The question Milsi should ask more often

For the last one month we have been seeing Milsi ask himself why he hated Prachi so much when she is so nice and of late he has also been asking himself why he is drawn towards her and feels miserable when she is not around. I feel he should concentrate more on the first question he raised - why did he hate Prachi so much - for him to regain his memory because therein lies the answer to the second.

Why did Milsi hate Prachi? Granted she was the sister of the man who ruined his sister's life. But that was not the main reason he hated her in the beginning. In fact he did not come anywhere close to hating her. He despised her because she was from the Shah family. Other than that he did not have any strong negative feelings towards her. He even was willing to help her find her father's murderer.

His feelings really took a turn when he found out that Ayesha left him to marry Neev and exact her revenge against Prachi. It infuriated him that Prachi was not firm enough to hold on to her love for if she had, Ayesha would not have left him. So a combination of factors such as taking revenge against Ayesha, punishing Prachi for her helplessness and teaching Alaap a lesson led him to force a marriage of compulsion on Prachi. Soon the feeling of hatred turned into jealousy when he thought she was still holding a torch for Neev. The jealousy strengthened when he realised that he himself had fallen for her goodness. Somewhere down the line, amidst all the jealousy and love, he completely got over his hatred.

Now considering that Milsi has lost all memory of Ayesha's marriage to Neev and his own marriage to Prachi, there is no valid explanation for his anger and hatred towards her. If he had felt it then it was lying latent in him because of what had happened to their lives following Ayesha's revenge. That is why I would prefer to see him repeatedly ask himself the question as to why he hated Prachi before. In searching an answer for that he may recollect how Ayesha betrayed him and how he ended up marrying Prachi because at the end of the day that was what triggered his anger and that was what led to his subsequent falling in love with the woman he used merely as a pawn in a larger revenge game.

good point opti, i always found it stupid when milsi came back from the hospital and would go on about getting revenge on prachi when infact it was alaap who wronged his sister.

I think the writers were confused (so what's new?)....abt the hatred bit. They didn't know how to show the interaction bt MP post PA.

They couldn't show them in love, obviously. A year ago, M's interaction with P was minimal...only via Ayesha....he probably disliked A's association with P as much as N hated P's with A.

Added to this, his father's servile attitude, alaap's nastiness with Suk all made him feel contempt for P and her family. And yes, opti, he disliked/ felt contemptuous of P's helplessness in allowing N to get away....but like u, I think hatred is too strong a word.

Like I said, just like the muffs at BT to get the nuances all wrong!

opti...

my take on the hate issue is that mills didn't hate her.... yes he blamed her for the things alaap did...but even that was just a way to hide his attraction towards prachi....

the feelings she was able to bring out he couldn't except them....he couldn't/wouldn't understand them....cause then he would have known that his love for ayesha would be just a fatal attraction....and nothing more...

Pippa, Shanta, I think I did not convey what I wanted to properly. The point I was making is if one takes out Ayesha's marriage to Neev, there is really no cause for Milsi's anger or hatred towards Prachi.

Now irrespective of the fact that he has lost his memory, his feelings past and present,cannot all vanish away. They must have been lying latent within him. So if his first reaction to seeing Prachi was hate and anger, then the reason for that is because this was an emotion he had felt when he came to know of Ayesha's marriage to Neev. He knew Prachi was to marry Neev. Her inability to hold on to her love had resulted in him losing his. So he was angry with her (hate may be a little strong word for what he felt) and this anger had nothing to do with the fact that she was Alaap's sister. This anger was directed towards her as a person for her part, willing or otherwise, in changing the course of their lives.

This anger phase soon transformed itself into jealousy when he realised how much he wanted to hold on to her and he later fell in love with her.

So if one were to go through the whole emotional transformation in the PA phase, the guy should have first felt anger, then jealousy and then love. We are yet to see a jealous Milsi rear his head maybe because he does not know he has a right to demand her love as he is unaware she is his wife (a fact which existed pre- PA). I would love to see him act all possessive because those underlying feelings could not have been wiped out. I would want him to question every emotion he felt/feels towards her and retrace his past.

But I agree with Pippa on the fact that the creatives are a lazy bunch who end up giving a half baked product which makes no sense. Wish they had treated this track better and exploited the potential it had in bringing out the emotional underplay in Milsi. The dialogues could have delved into this more deeply rather than being more repetitive, conveying little about Milsi's psyche.

I agree, opti, that now Mils should start tracing his feelings for Prachi backwards till he comes to a full circle...anger?, love and jealousy....

Anger he's already felt, though it's debatable why!

Love is what he's feeling at present, god bless him!

Jealousy is what he should feel soon when it becomes clear to him that he can't stop his feelings for Prachi and stay away from her...this Catch 22 situation should rear the inevitable head of jealousy as now Prachi 'belongs' to Neev.

However, I highly doubt that the jealousy will be depicted here again (it's already been shown earlier) and our bone-lazy writers may simply slap-dash straightaway into a reunion, which is fine with me! 😃

Yes Pippaji, they can skip the jealousy part.., and show us the re-union, we've waited long enough. Though I do like the posesssive/jealousy streak in Milind. 😉

Originally posted by: $weet Ema

Yes Pippaji, they can skip the jealousy part.., and show us the re-union, we've waited long enough. Though I do like the posesssive/jealousy streak in Milind. 😉

I agree Yass 😊

The whole PA track has been so shallow in its portrayal and has been handled so amateurishly, I would gladly see it end soon. I would'nt trust them with a track where Michi reunion takes place with PA still in place because they will miss out on the sensitivity and love aspect and get back into the whole Milsi doubting Prachi under the influence of Ayesha. If Prachi gets pregnant during this time and Milsi is still in PA he may well think that the baby is Neev's. The last thing I want to see is for Prachi to go through the pregnancy alone. So before they reunite, I want this PA to be over and done with and WWW kicked out of SM ASAP.

I agree Opti. I hope Milind remembers everything from the time of the partial amnesia, and hope this partial amnesia track ends asap!