Arpita a mere Side Character!

Since I have seen less people or no one sharing their opinion in this matter I invite you all to give your precious views...

WAS IT ONLY ABOUT ARYAN AND NOTHING ABOUT ARPITA?

REGARDING ARVIND SHEKHAWAT?

When something happens to Aryan it's shows Imlie going crazy but when something happened to Arvind it was all about Aryan's trauma, Aryan's wishes and Aryan's tragedy.

Believe it or not these things quite IRKED ME!

That guy didn't even let his sis in her own room for 4 years and said that I DON'T EVEN LET DIDI COME HERE proudly to Imlie when she tried to clean that room... why? Only coz it has jiju's memories? That girl had to sacrifice her own room and start living in another one because he don't want that room ro change! That girl couldn't cry holding his shirt because Aryan wanted everything to be like the way jiju left it but broke jiju's laptop on a whim just coz Imlie touched it. And no explanation is given to Arpita what or how things and time will move in that room? The bro in law has more emotional investments and rights than the lady to had loved Arvind before and married him?

Now here comes my second point... it's not Arpita for whom Arvind's name was not taken in that home. It was Aryan...? Hai?

3rd the strange comment by Arpita herself. Madhav tells about Arvind being murdered with a perfect plan not getting burned for mass anger. She was like Aryan should know the truth! He couldn't move forward? Girl what is wrong with you? If I would have been your place I would have faint thinking how wrongly my husband went to heaven. And the enemies roamed freely till date. I would have went in a deep hole of mourning how painful it was for him.

Yes I was expecting this kind of reaction from Arpita... And what do I get? My brother can move on now...🤬 Just think what my heart went through when they threw water in my expectations...

4th is today... How inconsiderate you can be Aryan? You literally made me feel like you are saying like "SIS I MOVED ON FROM JIJU TRAUMA, SO YOU GET MARRIED NOW. AS SOON AS POSSIBLE. SO ANY RISHTA IS OKAY EVEN IF IT IS BROUGHT BY THE LADY WHO IS TRYING TO HARM US FROM THE DAY SHE STEPPED HERE"

I mean Aryan you just decided that your sis should marry because you moved on and now you are okay talking about jiju?

So it was all about you and your pain Aryan?

Well I don't know what writers were thinking but they definitely penned it like the Arvind-Aryan relationship extra PRECIOUS can't be broken and Arvind-Arpita... nothing they were just a husband and a wife... yeah I don't even know what to write about their relationship... the writers just wrote it like meh🤢

Arpita has no rights over Arvind, Arpita has no rights about her life decisions, Arpita genuinely don't have any opinion of how unfair it has been with her always. It was all about Aryan, Narmada praying so that Aryan can overcome trauma but Arpita. Yep they considered that she had already moved on, pain is only for the brother. Imlie caring about Sundar's one sided love, BM is just plotting shady. High chance that Rishta might be of some frauds to get money from them.

But the main culprits are the writers... they never showed Arpita's character with care. She was always A MERE SIDE CHARACTER.

A character whose brother has more rights on her husband. A character whose mother don't ask her for her permission what she wants to do in life... even if she asks Narmada had already given her million dollar smile on the rishta as a pre blackmail to her. A character whose life can get changed with her brother's words and a character for whom the female protagonist will decide what's good for her.

This is making me angry... the creators never put her character consciously, they showed Aryan extra strong but Arpita meek, selfless, who has no aura of herself.

The Character Arpita is a Side Character who would only be exploited for the story of mainleads. Learn from Chi_nese drama sometimes atleast they don't mix 2nd lead's or side character's stories with the main ones😔

Ab chappal mat maarna merepe pls. I love Aryan the most and he is the reason why I watch this show but I felt frustration on the writer's today for making a couple's relationship way more valueless than the relationship of a bro-in-lawa and jiju... it was indeed all about Aryan but Arpita?

She is just a character who has nothing as a human not even humanly emotions a lover feels. She is all about others. A puppet!

Calling ppl I feel safe with😆

We live in times, where every person trauma/grief is gauged . Ppl have diff level of taking things .arpi could have accepted arvind death. Aru couldn't.simple why is Arpi and Aru grief gauged ? Arpi accepted fate .she accepted to take things as it come . She might have moved on or not.

She might have accepted to live with arvind memories.

Death is the harsh truth that no-one can deny .

There is another truth to it ppl move on ,not because they forget , because they accept and strt to live with them not being around forever in their hearts.

Aru couldn't move on he had diff attachment to arvind plese stop comparing their pain.

Its not 0-10 it start from 100 to infinity

I lost half my essay. Will come back later.

Originally posted by: -TeriMalang-

We live in times, where every person trauma/grief is gauged . Ppl have diff level of taking things .arpi could have accepted arvind death. Aru couldn't.simple why is Arpi and Aru grief gauged ? Arpi accepted fate .she accepted to take things as it come . She might have moved on or not.

She might have accepted to live with arvind memories.

Death is the harsh truth that no-one can deny .

There is another truth to it ppl move on ,not because they forget , because they accept and strt to live with them not being around forever in their hearts.

Aru couldn't move on he had diff attachment to arvind plese stop comparing their pain.

Its not 0-10 it start from 100 to infinity

I am sorry if my post made you angry. But comparison comes sometimes, not just I every one in my family noticed it. My dad who don't even gives a comment on serials he said why she is talking about Aryan moving on she was having pyrophobia a few days back for her husband's death.

Doesn't anyone get surprised hearing the death one was considering a mass anger was a planned murder?

That's when I started noticing how writers never gave her character an aura. She talked about Arylie marriage, Arylie love and did everything but where is her story? They didn't show a love story of Sundar and Arpita and today suddenly it became The Heart Wants What It Wants.

My complaint is for the writers who never made her stand out as a character in herself.

Once again sorry if my perspective hurt you I can't help but think like this way😭

Originally posted by: MiuniS

I am sorry if my post made you angry. But comparison comes sometimes, not just I every one in my family noticed it. My dad who don't even gives a comment on serials he said why she is talking about Aryan moving on she was having pyrophobia a few days back for her husband's death.

Doesn't anyone get surprised hearing the death one was considering a mass anger was a planned murder?

That's when I started noticing how writers never gave her character an aura. She talked about Arylie marriage, Arylie love and did everything but where is her story? They didn't show a love story of Sundar and Arpita and today suddenly it became The Heart Wants What It Wants.

My complaint is for the writers who never made her stand out as a character in herself.

Once again sorry if my perspective hurt you I can't help but think like this way😭

Oh chill, i was just irked about ARU trauma being mocked day and night thats it .

About arpi I think she have accepted arvinds death . And she earned that moving on will only be the option seeing her brother in the dungeons of guilt .

And arpi Sundar . They have no love to start with its mutual admiration . That's it . Our in house emma thinks she is pro at matchmaking and shoving an uncooked stry down everyone throat.

I really hope this is addressed and let them grow as partners before love jaap and shaadi karado maala

My thoughts were Aryan is younger and so much bonded to Arvind, that Arpita probably felt her pain she can take but not Aru's. Like sometimes, its difficult for a child to accept the reality of a dad passing away than his wife/childs mom herself. This is how I felt about this situation. Aru is like the youngest of the house and so much pampered by everyone.

Based on title i don't think she's a side char, the casting suggests a promising parallel track but...

There's always a big but y'know😴

Just for fun ..some one can write a FF on this idea … Aryan is a Bi and he was heart broken when his partner Arvind was no more . Poor Arpita has no clue about his till date .

I too questioned this once why Aryan is too much affected while Arpita behaves normal and got some backlash.. it was weird from day one.. now they are exploiting it even more by showing it as if it was due to Aryan's trauma that too by wrongly thinking akt was responsible and fuming to take revenge on him Arpita wasn't able to move on.. ultimately Aryan is the culprit behind everyone's misery.. 🤦‍♀️😤

may be writers don't understand viewers will not feel connected to such storyline..