Originally posted by: ElizaDarcy
I felt sorry for her.. to witness something like that on women's day was totally unexpected. World is just becoming a crappy version of itself... may be Yuga Dharma
I agree with Karma part. Ours is a joint family, my paternal uncle and aunt never bothered about my grandparents when they needed them most. My father and mother took care of my grandparents until their last breath. They had to handle tantrums of both old ppl and infants at the same time.š i don't know how they managed.
Now that I observe the couple are alone with so much money but none are with them to spend and they miss their children no matter how much they try to hide it. All my cousins shifted abroad, two of them are settled in US and one in Dubai. They got their justice but sometimes I feel sorry so invite them during festivals or birthdays.
@bold - isn't it the custest woman's day celebration. ā¤ļø
Yep,
That's all we can do.
Feel sorry for them and take it as lesson for future not to repeat the same mistakes.
Tbh oldies have more tantrums than kids but they are parents. We can never repay them for bringing us up into the world. The sleepless nites they sacrrificed. So just bear and do ur karma. They will bear theirs.
Some MIL don't appreciate their DILs. I have seen that.
My grandma was such . More towards her own daughters
After she passed away, she used to come into my mother's dreams and apologizes. My dad used to joke.
Maybe getting punishment from grandpa up there who died a decade before her. Who witnessed everything from the heaven.
My MIL also same. Now stuck in Pune coz of covid lockdown . Malaysia airport closed. Daughter staying nearby can't take care.
Always my daughter, my daughter now u face ur karma
Older DIL cannot get along with her. That one is mental case and greedy. Older son told my husband if mother stays with me , half property in writing should be given.
FIL passed away two years back. Jan 2020 at brothers place in Delhi visiting great granddaughter. Brother's older son's kid.
They shifted to Pune coz nearer to daughter and older son and DIL always giving problems. They live in same neighborhood.
FIL doesn't like to live in Malaysia. Feels home sick. Misses social life back home. Always come for one mth visa but after a week runs away feeling bored. They don't know anyone here
my husband sponsored his parents through out the yrs. I don't interfere. We do our part. They appreciate or not that's their problem.
On FIL funeral day , fight happened for property. MIL stated want to sell pune hse and rebuy in Delhi under my husband name since he was taking care of them for many years. She has stated that a few times. My husband already told her don't repeat coz property talks will create problem.
SIL got angry. Started shouting. Why u keep saying the same thing. Luckily i was not there
My kid was three plus and it was winter. I didn't join my husband to India. She will get ill. So he went alone for the funeral.
27 jan 2020, rcvd call in the morning from brother, then evening he took a flight to delhi
Cremation the next day
He told me on the phone lucky u didn't come. Very bad arguement. SIL left to pune that night itself with her husband and children. She never stayed till her father's prayers completed. How sad that was
MIL put up in brother's place. Feel pity for my FIL. They didn't let him go peacefully. Then my husband brought ber to Malaysia. In march she returned to pune to settle the things and hse. Now got stuck coz of covid. Appeal Malaysian immigration for the bubble flight. They say fifty thousand Malaysians stranded outside . First preference citizen only then foreigner. She will live with us on senior citizen visa .
Border opens then he will bring her
A good lesson for her. Laser mouth , cannot keep quiet. Why talk about property when u know how ur son and SIL is. My FIL would have cursed her fot not letting him go peacefully.
I told my husband, she did it on purpose. She doesn't want to stay with them. She purposely created the argument.
she is shrewd .
But two yrs learnt a good lesson. Now taunts the daughter as well. Useless and good for nothing. Earlier my daughter, my daughter
My husband told her off. U sew ur karma'.
I usually ignore her tantrums. Put in one ear and take it out the other side
Nowadays sweet on the phone. Coz she knows no one gonna take care of her except me šš
So, this is life
Ghar ghar ki Kahani. Property , paisa is everything but not parents.
We do our karma.
Edited by Aniash - 3 years ago