The thing is when Dhara is in deep sorrow, every single family member is affected, their thoughts are clouded by Dhara and her well being. But when Raavi is in deep sorrow, three people make it even more worse for her - Mami, Suman and Shiva. They never think from her POV at all. For them it is all about how wrong this girl is and she needs to suffer even moređ
And Krish insensitive joke added ..