Should Hrithik break up with this Saba girl? - Page 9

Originally posted by: Lalakhun1

Funny is i dont see a lot of such post for Hrithik as much it was for Katrina for choosing / marrying Vicky.. Maybe Hrithik isnt really a catch

Most people r just happy to see Hrithik dating..he has been single for too long😊

Originally posted by: niyati13

Most people r just happy to see Hrithik dating..he has been single for too long😊

Well good luck to him

Originally posted by: Mahisa_22

Even a 14-year-old can make the right decision. Does it mean 14 and 32 are the same? No. An 18-year-old is barely an adult. Their maturity level is no more than a 16-17-year-old's. 32 is a proper adult. Not much difficult to understand, is it?

Is a 14 year old classed as an adult legally considered independent to make a decision like a 32 year old no so NO THEY ARE NOT THE SAME Mahisa_22.

32 is a proper adult oh my days like what do people on IF smoke. Nah 50 is a proper adult nah actually 75 no 80 like wth

No very difficult to understand that according convenience of people on this forum at 18/27/.... if you choose to be with someone that is wrong pathetic eww let me criticise you and at 32 if someone makes that decision that is the most correct thing someone could do because they are wise at that age why because its HR who is concerned here .

Alia will be 32 in 4 years so finally her decision to date RK will be correct at that age can't wait because its so wrong right now, this is where this post started from nah

And I thought its common sense but let me just say it people may choose the wrong lover even at the age of 50, age is not the defining factor that affects whether you choose a right lover so whatever you're on about flies over my head unfortunately.

Saba isn't conventionally beautiful but is attractive..and a very good actress, saw in Rocket boys..great voice n dialogue delivery too

Originally posted by: ExquisiteDhami-

Yes I went Pubmed my friend and could not find anything to say a 18 year old is incapable of choosing as good as a life partner as a 32 year old. Decision making is wide you narrowed it down to finding love which no credible peer reviewed study will back you on sadly. Forget studies basic logic will not back you I'm afraid.

and when you quote answer everything I question don't be selective or Ill post my previous post again

The whole world is wrong giving women rights to independently choose their life partner at 18 only I-F fanatics know best that she has to wait till 32 to make the correct decision and also it will only be correct when it is to do with lord HR 💔

You can find reams of papers explaining that in adolescence there is a time gap between emotional development centered in the amygdala which develops early and rational thinking development centered in the PFC which develops much later and explains why teens generally have high emotionality, behave impulsively, cannot engage in complex planning or long term planning, and engage in risky behaviors they don’t have the capacity to think through.

So to recap: lots of evidence an 18 year old wouldn’t be as well-equipped as a 32 year old to think rationally about or frankly even truly understand the long term consequences of choosing a life partner and lots of evidence an 18 year old would be much more likely than a 32 year old to choose impulsively and irrationally. However because you haven’t found any specific paper focused on ‘finding love’ you refuse to apply the evidence to that situation. You’ve picked a strange hill to die on 😆

Anyway, I suspect no evidence will sway you but how about some bad stats (bad because too many confounding factors to take too seriously) from the US - the land of the love marriage and no-fault divorce. “After five years of marriage, couples who married as teens have a 38% risk of divorce; those in their early twenties are also highly vulnerable (27%), but then there’s a strong decline for couples who marry between ages of 25 and 29 (14%) and ages 30 to 34 (10%).” https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/meet-catch-and-keep/201606/the-best-and-worst-ages-couples-get-married

Originally posted by: M.Wheeler

a 32 year old will obviously have more maturity than 18 year old that s common sense .You dont need science to prove it

No unfortunately that is not obvious. Maturity also comes from personality which is shaped by many aspects. A 18 year old will not obviously be less mature they may have seen less but it is what they have seen and how it shaped them , yeah you don't need science but common sense before making sweeping statements lie obviously will be . C'mon we have all seen what we call "immature 50 year olds also".

I still stand my ground that people should not be bashed regardless of whether they choose a partner at 18 or 52. An 18 year old may just well be capable of finding the 'correct' partner as someone older.

Originally posted by: ExquisiteDhami-

Is a 14 year old classed as an adult legally considered independent to make a decision like a 32 year old no so NO THEY ARE NOT THE SAME Mahisa_22.

32 is a proper adult oh my days like what do people on IF smoke. Nah 50 is a proper adult nah actually 75 no 80 like wth

No very difficult to understand that according convenience of people on this forum at 18/27/.... if you choose to be with someone that is wrong pathetic eww let me criticise you and at 32 if someone makes that decision that is the most correct thing someone could do because they are wise at that age why because its HR who is concerned here .

Alia will be 32 in 4 years so finally her decision to date RK will be correct at that age can't wait because its so wrong right now, this is where this post started from nah

And I thought its common sense but let me just say it people may choose the wrong lover even at the age of 50, age is not the defining factor that affects whether you choose a right lover so whatever you're on about flies over my head unfortunately.

Alia is only 28..seriously? Thought she was in her 30s

Originally posted by: Illyrion

You can find reams of peer reviewed papers stating the area of the brain called the prefrontal cortex (PFC) doesn’t fully develop until the mid-20s and in some late bloomers (usually males) closer to 30. You can find reams of papers explaining the PFC is the center of executive control (complex planning, judgment, decision-making, anticipation, impulse control, and reasoning).

You can find reams of papers explaining that in adolescence there is a time gap between emotional development centered in the amygdala which develops early and rational thinking development centered in the PFC which develops much later and explains why teens generally have high emotionality, behave impulsively, cannot engage in complex planning or long term planning, and engage in risky behaviors they don’t have the capacity to think through.

So to recap: lots of evidence an 18 year old wouldn’t be as well-equipped as a 32 year old to think rationally about or frankly even truly understand the long term consequences of choosing a life partner and lots of evidence an 18 year old would be much more likely than a 32 year old to choose impulsively and irrationally. However because you haven’t found any specific paper focused on ‘finding love’ you refuse to apply the evidence to that situation. You’ve picked a strange hill to die on 😆

Anyway, I suspect no evidence will sway you but how about some bad stats (bad because too many confounding factors to take too seriously) from the US - the land of the love marriage and no-fault divorce. “After five years of marriage, couples who married as teens have a 38% risk of divorce; those in their early twenties are also highly vulnerable (27%), but then there’s a strong decline for couples who marry between ages of 25 and 29 (14%) and ages 30 to 34 (10%).” https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/meet-catch-and-keep/201606/the-best-and-worst-ages-couples-get-married

yes strange hill because that was the strange post that I was quoted for. We can bash Alia and the likes because there is a difference they found love younger but Saba is 32 this is the right age to find love.

Age was explicitly stated in fact 18 year old can be called out but 32 cannot be which scientific study will tell you an 18 year old is always wrong and 32 always right in love?

I hardly believe Aloo is actually in looove with RK 😆 seems like a marriage of convenience/arrangement, and there’s Ayan to contend with 24/7!!!! But no. Teens esp 18 year olds are NOT equipped to make proper life decisions. Cannot provide better research than what’s already provided. 😆😆

Originally posted by: aquatica

The girl looks like an alien lizard and behaves like an electrocuted dolphin.

Hello kangu welcome back to the forum