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Originally posted by: BossLady
Purdah pratha was never a part of our culture.It is nowhere mentioned in the H scriptures, manuscripts,etc.So,the que arises, what were the circumstances that led people to acquiesce to the custom.
Hinduism in essence is a matriarchal religion,the only religion that puts Goddesses on a higher pedestal than Gods.Our ancients honoured the female & never objectified the women bcoz they knew the karmic repurcussions it brings on a society & their generations if a female cursed them even subconsciously.
Purdah,Sati was introduced to save our sisters & daughters from the evil eye of foreign invaders like Mughals,Turks,Arabics,etc when these invasions reached its Apogee during the late medieval period.Thousands of Hindu women burnt themselves to ashes in the flame of Jauhar to protect their dignity.So,the purdah was the necessity of that time period.
But,the question of its relevance in today's times is a matter of debate.
@bold I completely agree with this.👍🏼
Well you mentioned hijab,so I had to say this😆
There can be no comparison of Burqa/hijab with Ghunghat.Ghunghat proclaims dignity & feminine grace of an Arya lady.
Burkha proclaims that a lady is just a sex object & hence needs to be covered or else her relations will look at her with lust. One is a mark of a civilization other isn’t!
Having said this,people use Purdah and Ghoonghat interchangeably,although they are two separate things.Purdah came much later.
Even in Preislamic times Ghunghat was the custom of North India . It's just a mark of respect in front of elders, sometimes protecting one's identity from stray elements and also to protect from paranormal entities and hence,I believe should be embraced.But,it was never a practice which was imposed on women like it is on some communities now. People's non-acceptance of these customs comes from the fact that they fail to understand the advanced science behind all our religious practices.
Freedom of choice, expression,etc should come with certain restrictions.Freedom does not mean that you can stray around like uncivilized creatures.
As a kid I was taught that Sati,Pardah, Ghunghat were bad but was never taught the reason why we opted for them.Never were we taught about the restrictions of the Catholic Church & Islam vis-a-vis women.No wonder we've an army of self hating youngsters.They are pushed to adopt flawed modernization, culture bashing and what not.😡Our teaching system is responsible for the rotten minds of the youth.🥺
At last, One also needs to simultaneously acknowledge the choice of a woman in her attire without imposing any norms.We can't force her to accept a custom until unless it comes straight from her heart.
I am in support of Ghunghat.🙋🤸🌚🤛
Wow......what an explanation....👌👌. Bosslady... You are really a BOSS when it comes to writing..... Still can't believe you are so young and can express with such maturity.. Yes the difference you mentioned between ghoonghat and purdah system is justified.
Purdah is definitely done , here females are treated like objects .....no one except her near ones can see her even......
Beautifully explained by Sargu....❤️.. Would want my daughter to write like you some day....
Even I agree to what Manu said. Ghoonghat should not be imposed .... Also feel bad for those on whom it is imposed...Ghoonghat ke naam pe torture ... I can understand Sappu's state of mind better now...
Is modern times mein when there are so many restrictions on a female marriage will definitely be a nightmare..
But I hope families in even villages now atleast come to some flexibility for this ghoonghat system. and also traditions....like female foeticide, giving importance to boys, Dowry, treating daughter in law's as slaves etc...
Originally posted by: ReenVora
Wow......what an explanation....👌👌. Bosslady... You are really a BOSS when it comes to writing..... Still can't believe you are so young and can express with such maturity.. Yes the difference you mentioned between ghoonghat and purdah system is justified.
Purdah is definitely done , here females are treated like objects .....no one except her near ones can see her even......
Beautifully explained by Sargu....❤️.. Would want my daughter to write like you some day....
Even I agree to what Manu said. Ghoonghat should not be imposed .... Also feel bad for those on whom it is imposed...Ghoonghat ke naam pe torture ... I can understand Sappu's state of mind better now...
Is modern times mein when there are so many restrictions on a female marriage will definitely be a nightmare..
But I hope families in even villages now atleast come to some flexibility for this ghoonghat system. and also traditions....like female foeticide, giving importance to boys, Dowry, treating daughter in law's as slaves etc...
Ek baat jo mai add karungi ki jaisa sapna ne bola ki lamba ghunghat karna padta hai. Ghunghat kabhi hamare culture ka hissa nhi rha. Per agar hum dekhe to Rajasthan aisi jagah hai jaha ret(sand) udti hai to us chij se bachne ke liye, eyes ke liye face ko cover karna pada, aur aage jakar waha ke logo be us chij ko apne culture me add kiya. Arab countries me bhi shekh head cover karte hai safty ke liye.
Manu ne bhi bola Maharashtra me te culture nhi hai kyunki waha ye problem nhi hai
Sir pe aanchal rakhna chahe wo saree ka ho ya dupatte ka. Ye elders ko respect show karna hua. Per lamba ghunghat karna ye safty purpose ke liye tha hi baad me ladies ke liye compulsory kiya gya.
Aaj ki life me night wedding hona, jaise hamara culture nHi rha. Per mugals and so called their brothers ke darr se ye shadiyan raat ko chori chuppe shanti me hone lagi Kyunki din me loot macha dete the aur ever dulhan ko utha kar le hate the.
Per jab ye darr kam hua to night wedding ko glorify kiya gya. Band baraat aur patakho ke saath aur aaj ye culture ho gya hai
baap re...😲😲Originally posted by: BossLady
Purdah pratha was never a part of our culture.It is nowhere mentioned in the H scriptures, manuscripts,etc.So,the que arises, what were the circumstances that led people to acquiesce to the custom?
Hinduism in essence is a matriarchal religion,the only religion that puts Goddesses on a higher pedestal than Gods.Our ancients honoured the female & never objectified the women bcoz they knew the karmic repurcussions it brings on a society & their generations if a female cursed them even subconsciously.
Purdah,Sati was introduced to save our sisters & daughters from the evil eye of foreign invaders like Mughals,Turks,Arabics,etc when these invasions reached its Apogee during the late medieval period.Thousands of Hindu women burnt themselves to ashes in the flame of Jauhar to protect their dignity.So,the purdah was the necessity of that time period.
But,the question of its relevance in today's times is a matter of debate.
@bold I completely agree with this.👍🏼
Well you mentioned hijab,so I had to say this😆
There can be no comparison of Burqa/hijab with Ghunghat.Ghunghat proclaims dignity & feminine grace of an Arya lady.
Burkha proclaims that a lady is just a sex object & hence needs to be covered or else her relations will look at her with lust. One is a mark of a civilization other isn’t!
Having said this,people use Purdah and Ghoonghat interchangeably,although they are two separate things.Purdah came much later.
Even in Preislamic times Ghunghat was the custom of North India . It's just a mark of respect in front of elders, sometimes protecting one's identity from stray elements and also to protect from paranormal entities and hence,I believe should be embraced.But,it was never a practice which was imposed on women like it is on some communities now. People's non-acceptance of these customs comes from the fact that they fail to understand the advanced science behind all our religious practices.
Freedom of choice, expression,etc should come with certain restrictions.Freedom does not mean that you can stray around like uncivilized creatures.
As a kid I was taught that Sati,Pardah, Ghunghat were bad but was never taught the reason why we opted for them.Never were we taught about the restrictions of the Catholic Church & Islam vis-a-vis women.No wonder we've an army of self hating youngsters.They are pushed to adopt flawed modernization, culture bashing and what not.😡Our teaching system is responsible for the rotten minds of the youth.🥺
At last, One also needs to simultaneously acknowledge the choice of a woman in her attire without imposing any norms.We can't force her to accept a custom until unless it comes straight from her heart.
I am in support of Ghunghat.🙋🤸🌚🤛
Par tu likhti bahut accha hai sargu...👏❤️👏
Hunari ladki bahut samjhdaar hai...😈❤️😆
I agree with you on certain things here. .
Haa ghoongat jab aaya hoga yaa iss pratha ki jab start kiya hoga iske reasons kuch aur honge.. Aur shayad acche bhi honge...
But problam ye hai ki aaj ke time mai isko women's pe impose hii kiya jaata hai...
Jaise yaha to ye hai ki aapko ghunghat karna hii hai agar aapki marzi hai to bhi aur nahi hai to bhi..🙄
And iske piche usko torture karna is so wrong..😪
Ab tu mujhe hii dekh le...maine kabhi ghaghra yaa saari nahi pehni..matalab agar pehni bhi hogi to kuch ghanto ke liye...
Par agar mai shaadi karungi to mujhe ghunghat lena hii padega.. Kitna difficult hota hai vo... Jaruri to nahi hai na ki elders ka samman karne ke liye ghunghat jaruri ho.. Sharam to aankhon mai behavior mai hoti hai... Ghunghat pehan kar gaali de fir kya vo thik hai..
To iska koi maayne nahi rehte...
Mai to bas itna keh rahi huu ki women's ki apni choice honi chahiye ki usko ghunghat nikalna hai ki nahi... Ye usko jabardasti ye karne pe majboor karna galat hai..
Bold .. This is it..❤
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