. it was weird from day one.. now they are exploiting it even more by showing it as if it was due to Aryan's trauma that too by wrongly thinking akt was responsible and fuming to take revenge on him Arpita wasn't able to move on.. ultimately Aryan is the culprit behind everyone's misery.. 🤦‍♀️😤

may be writers don't understand viewers will not feel connected to such storyline..

I understand the backlash but from my point of view Aryan isn't any culprit

He just got guilty dear that he couldn't save his jiju but my problem is this show didn't focus on Arpita's story side. If they had shown the grief in equal footing and then Arpita moved on but Aru still stuck there I would have been absolutely okay.

Now why I ended up making this post? Because today Arpita had no say and when Aryan was saying now she should marry I was taken aback.

They are slowly making Aryan's character dependent on Imlie for correct decisions and judgments ( don't tell me no one noticed) the whole AKT case wrapped up that way.

Now suddenly Arpita found a friend in Sundar... and they can't be together at any cost so she requested Imlie to back off. I mean did she personally stepped up and said I decided to move on and marry? Nope BM brought rishta Aru felt right being in same status Imlie prioritizing Sundar and Narmada just happy she will be married.

I said her side character because she has no voice of hers. She can be angry when some one does wrong to het bro but can't decide for herself. That's the problem she had. It started from the back story and even in future I can see Mahaan Imlie taking decisions for this character.

Arpita deserves a Character Building for herself.😵

Originally posted by: Scorpiosrule

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