Anuj's character seems to have matured leaps and bounds with time. (As in from previous dialogues ki maar peeth karta tha to this peaceful type now)
He raised his voice only where he thought was needed. Even while Baa kept insulting he disregarded (as in not react because he knows this woman is all filth drama ) and he waited around only because he wanted to protect Anu knowing they will all eat her up....If matters got worse he'd finally step in sab kuch bhul ke.
Observe his finer expressions (which Gaurav nails it đ ) at :
1) when Baa lashes out at Devika. But he did not speak uo coz he knows Devika is capable. But it hurt him when baa taunted her abt Divorce.
2) When despite all the shit baa gave to Anuj, Anu is standing like a dumb doll (there is a moment when he finally gives up on Anu ki kuch nai bolegi and says jai shri krishna to leave... again leaving just to save her from the extra drama that would follow. I feel usko baa ki baat ka koi asar nai padta...she keeps blabbering usko pata hai...faltu it is.)
3) the confused shock - when Anu says Anuj kahi nai jayenge.
4) the slight smile when she says aaj mein bolungi. That smile was like finally she does whats needed.
He wanted her to defend herself (not for him u know as such) kyunki wo uske liye Anuj nai kar sakta coz no haq...but definitely for herself. He doesnt like her being ill treated but cannot do anything abt it either. So he keeps pushing her to learn to defend herself for her self respect.
Being hero is not just saving damsel in distress but making your woman a hero too.
Ps : Anupama ji kya aapko Anuj chahiye warna yaha bahut hai jo Anuj ko utha kar le jayenge đ