Originally posted by: Illyrion
 
 You asked why people cared less about a 32 year old dating an older man. The honest answer is none of us know these people personally but generally speaking a 32 year old is much more mature than someone under 25. This is common sense and also backed scientifically. Are there individual exceptions? Yes - I’m sure there are. Would I count on any random 32 year old being significantly more mature than any random 23 year old? - yes, everyday all day and science says I’d almost always be right. 
If you say Alia (or some 18 year old you know) is the individual exception, fine I certainly can’t say she’s not. But finding an occasional exception doesn’t negate the rule. 
I was not going to comment but good to see my original post finally so since Im vella I'll have a final go
As you can see from the post I quoted that I am saying people should do what they want BUT it is the hypocrisy of I-F members and actually some portals that no one is speaking about the darn obvious age gap when other celeb couples have been bashed for the same. 
Originally posted by ExquisiteDhami-
Don't really care people should do what they want but I am intrigued by the fact no portals no members no one is speaking about such a large age difference between the two when other celebs were the target of snide remarks because of the same 
 
To which dearestttttttt HearRoar ji replied defending this hypocrisy since my post was questing it saying they can be bashed because they were not 32 
Originally posted by HearMeRoar
Because at 32, you're expected to know what you're doing.
There's a diff between 18F + 36 M and 32F + 50M
To which I replied below
Originally posted by ExquisiteDhami-
You should be expected to know what youre doing at 18 too then no difference from 32 an adult is an adult how do people know this adult is more mature to make a decision its like whether you commit a crime at 18 or 50 the sentence is the same 
I am talking about Ranbir Alia, Nick PC and the likes eg Alia is/was not 18 and their age difference is lesser than HR and his girlfriend. 
Like I said in the above post people should do what they want but the hypocrisy of reactions is what is bothersome from eww yukk too old for some to wow so cute for HR Its all the same if youre in love youre in love no one has been forced on gunpoint
 Its all the same if youre in love youre in love no one has been forced on gunpoint 
PS: Btw Who is this 18F and 36M or did you just use an example? 
I am talking about Ranbir Alia Nick Pc , who is 18? but no she was persistent that no I'll ignore this and beat around the bush because my HR is under attack  that too from someone who said he should do what he wants
 that too from someone who said he should do what he wants 
Now coming to the 18 vs 32 we are going to have to agree to disagree because 1) We are arguing on different grounds I am saying that there is no study which will say an 18 year old will always be wrong in love while an older individual will always be correct as that is what the sweeping statements made here have said. It is not possible and in fact all you need to do is take a look around I see many couples who were together and remained together since they were 18/19 and many older ones who were sadly wrong. HearMeRoar ji and actually the other two individuals who quoted me ( one was you) made a wide generalisation into an explicit fact which will apply to everyone which I WILL STILL STAY LOUD AND CLEAR I DO NOT AGREE WITH  This is not a blanket policy. Besides the fact my question very clearly asked why 'other celebs are targeted' 'Alia is not 18' neither was Nick but the overtly defensive nature of the fanbots for pedestal god is getting in the way of reading correctly...
 This is not a blanket policy. Besides the fact my question very clearly asked why 'other celebs are targeted' 'Alia is not 18' neither was Nick but the overtly defensive nature of the fanbots for pedestal god is getting in the way of reading correctly...
I don't know why my quotes arent getting formatted correctly but you get the gist
Edited by ExquisiteDhami- - 3 years ago
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