Is this acceptable behaviour in the name of mental health awareness? - Page 2

Originally posted by: .Rinnie.

The episode is edited. What we see in 2 hours is 16+ hours worth of footage. How do you know that she was not calmed down before she was told to that she would evicted? There were 3 doctors around her trying to calm her down. Why bring them if BB is so sure that this is just a drama?

Infact why give her any medication which Akasa has also confirmed once she came out of the house?

Also, there is no SET pattern for how a person with mental health problem reacts - please do not push such a narrative anywhere, this is the first thing any psychiatrist will tell you - every person with mental health issue will react differently, no two people react in the same manner thus the reason why getting treatment or diagnosis is so difficult.

And theek hai, lemme go along with the opinion that yeh sab drama hai toh yeh sab triggering content KYUN dikha raha hai Bigg Boss?

You are telling me that you have seen people with anxiety disorder then tell me something - should content like this be shown? What kind of message are they giving out by calling her in post her self harm episode and shaming her? Does this not trigger people who have actual issues?

Should they have contestants who react this way? Should they allow the incident to escalate to such a point that another contestant can call the one who is having a breakdown as a mental person or tell them that they are acting? Is this the kind of thing that should be aired on national television in a country that already considers mental health a taboo?

Be it real or fake, whatever was shown was WRONG. It should not have been telecasted. The contestants should have been made aware if it was drama and even if they are not made aware, they should atleast be sensible with how they react because everything that lead upto whatever happened in the episode was extremely triggering and gives out a VERY wrong message regarding mental health.

U r correct tht in the Live feed wht happened inside the confession room was not shown ... But trust me till she was on tht dining table ... Every thing was shown ... Way jay was telling bura lagna banta hai mm par itna n all ... I was watching live feed .. so thts why I told .. my presumptions are based on live feed n not episode ... Much had been muted in live feed as well .. cause she was abusing though ...

Originally posted by: .Rinnie.

The episode is edited. What we see in 2 hours is 16+ hours worth of footage. How do you know that she was not calmed down before she was told to that she would evicted? There were 3 doctors around her trying to calm her down. Why bring them if BB is so sure that this is just a drama?

Infact why give her any medication which Akasa has also confirmed once she came out of the house?

Also, there is no SET pattern for how a person with mental health problem reacts - please do not push such a narrative anywhere, this is the first thing any psychiatrist will tell you - every person with mental health issue will react differently, no two people react in the same manner thus the reason why getting treatment or diagnosis is so difficult.

And theek hai, lemme go along with the opinion that yeh sab drama hai toh yeh sab triggering content KYUN dikha raha hai Bigg Boss?

You are telling me that you have seen people with anxiety disorder then tell me something - should content like this be shown? What kind of message are they giving out by calling her in post her self harm episode and shaming her? Does this not trigger people who have actual issues?

Should they have contestants who react this way? Should they allow the incident to escalate to such a point that another contestant can call the one who is having a breakdown as a mental person or tell them that they are acting? Is this the kind of thing that should be aired on national television in a country that already considers mental health a taboo?

Be it real or fake, whatever was shown was WRONG. It should not have been telecasted. The contestants should have been made aware if it was drama and even if they are not made aware, they should atleast be sensible with how they react because everything that lead upto whatever happened in the episode was extremely triggering and gives out a VERY wrong message regarding mental health.

As I told you .. bb is like this only trp k liye character assassination bhi kar de yeh log ...but the way here for every wrong they pounce on Shamita Shetty tht is wrong ... Iam supporting her here .. Afsana did go below the belt .. n her behaviour was completely unjustified .. koi kissi ka sunne nahi aaya hai yahan pe ... Aur woh bhi itna ganda ...

I agree this kind of reaction just for content should not be shown .. but then abbaaj sab bikta hai ... C we are also discussing it for so long.

Originally posted by: sangs071087

As I told you .. bb is like this only trp k liye character assassination bhi kar de yeh log ...but the way here for every wrong they pounce on Shamita Shetty tht is wrong ... Iam supporting her here .. Afsana did go below the belt .. n her behaviour was completely unjustified .. koi kissi ka sunne nahi aaya hai yahan pe ... Aur woh bhi itna ganda ...

I agree this kind of reaction just for content should not be shown .. but then abbaaj sab bikta hai ... C we are also discussing it for so long.

I absolutely agree with u… yahan par bhi Shamita pe bil faadenge… the reason she was so hurt in the first place was because she was betrayed by her own friends… after that to take out ur anger on people who are not even responsible for ur outster from the game is stupidly… here no one has come to take shit from people.. if one has anxiety issues… they shld not come to such a high pressure show… baaki if you speak so disgusting things abt others… kon sunega??? This show is all abt mental strength… if you hv it you will survive and if you don’t you will go out

Originally posted by: bollyqueen0

This is an unpopular opinion but I want to say Shamita is this season's Jasmin not Teja.

The only thing they don't have in common is the baby talk Jasmin used to do to act cute.

Everything else is a match.

> Extreme superiority complex

> They think they're the most moral/good hearted and look down on others

> Understanding game/playing task is at zero. If decisions don't go in their favor, there is an uproar

> Wants everyone to understand their mental problem but mocks others

> Bully behavior

> Sits at WKV like they are the queen of the world

> Favoritism from Bhai

Jasmine was still better than shammo. At least jas Wkw ki dhamki toh nhi deti thi.

Calling Someone Mental after knowing her state is not good. Shamita thinks only she is right. She was stopping Rajiv from crying. When he said Affo dil ki achi hai shammo's expressions were like my foot.

She is such a disgusting and mean person.

She is like onchi dukaan phiky pukwaan. Achy kapdey phen leney sy soch achi nhi ho jati.

Umar tried to calm down affo. He was there till the end. When shammo said him to go to hell thrice, still he did not react as he was worried for affo.

It is a very high expectation on normal people to cater to mentally ill when they are not emotionally involved with her. That is why you have institutions that can treat that kind of people so that they can manage themselves and be ready to be part of a functioning society.

This show is a mind game show, where alliances and people change daily. Here a mentally unwell person like Afsana should never have come. She will never ever strive, it is not the responsibility of Shamita, Jay, Umar or anyone to cater to Afsana. Do they know exactly what are her issues? Has she sat down and told them that I have this condition and it will make me go unhinged so bear with me? Why then have that expectation from others that they have to be mindful to her?

Afsana started this I watched, no one came to her and started calling her crazy. She acted like one and got called out for it. A family, partner, friend, and doctor has responsibility towards mentally unstable people - no one else. I have seen many times people who are sick are left alone. Because no one knows how to deal with it. Afsana said I will file a case and to that Shamita responded okay go file a case, who would have not said that?

Afsana is out of control and she did this last time too when she cursed everyone and then - sorry!!! It is just not done. She said horrible horrible things to Rajiv, said I will take my clothes off - did Shamita make her say that too? No! that was Miss Afsana all own her own.

She should have never ever come to the show. She is not fit for it, she took Umar and her friends anger out on others. That was not fair. In her anger she got a panic attack and it deteriorated from there. If anyone is responsible for this is Afsana and her family.

i grew up a very caring and kind person but some situations changed me its left me depressed and i lost a meaning i life i do even know wether im happy or im just pretending i cant care for people like i used too and i feel like kindness is a weakness

Originally posted by: vibha28

It is a very high expectation on normal people to cater to mentally ill when they are not emotionally involved with her. That is why you have institutions that can treat that kind of people so that they can manage themselves and be ready to be part of a functioning society.

This show is a mind game show, where alliances and people change daily. Here a mentally unwell person like Afsana should never have come. She will never ever strive, it is not the responsibility of Shamita, Jay, Umar or anyone to cater to Afsana. Do they know exactly what are her issues? Has she sat down and told them that I have this condition and it will make me go unhinged so bear with me? Why then have that expectation from others that they have to be mindful to her?

Afsana started this I watched, no one came to her and started calling her crazy. She acted like one and got called out for it. A family, partner, friend, and doctor has responsibility towards mentally unstable people - no one else. I have seen many times people who are sick are left alone. Because no one knows how to deal with it. Afsana said I will file a case and to that Shamita responded okay go file a case, who would have not said that?

Afsana is out of control and she did this last time too when she cursed everyone and then - sorry!!! It is just not done. She said horrible horrible things to Rajiv, said I will take my clothes off - did Shamita make her say that too? No! that was Miss Afsana all own her own.

She should have never ever come to the show. She is not fit for it, she took Umar and her friends anger out on others. That was not fair. In her anger she got a panic attack and it deteriorated from there. If anyone is responsible for this is Afsana and her family.

agree !!!

especially @bold