Ekta bashes Shamita

https://youtu.be/QS-9_tpDRgo

Ekta bashes Shamita look at her making face🤣

This may be cut from main episode so yahi dekh lo bhai and behen log🤣

Some Ppl in this forum are so anti Shamita that they read and see more than that actually happened in the show and shown in the telecast . 👏

Shamita is extremely sensitive to any form of critique, correction or criticism –even if what you say is meant constructively, and even if it's 100 percent true.

I'll give you a few examples

1. Devoleena critiquing her didn't sit well with her and we all saw what ensued later.

2. Yesterday, when Salman brought up Vishal's comments about Tejasswi in regards to her argument with Shamita, he questioned Vishal as to how Tejasswi is wrong when she's just standing up for herself? You can clearly see Shamita's face change when Salman said that, even though he wasn't critiquing her but because she felt it was wrong of Tejasswi to even have initiated that conversation and hearing anything to the contrary is akin to saying she was wrong to feel that way.

3. When Karan said he failed to do right by Umar in the task where he and Shamita were the sanchalaks, she interjected and made sure Karan spells it out that Shamita wasn't at fault. Karan clearly bol raha tha ki uski galti thi, he prioritised de-escalating the situation over doing the right thing but all Shamita heard was that the sanchalak said he didn't do the right thing ergo she was wrong.Shamita wanted it to be said that even though Karan disagrees with her, she was not in the wrong, sort of like making sure everyone knows she did the right thing.

4. Whether she admits it or not, everyone who put her in the 100% fake category in that past task, just made her list of people she's cross with, (basically like the list Ryan makes in The Office.)

She brought this topic up when talking to Vishal after that argument with Tejasswi. You don't bring something you've forgotten about up back again in an argument unless it was never made peace with.

To me it looks like she feels humiliated, embarrassed, exposed or degraded by criticism, because she has constructed this facade of perfection or superiority in order to protect herself from other people’s harsh judgments of her. But if you break through the facade with an unflattering critique, then she feels defenseless, and the only self-protection she has left is to respond with sharp anger, counter-criticism, withdrawal or rage. This is why people who can’t take criticism are often the very ones who dish it out.

To sum it up, it is like this when it comes to her :

Just gonna add that I don't mind how she handles criticism. I'm only throwing some light on a few things I've deduced from seeing her on screen. She can be a sport about it or be as salty as she wants. Totally doesn't concern me. Mera kya jaata hain 🤣

That’s not bashing from any angle?😆

Ek ajeeb se khushi mili EK maiyya ko Shamita ko daante hue dekh ke😆Chalo, koi toh isko do baatein sunayega iss show pe. Host ki kami poori hogi😆

lets see what happens actually in the episode...teasing is good btw😆

That's not bashing. Shamita with her abba dabba jabba and blaming the person who is criticizing her did not sit well with Ekta.

Once again Shammo vs Umar

And Ekta was just saying defend yourself instead of blame Umar

Originally posted by: CobraKai1972

Shamita is extremely sensitive to any form of critique, correction or criticism –even if what you say is meant constructively, and even if it's 100 percent true.

I'll give you a few examples

1. Devoleena critiquing her didn't sit well with her and we all saw what ensued later.

2. Yesterday, when Salman brought up Vishal's comments about Tejasswi in regards to her argument with Shamita, he questioned Vishal as to how Tejasswi is wrong when she's just standing up for herself? You can clearly see Shamita's face change when Salman said that, even though he wasn't critiquing her but because she felt it was wrong of Tejasswi to even have initiated that conversation and hearing anything to the contrary is akin to saying she was wrong to feel that way.

3. When Karan said he failed to do right by Umar in the task where he and Shamita were the sanchalaks, she interjected and made sure Karan spells it out that Shamita wasn't at fault. Karan clearly bol raha tha ki uski galti thi, he prioritised de-escalating the situation over doing the right thing but all Shamita heard was that the sanchalak said he didn't do the right thing ergo she was wrong.Shamita wanted it to be said that even though Karan disagrees with her, she was not in the wrong, sort of like making sure everyone knows she did the right thing.

4. Whether she admits it or not, everyone who put her in the 100% fake category in that past task, just made her list of people she's cross with, (basically like the list Ryan makes in The Office.)

She brought this topic up when talking to Vishal after that argument with Tejasswi. You don't bring something you've forgotten about up back again in an argument unless it was never made peace with.

To me it looks like she feels humiliated, embarrassed, exposed or degraded by criticism, because she has constructed this facade of perfection or superiority in order to protect herself from other people’s harsh judgments of her. But if you break through the facade with an unflattering critique, then she feels defenseless, and the only self-protection she has left is to respond with sharp anger, counter-criticism, withdrawal or rage. This is why people who can’t take criticism are often the very ones who dish it out.

To sum it up, it is like this when it comes to her :

Just gonna add that I don't mind how she handles criticism. I'm only throwing some light on a few things I've deduced from seeing her on screen. She can be a sport about it or be as salty as she wants. Totally doesn't concern me. Mera kya jaata hain 🤣

Perfect Analysis!!! Thank You for putting it the way you did.

Originally posted by: naaznin

https://youtu.be/QS-9_tpDRgo

Ekta bashes Shamita look at her making face🤣

This may be cut from main episode so yahi dekh lo bhai and behen log🤣

This does not look like Shamita bashing. I was very disappointed.