Abhira have become a nautanki couple!

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Why are abhira a nautanki couple?

1) From Abhimanyu's I don't believe in marriage to being desperate about a girl from a 3 days trip to anyhow get married to her. Even to the extent of marrying the other sister to get the girl he loves. Akshara's I am tyaag ki devi to ditching her sister on the wedding day when mandap is set and saying " I know thoda late hogaya apne feelings confess karne mai "😆🤣

2) Abhimanyu and akshara's soul wala connection, telepathy failed when abhimanyu couldn't understand a simple reason behind Akshara's NO - that is her sister. Even after knowing from the trip that she loves her sister deeply and his tilak broke with the same sister. His confusion of YES or NO even though akshara clearly responded to his feelings in the trip. His not even questioning akshara that what does abhimanyu lack for akshara to reject him that she doesn't want to give a chance to this relationship.

3) Abhimanyu and akshara's flying kisses, flying hearts - that is all that is there in the love between two mature people? 😆 no actual depth, no conversations, nothing that makes us believe that yes why they fell for each other? The only thing i am convinced is that they are both very kind people who believing in helping people so they fell for each other. Even teenagers have a better base to their romance than just cheesy I LOVE YOU, flying kisses and hearts. They date and get to know each other, then they claim yes we are in love.

4)Abhimanyu's obsession with akshara falling down. Today akshara was about to fall down but his reaction was so over the top . Abhi bhi wedding ki padi hai ... Gir jati, popli ho jati, wedding photograph blah blah.

5) Their ignoring their family like anything. Manish is absolutely right in his place. If a guy dumped a sister in her mandap because he wanted to marry the other sister, no matter what kind of "true love" they share, the dad will slap the guy and never agree to an alliance with him. Even after knowing that it's a big thing, abhimanyu and akshara think whatever they did is okay. No matter how wrong was aarohi in not letting know of the credits, fact of the matter is she was getting married and in our eyes she is wrong because she lied but in her eyes she is right because she felt that marriage between abhimanyu and her would be the right thing. In real life too people take favour of situations but to be jilted on your wedding day is the worst kind of humiliation. It's not wrong to marry someone because of their status, money, profession etc ....maximum arrange marriages in India work this way where parents fix the marriage with people of their same status. I know it's snobbish but it's not wrong to the extent that aarohi becomes a vamp because of this.

5) Abhimanyu was not at all right in standing outside goenka house and creating a havoc. He could have stayed calm and left. What was the need to stand outside and irritate a person who he knows has pain in his left hand and some health problem? How is Manish wrong that after knowing Abhimanyu's ping pong two times, birla's dislike towards akshu even if it's just harshwardhan birla to not want to send her to that house?

6) all of Abhimanyu's baby talks with akshara. Abhimanyu is a mature doctor and akshara is a person still living her teenage dreams. How do these people even connect? The age difference makes the difference in personality more apparent. Probably abhimanyu loves akshara because he wanted to pamper a baby girl 😆 He is so desperate about her that he has tarnished his reputation in society,is ready to be in lock up, force himself on her family,do 100 weird things just to get her

That's all that is there to the love story or am I missing something? Oh yes- mythology. They are modern day shiv sati Parvati 😆

With all of these, abhira appear really IMMATURE to me. I fail to believe they are people who are 25+ in age. Such decisions are not even taken by teenager.

P.S- somewhere I do root for them and enjoy their scenes because I believe they are soulmates and I am looking it at fiction but that doesn't make me neglect the very obvious lack of logic in the love story. They do look cute together in some scenes but other times it makes me go nibba nibbi too. I loved how they had those angst conversations. That was two mature people conversing but after akshara confessed, it's looking as if abhimanyu is babysitting her. 😳 I liked yesterday's episode and Abhimanyu's giving back to Manish to not ask children to compromise love for family, he had some valid points but assuming that HE DID NOT LEAVE THE OTHER SISTER ON MANDAP.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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The most selfish couple and cringe couple in this Indian tv 🤪kya soch that aur yeh Kya nikle 🤪

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Waidehi

The most selfish couple and cringe couple in this Indian tv 🤪kya soch that aur yeh Kya nikle 🤪

i agree abhi has been selfish, akshu has never been

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Posted: 4 years ago
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oh! girl I feel every bit of your Passionate irritation my dear but I am unable to write anything coz I am nose-deep into this slimy quicksand.

I am so biased in my Love for Harshad Chopda and the whole Shiv-Parvathi Mythology parallel that I have just so much bandwidth to pen my thoughts.

But I completely understand your take. If I had to do a book review/ character study or debate on the pros-cons of the character development and protagonist arc. I would have jotted exactly what you say.

But I can do only so much in a day's times with limited time for these. thats why I have almost disappeared.

All I can say to you is that I did not find Manish unreasonable at all but I did find him too harsh on Abhimanyu.

The other take would have been to call PRuncle that his bigda beta is rubbing his nose at his doorstep and that would have been a big insult. Without involving the police the two families could have had a huge mahabharat and Manish could have had the heart attack.


But that does not serve the purpose of Abhi being socially humiliated and Akshara loosing her cool while Abhi tries to be civil because she has asked him to do so.


In life there is no right or wrong. Let me tell you that I did not want to get married and so I quietly took my GRE tests wrote my SOP and when I got admission told my parents that I was leaving for US. Well, within 4 months I met my husband and was ready to marry him.

I hope that it gives you a real story to think about. When we live it it does not sound dramatic but when I tell people I myself find my story extremely dramatic and filmy too.

TMI, but I just thought no one is perfect and no situation will be seen the same by two people. Hope that helps you to reanalyze what you think about Abhimanyu's no marriage resolution to marry Akshara asap situation.

Edited by Illuminatus. - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Illuminatus.

oh! girl I feel every bit of your Passionate irritation my dear but I am unable to write anything coz I am nose-deep into this slimy quicksand.

I am so biased in my Love for Harshad Chopda and the whole Shiv-Parvathi Mythology parallel that I have just so much bandwidth to pen my thoughts.

But I completely understand your take. If I had to do a book review/ character study or debate on the pros-cons of the character development and protagonist arc. I would have jotted exactly what you say.

But I can do only so much in a day's times with limited time for these. thats why I have almost disappeared.

All I can say to you is that I did not find Manish unreasonable at all but I did find him too harsh on Abhimanyu.

The other take would have been to call PRuncle that his bigda beta is rubbing his nose at his doorstep and that would have been a big insult. Without involving the police the two families could have had a huge mahabharat and Manish could have had the heart attack.


But that does not serve the purpose of Abhi being socially humiliated and Akshara loosing her cool while Abhi tries to be civil because she has asked him to do so.


In life there is no right or wrong. Let me tell you that I did not want to get married and so I quietly took my GRE tests wrote my SOP and when I got admission told my parents that I was leaving for US. Well, within 4 months I met my husband and was ready to marry him.

I hope that it gives you a real story to think about. When we live it it does not sound dramatic but when I tell people I myself find my story extremely dramatic and filmy too.

TMI, but I just thought no one is perfect and no situation will be seen the same by two people.

@Bold: same! That's what makes me hooked to the show too. I don't mind the mythology and like analysing but i feel when you have great actors on board, why compromise on a meaningful story? They can very well make use of HC's acting skills, mythology touches as well as deliver a meaningful story with good dialogues, proper chemistry. Nobody is asking them to romance, kiss or anything. They should just behave like a mature couple in love. Then being together on screen should reflect a meaningful essence.

And yes about falling in love and wanting to marry is fine. Even when I fell in love, I was shocked as I too believed that I can't fall in love and I think most people think like that but in falling in love or developing a crush, nobody can become so authoritative of the other person to think they have a right on the other person. That they too need the feel the same way. Especially when there are two mature people involved. Their behaviour was if they had are teenagers and they had a heartbreak out of a long relationship. I didn't mind abhimanyu being convinced that Akshara is the one for him from the 3 day trip or to think they are a good match but for him to claim that he loves her deeply without even knowing her was weird and to straightaway propose marriage without even one conversation with her about her own wishes. That's what kept following. Abhimanyu's own wishes to make akshara confess. He never wanted to know her point of view or cared to know

Getting my point?

Edited by borntorule12 - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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A whole section is able to find meaning. And there will always be difference of opinion.

Even the nobel prize books dont have 100% votes and many readers will diss the book, concept, storyline or the writing style.

Its just the way it is, and thats perfect.

Thats the reason from these stories more ff start out. I am loving your questions you are constructive in your criticism and that is the reason I always try to reply to you.

I really appreciate your questions and queries.

Give me time its already 12:30am and I still have a few readings to complete since I am traveling to Mexico tomorrow for the week. But I will absolutely sit and write my thoughts on all your questions to best of my thinking abilities.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Illuminatus.

A whole section is able to find meaning. And there will always be difference of opinion.

Even the nobel prize books dont have 100% votes and many readers will diss the book, concept, storyline or the writing style.

Its just the way it is, and thats perfect.

Thats the reason from these stories more ff start out. I am loving your questions you are constructive in your criticism and that is the reason I always try to reply to you.

I really appreciate your questions and queries.

Give me time its already 12:30am and I still have a few readings to complete since I am traveling to Mexico tomorrow for the week. But I will absolutely sit and write my thoughts on all your questions to best of my thinking abilities.

I really really enjoy your replies and make it a point to tag you! Even I understand it's fiction and they want us to believe in the fall in love at the first sight concept and i am somehow guilty of being convinced about the story when I get good scenes in the show but when it gets over the top these questions arise in my mind.

Even I have a positive point of view or to say silver linings on these two and would definitely make a post on that which would make me contradict my own questions.

Yes, harshad and pranali share a great chemistry. I just feel pranali should be made to dress up a bit older rather than giving her teenager looks. Their trip scenes were amazing, loved their dress up and conversations during the angst track too but idk expectations didn't meet post confession.

Really waiting for your take ! Thank you so much for replying ❤️

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Hey, I just read ur post n yes I do agree with some of ur points but I would also disagree with some of them.

TBVH I'm still a girl away from the love saga in the world that might be cuz I'm still a fresh adult n have to study much to spare my attention to this stuff.

So I'm going to understand n see things from others POV, so Ig Abhira's love story n the intensity of the emotion is not something I can understand very easily.🙈

But families might just be my strong point at least when compared to my knowledge in love, What you said about Manish is very apt considering if that is all he had in mind. But then I would like to point out why did the man agree on doing Tilak 2.0 with the very same person who came after causing a major fuzz up the first time for the same girl he rejected.smiley29

My issue with Manish is his blind partiality in between all the 4 kids, I don't remember Manish having a talk with Akshara, I do agree Akshara might be wrong for running to Abhi on the wedding day but let's blame the situation there.

But also before that I never saw Manish or for that point no elder asking Akshu what was in her mind, considering the kids have lost their parents it's ur responsibility to look after them. All the kids in the house are different one seems loud others are suffering in silence types.

I would have loved it if that was all Manish thought about, Instead of ego-tripping around.smiley7

I believed in Aarohi being career-minded but that all changed in the past few episodes now. I thought she wanted to become a dr for making a change but again the points contradict here, I remember her saying in the first episode in Birla hospital that samaj seva is good but one needs money n fame to do so, which is practical too. N then during the resigning episode she gave reasoning for her mom death I can't seem to connect to that now as on hand if there were a patient in need one poor n one rich, what would she do ??

N trust me interns are treated far more worst than what Aarohi went through. Setting that aside what was a major turn-off was I always knew she has issues with Abhira but you went n rattled out u brother too?

She lost my sympathy there.smiley28

Why would one do that, also when we believe Aarohi's a good dr n when Manish fell in precap, why would a good Dr not give first aid to the person. Instead, she called n told that to Akshu I mean why??

Writers should srsly be careful while handling such arcs. To add this might seem like a complete rant n not match the points but that's how practical life n ITV works that's what one of my forum friend tried to nail into me n I learned it hard way.

N considering the other series going around on ITV this is the most that make sense n others valid point that you kept are to be blamed on the writers.smiley2

Ik many would not agree with all I said but that's my take on this. Also, I have a major soft spot for Akshara 🤗

Edited by aishapl013 - 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: aishapl013

Hey, I just read ur post n yes I do agree to some of ur points but I would also disagree on some of them.

TBVH I'm still a girl away from the love saga in the world that might be cuz I'm still fresh adult n have to study much to spare my attention to this stuff.

So I'm going understand n see things by others POV, so Ig Abhira's love story n the emotions intensity is not something I can understand very easily.🙈

But families might just be my strong point at least when compared to my knowledge in love, What you said about Manish is very apt considering if that is all he had in mind. But then I would like to point out why did the man agree on doing Tilak 2.0 with very same person who came after causing a major fuzz up the first time for the same girl he rejected.smiley29

My issue with Manish is his blind partiality in between all the 4 kids, I don't remember Manish having a talk with Akshara, I do agree Akshara might be wrong for running to Abhi on wedding day but lets blame the situation their.

But also before that I never saw Manish or for that point no elder asking Akshu what was in her mind, considering the kids have lost their parents its ur responsibility to look after them. All the kids in the house are different one seems loud others are suffer in silence types.

I would have loved it if that was all Manish thought about, Instead of ego tripping around.smiley7

I believed in Aarohi being career minded but that all changed in the past few episode now. I thought she wanted to become a dr for making a change but again the points contraindicate here I remember her saying in first episode in Birla hospital that samaj seva is good but one needs money n fame to do so, which is practical too. N then during the resigning episode she gave reasoning of her mom deaths I can't seem to connect to that now. N trust me interns are treated far more worst than what Aarohi went through. Setting that aside what was major turn off was I always knew she has issues with Abhira but you went n rattled out u brother too?

She lost my sympathy their.smiley28

Why would one do that, also when we believe Aarohi's a good dr n when Manish fell in precap, why would a good Dr not give a first aid to the person. Instead she called n told that too Akshu I mean why??

Writers should srsly be careful while handling such arcs. To add this might seem as a complete rant n not match the points but that's how practical life n ITV works that's what one of my forum friend tried to nail into me.

N considering the other series going around on ITV this is the most that makes sense n others valid point that you kept are to be blamed on the writers.smiley2

Ik many would not agree to all I said but that's my take on this. Also I have a major soft spot for Akshara 🤗

I respect your POV but my point is that at that time of tilak 2.0 the situation was way different. It was just a tilak breaking but here all the ceromonies like mehendi, haldi, engagement have happened which involved time, effort. Moreover, everyone in society knows aarohi and abhimanyu are about to get married. The same thing happening twice is what making Manish go mad. He keeps saying dono bachi ke saath khela hai because he feels both have been cheated because of abhimanyu. We have seen how in earlier episodes( episode 1 or 2) Manish asked akshara to not give in to Aarohi's demand as she is becoming super ziddi and how it's already been 12 years and still aarohi hasn't let go off her hatred for akshara...so he is aware of the situation.. it's akshara herself who wanted to become mahaan in order to win her sister so she gave up on abhimnayu as she said I want to win aarohi by giving up on abhimanyu. Families were never against abhira alliance. In fact, after tilak 1.0 mimi and Manish discussed they will again consider abhira relationship but akshara herself went to birla house n rejected abhi n declared in goenka house that she has refused abhimanyu birla..

If only akshara spoke her true feelings and convinced family way earlier this situation wouldn't have arised...

As far as aarohi is concerned, yes she is being mean to kairav too but that doesn't justify whatever happened on the wedding day with her. These two are different matters. In real life too, we have bratty cousins or selfish cousins...people who are mean or do mean things but that doesn't mean they deserve humilation on their wedding day..

Aarohi is vile n selfish because kairav and akshu never spoke against her, kept on pampering her thinking her to be sister to make her this way... They too should have made her understand where she keeps going wrong and stood up for their rights...if aarohi is immature in keeping demands, so are akshara and kairav for giving in to her stupid demands... All of their stupidity has landed them in the situation they are today...so abhira shouldn't claim they are right...as abhimanyu himself proposed the alliance

Edited by borntorule12 - 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: borntorule12

I respect your POV but my point is that at that time of tilak 2.0 the situation was way different. It was just a tilak breaking but here all the ceromonies like mehendi, haldi, engagement have happened which involved time, effort. Moreover, everyone in society knows aarohi and abhimanyu are about to get married. The same thing happening twice is what making Manish go mad. He keeps saying dono bachi ke saath khela hai because he feels both have been cheated because of abhimanyu. We have seen how in earlier episodes( episode 1 or 2) Manish asked akshara to not give in to Aarohi's demand as she is becoming super ziddi and how it's already been 12 years and still aarohi hasn't let go off her hatred for akshara...so he is aware of the situation.. it's akshara herself who wanted to become mahaan in order to win her sister so she gave up on abhimnayu as she said I want to win aarohi by giving up on abhimanyu. Families were never against abhira alliance. In fact, after tilak 1.0 mimi and Manish discussed they will again consider abhira relationship but akshara herself went to birla house n rejected abhi n declared in goenka house that she has refused abhimanyu birla..

If only akshara spoke her true feelings and convinced family way earlier this situation wouldn't have arised...

As far as aarohi is concerned, yes she is being mean to kairav too but that doesn't justify whatever happened on the wedding day with her. These two are different matters. In real life too, we have bratty cousins or selfish cousins...people who are mean or do mean things but that doesn't mean they deserve humilation on their wedding day..

Aarohi is vile n selfish because kairav and akshu never spoke against her, kept on pampering her thinking her to be sister to make her this way... They too should have made her understand where she keeps going wrong and stood up for their rights...if aarohi is immature in keeping demands, so are akshara and kairav for giving in to her stupid demands... All of their stupidity has landed them in the situation they are today...so abhira shouldn't claim they are right...as abhimanyu himself proposed the alliance

Abhimanyu proposed Arohi really ...Will any sane girl accept such proposal ??He clearlysaid I love ur sister and that girl know very well Akshu loves him then also she accepted.....So according to u Arohi can do anything but she shouldn't get punished I didn't get this...Manish is wrong what made me feel bad is he didn't even ask time for fixing the alliance of arohi with Abhi...soul love exist I herself experienced that so I can connect Abhira especially Abhi .....

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