The public jilting of Arohi - POLL CLOSED - Page 13

Originally posted by: MimiLulu

WHAT AM I READING?

I’m sorry how old are the people here? Have you guys dealt with real life outside of a fictional show and characters and fictional stories? Real life doesn’t work like this. Sitting here justifying cheating just cause you find the guy to be good looking…like okay?

Just because you have the hots for someone doesn’t mean all their actions can be justified. Like wow I’m at a loss for words and we all know that never happens

I’m sorry how old are the people here?

I am 24 years old. No need to apologise.

Have you guys dealt with real life outside of a fictional show and characters and fictional stories?

No I'm a robot.

Real life doesn’t work like this. Sitting here justifying cheating just cause you find the guy to be good looking…like okay?

I think they're all good looking on this show including Arohi, what does this have to do with anything? I have the hots for Ranbir Kapoor but I wouldn't defend him for cheating on Deepika (now that's cheating).

I am not justifying cheating because in my book, cheating occurs when you are in a committed relationship whereby xyz is kept in the dark.

In this case, Arohi and Abhi were never committed. The day he told her that he can never give her the status of a wife, he had broken his side of the commitment. Neither was Arohi kept in the dark, she knew that Abhira love each other and her only safety blanket was her fraud that was keeping Abhira apart.

I, sometimes feel like questioning the age of people who are defending fraud here which is also a form of cheating. Maybe those people haven't stepped into real life and experienced deceit. But then I think ke nah, everyone is entitled to their opinion.

Originally posted by: MimiLulu

I think it’s been obvious me and my friends have the most fun watching this show because we have no issues making fun of every character including our Laadli Akshu

it’s the rest that cry because one of us said Abhi has weird toenails

And you are free to make fun.

Maybe I just have not seen those individual posts as much calling out Akshara and Arohi's choices. Most of the time its Abhimanyu's name that gets called out a bit more frequently.

I am beginning to think he's the StarPlus bahu of the show. He has been crying buckets in past what 50 episodes? He usually makes some choice or another that makes things worse. Those are usualy reserved for the FL 😆 But maybe Akshara will start doing that soon once she is married.

Agreeing to marry someone is not committing to them? Okay then

And yo RK is a serial cheater! I’ll be the first one to say it and he’s sucks for it…

Originally posted by: iheartChai

And you are free to make fun.

Maybe I just have not seen those individual posts as much calling out Akshara and Arohi's choices. Most of the time its Abhimanyu's name that gets called out a bit more frequently.

I am beginning to think he's the StarPlus bahu of the show. He has been crying buckets in past what 50 episodes? He usually makes some choice or another that makes things worse. Those are usualy reserved for the FL 😆 But maybe Akshara will start doing that soon once she is married.

how could you forget I put AKSHU in a PENALTY BOX for being an IDHAR UDHAR ladki 😭

mein sab bakwas punish karungi 🤪

in fact i want to see a SATI level humiliation of AKSHARA IDHAR UDHAR GOENKA

I would say not really in this context. He agreed to marry but he lay forth conditions and where he stood.

He was doing all this stupidity before the engagement (exchanging of rings) happened. Is it wrong yes it is. He was emotionally cheating which is why Akshara was trying to tell him to stop. But she herself was not able to stop herself either. She made her final warning by showing him the ring.

Now we are here. Akshara and Abhi trying to go tell the families. Abhi once again making a call to get married now because he is afraid of losing Akshara because she lied to him so many times. Rejected him even though she loved him. So I can see him trying to secure their relationship by marriage before they tell the families. See what lying does? Is he not justified in feeling scared? Did Akshara make him this why? Yes, she did. Both are to blame and both have to work this out together in this relationship.

Originally posted by: bakwaspolice

how could you forget I put AKSHU in a PENALTY BOX for being an IDHAR UDHAR ladki 😭

mein sab bakwas punish karungi 🤪

in fact i want to see a SATI level humiliation of AKSHARA IDHAR UDHAR GOENKA

I stand corrected. I forgot about that 😆

She will get a good roasting by Arohi, Harshvardhan, and Goenkas.

Originally posted by: iheartChai

I would say not really in this context. He agreed to marry but he lay forth conditions and where he stood.

He was doing all this stupidity before the engagement (exchanging of rings) happened. Is it wrong yes it is. He was emotionally cheating which is why Akshara was trying to tell him to stop. But she herself was not able to stop herself either. She made her final warning by showing him the ring.

Now we are here. Akshara and Abhi trying to go tell the families. Abhi once again making a call to get married now because he is afraid of losing Akshara because she lied to him so many times. Rejected him even though she loved him. So I can see him trying to secure their relationship by marriage before they tell the families. See what lying does? Is he not justified in feeling scared? Did Akshara make him this why? Yes, she did. Both are to blame and both have to work this out together in this relationship.

but bless my child she’s an idiot too…nothing about her to defend.

Here is the thing. Both of them need to own up to what they are about to do. If they love each other and want to marry each other than both of them have a duty towards Aarohi (as a fiancé and as a sister) to go tell her the truth. To leave her on her wedding day while she’s waiting for her groom in front of everyone is the cruelest thing and Aarohi isn’t that evil of a person (she’s not evil at all she’s grey like we all are) to deserve that . Akshara and Abhimanyu are not 16 year Old Romeo and Juliet. They are both adults. Act like adults.

Originally posted by: iheartChai

I stand corrected. I forgot about that 😆

She will get a good roasting by Arohi, Harshvardhan, and Goenkas.

SHE DESERVES IT 100%

but don't you think it's a tad bit unfair that AKSHU will be labeled CHARACTERLESS and AAROHI a LIAR and JIJA will walk away SCOT FREE because he didn't have the guts to break his own rishta with AAROHI like a mature adult

by choosing to elope AKSHU's reputation will be spoiled and no amount of ROARING by JIJA can get her reputation back

AKSHU is the OTHER WOMAN and AAROHI is the FIANCE at this point

Yes they should. But Abhi didn't tell his father to show up at the Gonekas house. Harshvardhan did that so he made things worse.

Manjari is putting faith that Abhi and Akshara will show up at the house to explain everything. Should she have done that? Maybe grant them more time but should have told them you two need to come home now.

If I were Manjari I would have ordered them to come to a neutral location and only invite Manish and AG and maybe Mimi to the place to have the Abhi and Akshara explain what is going on.

Then they go back and Akshara breaks the news to Arohi with family there in her room.

Either way Arohi's marriage would be stopped and either way humiliation would still happen. No way to fix that.

Originally posted by: MimiLulu

Agreeing to marry someone is not committing to them? Okay then

And yo RK is a serial cheater! I’ll be the first one to say it and he’s sucks for it…

No it is not a commitment if one person has clearly outlined their terms and conditions. From what I can see, this was more like a business transaction than an agreement to marriage. This is why there are differing opinions. It's not because anyone has hots for xyz, it is because we all have different takes to Abhi's clauses. Some accept it as a clear disclaimer while others are finding loopholes in it.

In fact, if Abhi ever did get married to Arohi and wished to nullify it then he could because

A) marriage is void without consummation - I'm pretty sure Abhi made it crystal clear that he would never give her any rights of a wife and

B) he he was tricked into the marriage - Ground (b) is very crucial here. Without Arohi's fraud, there would be no marriage.

RK is a brilliant actor but yes I do agree with you.