Anyone else not upset about the last 3-4 epis?

k before you guys start throwing tomatoes at me...

ive skimmed a couple of the threads and posts and everyone is really upset with the way last week played out

i think the PH did a great job in making it realistic tbh.

yes we hate Vanraj, but look, Anuj is the new man in Anu's life and will likely be those kids' step-father very soon. By extension Anuj is like family to Vanraj now. What happens to Anuj/Mukku affects Anu and if she is affected, her kids will be affected...so I dont see anything wrong with Vanraj being there tbh. It makes sense...the 3 of them were supposed to show up, they didnt, no one answered that phone, so ya you're gonna drop by to see what's up. And yeah in most households when you sense danger, you are gonna send "the man" of the house to check things out. He gets there and sees a mess and 3 people on the floor. How realistic would it have been for him to just turn around and walk and leave them there in the middle of a breakdown ? Yeah, he was a whack husband but he doesnt hate Anupamaa.

i think it is more realistic to show each characters with varying degrees instead of showing someone one-sides like Kavya who is just bad ALL the time. They need to give her character some depth...there has to be SOMETHING else she cares about besides herself and V.

thats a good point! tbh a person can need not be negative all the time. everyone needs a redemption. would like to see how the redemption plays out for vanraj

no one is bad 24/7 unless your like a sociopath

i dont think Vanraj can redeem himself for Anupamaa, but maybe he can work thru his issues and makes mends for Kavya ?

How come Vanraj claims that men need to change but continues to treat his current wife like trash? Yes, Kavya has done horrible things but so has Vanraj. All these nice things he is saying about change and acting like a better person is so hypocritical. That is why he can not be taken seriously. You’re right though, even an “evil” person can have qualities that make them seem more human… but seems like writers are overlooking those things and focusing too hard on representing characters in a certain light. They also need to show Anupama setting some boundaries with the Shahs… sure it is not realistic for Anupama to stay without her kids.. but it is not necessary to put Vanraj in every single track of hers even after their divorce.. what kind of progress is that. Anupama may moved out of the Shah house physically, but she is still way too involved in their affairs and has failed to set the appropriate boundaries for Vanraj, Baa, Kavya, etc. that is why even Kavya feels comfortable questioning Anupama because Anupama has made herself too available even to the people who have torn her apart. To me, that is not progress. I am not saying she should be completely heartless but she needs to evaluate her relationships with the people that have hurt her the most.

I think my problem with Vanraj being there as witnessing the Mukku situation and seeming like he sympathizes is that even he has been abusing Anupama emotionally for years and it is just giving audience mixed messages to put Vanraj in that scene making him look all good when he has done so many despicable things himself. Sure he may have other good qualities, every person has good/bad qualities. But in this situation, I don’t think Vanraj should have been included. And it just makes it seem like the show is really just concerned with creating new tracks rather than doing justice with the concept of women empowerment.
But I agree with you, that of course Vanraj would come down to check on them.. however the fact that he feels so comfortable marching into Anuj’s house just doesn’t sit right with me.

Hey Ali i agree that even an evil person is not evil 24*7 and vanraaj can act humane sometimes

My main problem is with anupama and not with vanraaj...the way she said that she never faced such things was disgusting...i mean is she saying that she is lucky enough to only face emotional abuse and not physical one like mukku...is she giving the message that emotional abuse is not that bad compared to physical assault

I mean is their some pain meter where we can calculate which kind of pain hurts more

In my view pain chahe kaisa bhi ho par kaam ek hi karta hai wo hai dard Dene ka.. be it emotional pain or physical pain

My second problem is anupama not answering back vanraj when he said 'men should change'

I mean she should have said na ki hello mister you are no different than those men who need to change

And may be last two three episodes were not that bad and I'm having a biased view but yaar we viewers are already frustrated by Anupama's vanraaj jaap since last few episodes and this was our threshold to is baar gussa zyada nikal raha hai

How about malvika and aniruddh marry to each other

Originally posted by: surabhi01

How about malvika and aniruddh marry to each other

why does Malvika need to marry at all? as in unless she finds someone worth it there's no real need to be married to be happy

Just A question btw . Aniruddh is also nice guy vanraj ke support se acha hai aniruddh malvka hi support kare

Mujhese vanraj ki herogiri tolerate nahin hogi

Originally posted by: sree07

thats a good point! tbh a person can need not be negative all the time. everyone needs a redemption. would like to see how the redemption plays out for vanraj

redemption is only possible when the person realises they've done wrong. this man keeps getting worse without any remorse.

I find vanraj positivity unconvincing because agar arkavya vanraj se yeh nahin kehti ki chale jaao yahan se to

Vanraj abhi anupama se keh raha hota main tumhaara ghamand tod ke rahunga aur kavya ke birthday mein mein jaane se pehle vanraj ne yeh bhi bola tha ki ab ek hafte tuk mujhe anupama ka manhoos chehara nahin dekhna padega yeh bhi k eh raha ho