Arpita a mere Side Character! - Page 5

hugs mili9;

like you said there are different ways to grieve and to come to terms with a loved one passing.

atleast I understood this post as Arpita arc being not written well and not having the right emotional beats to go along with the scenes. however, at the moment, arpita is not the only being disjointed. so is imlie from my perspective. why is a girl who was kidnapped, had a bomb threat, said bye bye to her ex in one day now all ready for another mission the very next day? 😂 🤷‍♀️ 🤦

So sad to hear your loss mili. Hope you find peace to let go off your aunt soon. Virtual hugs dear🤗

Agree with you, imlie has been like my and my "apne" emotions are emotions and others emotions are nothing 🤷

If we remember revenge track, she did the same, and i don't mind her doing this honestly, being a 20 yo it's a learning phase, what i mind is her turning out right at the end, it leaves such a bad taste, bhai let the story be about imlie learning from her mistakes, thats how normal humans are made 👀

She has zero introspection, self awareness, self realisation, limits realisation... The list goes on and on.

Originally posted by: Hiccup

I was also going to share something similar....

My ma lost one of her closest friends.....i saw aunty's family returning to normalcy slowly within 1-2 months accepting it n moving on....

But it took my ma a long time to get over it....

she was'nt even family so should'nt be so affected right???

No one can judge anyone's pain n how they r affected n react to such a situation....

And fact that aryan's pain has been made fun of n seen as weird more coz he is a guy n the person he is mourning is also a guy.....is just sad to see...like men can't be affected by such stuff...

She became zinda lash acc to aryan n had pyrophobia.....n aryan took revenge as his coping mechnism..

Maybe Narmada n arpita processed their grief but aryan did'nt....

No can one judge or compare grief n trauma....Everyone is different...

And I agree wid u who says arpi's perspective should have been shown a little more....But thats on d shi*ty writing n all the googly that d Cvs had to face coz of someone so maybe they got sidetracked or simply did'nt care to show it....given the TRP aunties taste n disinterest in lots of logical tracks....

Until there is marriage involved somehow....khana hazam nai hota writers ka.....ya hone wali ho ya ho rahi ho ya rokne ki koshish ho ya chupane ki ya rishta ho raha ho ya divorce ho shaadi se somehow connected hona hi he bhai.....

Exactly.

No one can judge and compare trauma. And absolutely can not determine how much attached we should feel with our relations.

I hate how Aryan's pain was trivialized. His attachment and grief was judged. On top of all, he was made to apologize😡

The thread has taken an interesting route.❤️

By the thank you so much Mili for taking your time out for the beautiful reply in my post.

The post might look like comparison of traumas but it was more about the arc and rashness of not developing things from Arpita's pov which made many of us not connected. But this isn't downgrading Aryan's trauma... I just talked about how things were shown from Aryan's lens developing his side of story but I missed the space Arpita should get. It wasn't Arpita who said I an okay I moved on now I want to marry. It's about the arc how she isn't having any opinions.

But I 100% do agree with your words for the Rathore's analysis and also respect your aunt for inspiring you. I do started it a post to see different opinions and I am extremely grateful that all of you are giving time and as well as your patience anf replying with the various views I might be missing from my perspective.

THANK YOU SO MUCH GUYS FOR THE HEALTHY DISCUSSION 🤗

Hope I didn't irked you alll with my post😆

Btw I guess you already know a lot about me and my opinions so I am sorry to hurt everyone of you

Special mentions to the friends who were also strong enough to say out their opinions without fear...

And my frn Sharavani and BluejayFire needs a special mention too for being extremely considerate of me while putting the replies❤️

Well none of the replies were any one side biased but a mixture of perception of what all have learnt in life and reflect it in the opinions.

THANK YOU ONCE AGAIN❤️

Oh such a lovely post ❤️

Originally posted by: Deltablues

Oh such a lovely post ❤️

Forgot to tag

Sorry I missed you two...

Thank you for joining with your precious opinions❤️

All of your opinion matters.

If you ask me why it's because we learn a new perspective with every thoughts. From your opinions I learnt a new way to view things and yes keep my views in place too. We discussed we talked and we understood. I was in fear before posting that it might turn to a fight in the thread.

But you guys kept your composure and so your precious views.

ONCE AGAIN THANK YOU EVERYONE

I AM GRATEFUL TO YOU ALL❤️

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