My 2 cents on the Dhara Rishita conflict only with regards to pregnancy
I can feel for both of them .
Dhara made a consious choice of not having kids for 10 years and had difficulties conceiving in the first place . Lost one pregnancy to fate and other to the animosity of enemies around.
It's natural for her to think that such things should not happen with others. She is probably scared for Rishita's unborn baby and her protectiveness is coming out as overbearing .
But after doing her share of carelessness during her share of pregnancy , it doesn't sound good when this kind of behavior is exhibited by her towards Rishita.
She has been someone who had always been interfering into others business a lot Post leap and , this fact doesn't let the other (here rishita and us audience ) take her words at the face value and not like she is trying to be controlling. Uska image Thoda better hota toh may be others would take her seriously .
And coming to Rishita , I understand she is all my life my rules most time. But it's okay to heed others advice at times. It's okay to give others the benefit of doubt. It's fine to learn from others mistakes. She must be feeling suffocated and that's relatable too . She is not being allowed to breathe freely .she is bound to snap .
In most families , when a woman is pregnant it becomes all about the baby and the family tend to forget the woman who is pregnant - her thoughts , wants, emotions and feelings. If she says she wants to eat something they will go above and beyond capability to make sure it's available but is she says she wants to do something , there are 1000 restrictions and some of them really are not needed.
Rishita wants to have some fun at her brother in law's wedding and that should not become a huge ask for her . So if she wants to dance a bit , she can dance keeping the safety of hers and baby's in mind. Putting restrictions in unnecessary scenarios makes her feel caged and resentment builds easily in such cases. So she snaps at Dhara though she means no harm.
Dhara needs to understand that rishita is grown up to be careful about herself and rishita needs to mellow down and understand not everything that dhara says is to control her - she means well for her and the baby
Tab take ye chalta rahega .