The public jilting of Arohi - POLL CLOSED - Page 11

Originally posted by: FleetingWishes.

Doesn't change the fact that they (Manjiri) chose Arohi because she saved his life and Manjiri told the same to Abhimanyu who actually told her this is why he's agreeing. There's an entire scene and I happened to watch it yesterday only so?🤔

Are we back to this again? I make an entire argument about how I think he neither manipulated nor used her given the agreement he clearly presented to her but you make the same argument again...why even bother going in circles with me?😳 I think at this point I've said everything I had to say regarding the argument I made. Kind of funny how it's so important to villainize one person to scapegoat another when literally every single character in this show lead to this fiasco and every one of them including Abhimanyu/Akshara/Arohi 'created' this mess and 'invited' the upcoming consequences. The word deserving is misplaced here but whatever I'm out of this conversation now.

Originally posted by: Indira1211

no manjeri chose Arohi when the first Tilak happened ..remember she wanted doctor bahu. So she’s had Arohi in her mind for ages and the fire story just reinforced that….It’s only in last few episodes she’s changed to go with akshara if that makes abhimanyu happy,.Yes I’m also tired of pointing out abhimanyus faults when there’s clearly blinkers on… all the characters are faulty but abhira fans are clearly blind to their faults and would rather Arohi burn in hell. Anyway it’s just a masala show …in a year or two they’ll probably show abhiras separation and then abhira fans will go into abhimanyu camp,and akshara camp.. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Originally posted by: FleetingWishes.

Doesn't change the fact that they (Manjiri) chose Arohi because she saved his life and Manjiri told the same to Abhimanyu who actually told her this is why he's agreeing. There's an entire scene and I happened to watch it yesterday only so?🤔

Are we back to this again? I make an entire argument about how I think he neither manipulated nor used her given the agreement he clearly presented to her but you make the same argument again...why even bother going in circles with me?😳 I think at this point I've said everything I had to say regarding the argument I made. Kind of funny how it's so important to scapegoat one person to vindicate another when literally every single character in this show lead to this fiasco and every one of them including Abhimanyu/Akshara/Arohi 'created' this mess and 'invited' the upcoming consequences. The word deserving is misplaced here but whatever I'm out of this conversation now.

Exactly 💯💯 Thank you for your valid points!

If Abhi is disgusting for the kind of agreement he proposed to Arohi, then Arohi is even more disgusting for the way she accepts it immediately knowing fully well that he loves her sister. Which self respecting woman does that? Arohi cares only for the status and being power couple. She's as detached from this marriage itself as Abhi is. And Akshara knows that Abhi loves her. She was still pushing him to her sister, while simultaneously having dreams of being physically close to her sister's fiance, looking at him with so much longing always, going into his room to hug his shirt, etc. That's equally disgusting.

And as for using and throwing another person, Akshara has also been doing exactly that. She conveniently used Abhimanyu, lied to everyone including to her own self, hid truths, pretended every time someone asked her to clarify - all because she wanted to achieve her motive of gaining her crazy sister's favour. And in that process, she repeatedly trashed his feelings and lied to him about who saved his life from fire.

Now suddenly, on the day of her sister's wedding to Abhi, she's realized all her mistakes and wants to tell the truth to family? Why couldn't she tell the truth and come clean before? All along she was using Abhi to get close to her sister, now she's conveniently throwing her sister under the bus to go to Abhi 😕

I feel neither arohi deserves this treatment nor she can't be blamed for what happened to her..if we keep aside the fact that she lied althroughout ...how much blind cam she be with abhimanyu...all the way abhimanyu had eyes only for akshara..his actions prove how deeply he loves akshara and clearly he was only and only interested on her...and yet arohi kept on feeding her delutions ....somewhere it was bound to happen and although I still feel that it was wrong to happen to her ...it was inevitable...she was playing with fire and that fire burned her dream

Originally posted by: HahaHeheHuhu9

Exactly 💯💯

And as for use and throw another person, Akshara has also been doing exactly that. She conveniently used Abhimanyu, lied to everyone including to her own self, hid truths, pretended every time someone asked her clarify, all because she wanted to achieve her motive of gaining her crazy sister's favour. And in that process, she repeatedly trashed his feelings and lied to him about who saved his life from fire.

Now suddenly, on the day of her sister's wedding to Abhi, she's realized all her mistakes and wants to tell the truth to family? Why couldn't she tell the truth and come clean before? All along she was using Abhi to get close to her sister, now she's conversation throwing her sister under the bus to go to Abhi 😕

If Arohi questions Akshara on why she was so hunky-dory and acquiescent and did a 180 on the day of her wedding, she'll be justified in wanting an answer.

If Abhimanyu accuses Harsh and Arohi of blatantly manipulating and lying to him about the premise of this marriage he will be justified. This literally is that spiderman meme with both parties pointing a finger at each other.

It's one gigantic mess. There's no one perpetrator and definitely no single victim. All of them have, through their actions, allowed for this to happen to them.

I am going to miss this forum's cute si Nok jhok after Abhira's story becomes sensible, sane and stale :')

Originally posted by: HahaHeheHuhu9

Exactly 💯💯 Thank you for your valid points!

If Abhi is disgusting for the kind of agreement he proposed to Arohi, then Arohi is even more disgusting for the way she accepts it immediately knowing fully well that he loves her sister. Which self respecting woman does that? Arohi cares only for the status and being power couple. She's as detached from this marriage itself as Abhi is. And Akshara knows that Abhi loves her. She was still pushing him to her sister, while simultaneously having dreams of being physically close to her sister's fiance, looking at him with so much longing always, going into his room to hug his shirt, etc. That's equally disgusting.

And as for using and throwing another person, Akshara has also been doing exactly that. She conveniently used Abhimanyu, lied to everyone including to her own self, hid truths, pretended every time someone asked her to clarify - all because she wanted to achieve her motive of gaining her crazy sister's favour. And in that process, she repeatedly trashed his feelings and lied to him about who saved his life from fire.

Now suddenly, on the day of her sister's wedding to Abhi, she's realized all her mistakes and wants to tell the truth to family? Why couldn't she tell the truth and come clean before? All along she was using Abhi to get close to her sister, now she's conveniently throwing her sister under the bus to go to Abhi 😕

Can I just say that people are blaming the secondary defendants in this case. The main culprit is Arohi. Everyone else's actions have some form of misunderstanding or helplessness that breaks their chain of causation. Whereas, Arohi is the only person who has acted with zero deceit.

But for Arohi pressurerising Akshara to lie, Akshara would not have hid her feelings.

But for Arohi pressurerising Akshara to lie, Manjri would not have assumed Arohi to have saved Abhi and asked him to her.

But for Arohi pressurerising Akshara to lie, Abhi would never have accepted the proposal made by his mum.

At the end of the day, Arohi is the main perpetrator who has lit the match. Yes others like Akshara have made mistakes but the cause was Arohi and only Arohi. I always said she is asking to be dumped in the mandap ever since she targeted Abhi despite Abhi tilak incident and I haven't changed my stance. You have to be very shameless to want to dilute your own self respect for a status symbol. Its desperate and disgusting.

@Bold I don't understand how Abhi is worse than her for making it clear that he will never love her? 😕 it was a clear warning to Arohi and a chance for her to break the alliance which she did not.

Thanks for playing y'all - I'm a little stunned that we're falling almost 50-50 on this. I didn't expect that when I made the poll... It seems when it comes to Arohi and all her kaand, at least half of us are willing to extend her some mercy...

Obviously, all three main characters on this show are highly polarizing and it's interesting to see the different perspectives on this post. We all hold some strong views... no surprise there

Arguments are rarely effective at changing the minds of strangers over the internet but hey, what's the harm in trying!

Carry on, mere doston...

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I’m sorry how old are the people here? Have you guys dealt with real life outside of a fictional show and characters and fictional stories? Real life doesn’t work like this. Sitting here justifying cheating just cause you find the guy to be good looking…like okay?

Just because you have the hots for someone doesn’t mean all their actions can be justified. Like wow I’m at a loss for words and we all know that never happens

In the beginning of this particular Arohi engagement track I felt bad for her becuase I knew what was going to await her at the end.

But now at the end of the day you reap what you sow. Unfortunately, life is never fair and bad things happen. She knew what she was getting into. She took a gamble and it blew up in her face. She had been warned even by her own conscience during the drunken hut episode. If something happened between Abhi and Akshara she would not be able to do anything about it. Because she knows Abhi loves Akshara and Akshara has feelings for Abhi. Hence the constant pressure on Akshara to step back.