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Originally posted by: joliefemme

Fria let's say he comes clean to Pallavi tomorrow and all of this was Esha's doing, the drugging n stuff, will you be ok to let it slide and what should Pallavi do given we know her character.

Parul, Any, same question to you both too.

I'm still on the fence here coz I'd give more weightage to his intentions and if he came clean and nothing happened, I can let it slide after he obviously repents n begs. If he doesn't say the truth, the groveling and begging needs to be a lot more.

I'm worried it can be a deal breaker for Raghvi. How could this idiot spoil something so beautiful. Is there a way sicku can salvage our beautiful couple or I have to assume the show ended on the date night?

These are my thoughts if he was indeed drugged/trapped:

At the end of the day, if he was drugged, we can't hold him responsible for anything he did between the time he got drugged to when he regained consciousness(the next morning). We'd have to give him that much.

However, that doesn't negate everything he did before getting drugged. Now this isn't what I consider victim blaming because at the end of the day drug or not - being in a room with your ex and being that close to her isn't good for anyone.

He still did all what we saw him do in yesterday's episode pre-drinking. And there's no excuse for that. You do not need to be that close to an ex. I get helping cleaning her wound, I get giving her his room. He's a good person and if it's someone he knows, no way he'd leave her out there alone. This isn't where my gripe is.

My gripe is about everything else he did - the arm grab in front of the other ex, the blow on the wound, THE EFFING EYELOCK, even continuing to sit next to her, the fact that he saw her come towards him and didn't back away. This is what he is still responsible for, drugged or not. This is still close to or potential emotional infidelity because these are signs of residual feelings, that he's basically acting on.

And I get this whole notion of you don't stop loving someone - I said that myself. But you can stop your actions. You don't need to start acting on those feelings. He's at the line, if he hasn't already crossed it (pre drugging behavior).

I think if he comes clean right away - Pallavi will forgive him but be extremely hurt. She'll understand him helping Esha out of insaniyat but I think she'll be incredibly sad and I think she'll start to doubt her position in his life. It's not about whether he loves Pallavi or not - she knows he does. I think she may start to doubt whether his love for her is stronger than his love for Esha. That whole notion of "If I wasn't here would he still go back to Esha? Am I in the way? Will he ever be able to fully get over Esha?"

If he keeps the truth from her (wchich he will) and lets it build - then it'll turn into a much more worse situation. I think she will kirk out on him like she did accident track. Her asking him "How could you do this to me? To us?" At least that's what I want her to do.

The thing is Pallavi is so forgiving, and they're showing her soo resilient that idk if they'll show her emotionally break. I want her to though because she deserves to have her moment. She deserves to have the opportunity to lash out at him for everything he's done, for all that she's had to bear for him, to be with him, for all that she's done for him. She deserves the chance to let him know how much he's hurt her.

He needs to know that she is not some sponge constantly there to take his ish. He needs to realize that she can't always be the strong one. He needs to grow some cajones and be the strong one for once and fix things.

Originally posted by: inlieu

This is exactly what I feel as well so I'm not too concerned about how this will turn out. We are going into deep analysis but ultimately they will wrap the track up with some OTT scenes and move on to the next without going in depth on this.

if this isn't the truth.

🤣🤣 Here i am ranting for two days now about this episode .. i know it's not going to do anything. It won't change anything. They'll show what they want to show. Then they'll be done with this track next week and then on to the next one! LOL.

It's really just for catharsis at this point. Its like if your s.o. messed up and you went to go rant to your girlfriends about it. You know eventually you'll get over it, but you need that moment to yell and be upset lol.

Originally posted by: fria319

if this isn't the truth.

🤣🤣 Here i am ranting for two days now about this episode .. i know it's not going to do anything. It won't change anything. They'll show what they want to show. Then they'll be done with this track next week and then on to the next one! LOL.

It's really just for catharsis at this point. Its like if your s.o. messed up and you went to go rant to your girlfriends about it. You know eventually you'll get over it, but you need that moment to yell and be upset lol.

I have my own thoughts about what Raghav thinks and feels but going by the tone of most people on this thread and how upset they are, I'll let it slide for now as I don't have the energy to debate when the discussion veers towards Pallavi vs. Raghav's reactions and approach to different situations. Will write more when the next episode airs.

Originally posted by: fria319

if this isn't the truth.

🤣🤣 Here i am ranting for two days now about this episode .. i know it's not going to do anything. It won't change anything. They'll show what they want to show. Then they'll be done with this track next week and then on to the next one! LOL.

It's really just for catharsis at this point. Its like if your s.o. messed up and you went to go rant to your girlfriends about it. You know eventually you'll get over it, but you need that moment to yell and be upset lol.

Fria why are u so cute. 🤗

Actually we love ranting a bit too much. We should take this show as seriously as the makers take it only then can we save ourselves severe heart problems.

We have pushed this show to quite a pedestal (biggest credit to Saishi for their flawless portrayal of Raghvi) which is none to the makers credit. Many times I feel it's a fluke. Sicku lucked out with Saishi bas.

Ren I didn't know this was up already. Why joo no tag me🥺😆

I have a feeling imma love this (so pehle hi reaction de diya lol), will post my response later after reading.

Originally posted by: fria319

These are my thoughts if he was indeed drugged/trapped:

At the end of the day, if he was drugged, we can't hold him responsible for anything he did between the time he got drugged to when he regained consciousness(the next morning). We'd have to give him that much. Totally agree

However, that doesn't negate everything he did before getting drugged. Now this isn't what I consider victim blaming because at the end of the day drug or not - being in a room with your ex and being that close to her isn't good for anyone.

He still did all what we saw him do in yesterday's episode pre-drinking. And there's no excuse for that. You do not need to be that close to an ex. I get helping cleaning her wound, I get giving her his room. He's a good person and if it's someone he knows, no way he'd leave her out there alone. This isn't where my gripe is.

My gripe is about everything else he did - the arm grab in front of the other ex, the blow on the wound, THE EFFING EYELOCK, even continuing to sit next to her, the fact that he saw her come towards him and didn't back away. This is what he is still responsible for, drugged or not. This is still close to or potential emotional infidelity because these are signs of residual feelings, that he's basically acting on.

And I get this whole notion of you don't stop loving someone - I said that myself. But you can stop your actions. You don't need to start acting on those feelings. He's at the line, if he hasn't already crossed it (pre drugging behavior). While I respect your views, I think differently. Again I'm still on the fence here Fria honestly. I'd give him the benefit of the doubt coz he doesn't intend to cheat on pallavi. He loves her and he loathes cheaters.

I think if he comes clean right away - Pallavi will forgive him but be extremely hurt. She'll understand him helping Esha out of insaniyat but I think she'll be incredibly sad and I think she'll start to doubt her position in his life. It's not about whether he loves Pallavi or not - she knows he does. I think she may start to doubt whether his love for her is stronger than his love for Esha. That whole notion of "If I wasn't here would he still go back to Esha? Am I in the way? Will he ever be able to fully get over Esha?" Thats the sad part, how much ever we wish he comes clean, that's not his nature..he won't. This is easy to let go for Pallavi, it will take time but not impossible.

If he keeps the truth from her (wchich he will) and lets it build - then it'll turn into a much more worse situation. I think she will kirk out on him like she did accident track. Her asking him "How could you do this to me? To us?" At least that's what I want her to do. Yeah I want her to lash out at him in her clear way. I really love her clarity of thoughts and he's going to have it the day she lashes out.

The thing is Pallavi is so forgiving, and they're showing her soo resilient that idk if they'll show her emotionally break. I want her to though because she deserves to have her moment. She deserves to have the opportunity to lash out at him for everything he's done, for all that she's had to bear for him, to be with him, for all that she's done for him. She deserves the chance to let him know how much he's hurt her. Yeah I want to see her breakdown, its the kind of thing that can break a person, she won't know right away that he was drugged. I'm working under the assumption that eventually he'll be given a clean chit. Can we get groveling scenes n then truth out so he's not whitewashed totally. He'll die.of guilt seeing her in tears that too cause of his betrayal.

He needs to know that she is not some sponge constantly there to take his ish. He needs to realize that she can't always be the strong one. He needs to grow some cajones and be the strong one for once and fix things.

Yes fria they can't keep showing her picking up all the slack. He needs to be an equal party in this relationship and bear the emotional burden as well

Thanks for your reply.

Originally posted by: rubys07

Ren I didn't know this was up already. Why joo no tag me🥺😆

I have a feeling imma love this (so pehle hi reaction de diya lol), will post my response later after reading.

Ru didn't I share the link in our thread? Sorry this stupid 5 member tag rule na... I do a random eeny meeny miny mo on the tags

Ren you know I love this post! And I love the discussions you have churned here!!!

We stay in a hypocrite world... And this discussions have been brought up here time and again. I am so happy this thread is so live and kicking 🤗

Pallavi has always been the mature one in this relationship. A whiff of misunderstanding and she's in action to get things on track. Wasn't she love when she came back with aai to RR mansion during Mandar track breaking her promise to VD because she prioritised him or even now when she initiated a call to sort things when he left for Warangal without meeting her.

The fact is she never denied him the assurance and comfort he sought from her. She treated Mandar like an acquaintance... Her aai Baba's son and nothing more. Inquiring about him was like a chore to her. Her heart and soul set on him. Whether he liked it or not, pallavi has only served him truth and nothing else. And with that she didn't give any one any space to intrude between them.

But this is where Raghav has failed not once but multiple times. His promises and truths have been to suit his convenience. He snapped at her when she asked him certain questions... Her curiosity brushed past... So now when it was his turn to make her secure... He shunned her.

He hid mandar's 7 day challenge and resorted to adding a tracker in her bag... Giving mandar a passage to drive a rift between them!

He kept lying to pallavi about his business and allowed sunny to drive a wedge between them.

And now he hid me too msg from Pallavi (as if it was him who had sent that msg knowingly to Esha). Sharing a room, making amends and sharing a drink with his ex when until less that 24 hrs ago that name was a taboo topic... He must have not done anything but he is going to believe the inevitable. And we know he's going to lie and hide this too. And with this he is again allowing someone to capitalise on this and enter his and pallavi's dynamics.

He doesn't seem to learn or realize that his lies are not saving him instead are pulling him down. My feelings for him are so conflicted today that even though I might empathise with him, I will not be able to justify him.

I am not holding him accountable for the alleged kaand but there are other things he definitely need to be called out on.

Each time, he doesn't agree with her, he shuts her out. This time, I genuinely want tables turned. Let her be the one to shut him out. Let him realize that a relationship doesn't survive on love alone. Trust is equally important. And he has not done anything that Pallavi needs to keep putting her faith in him.

Life ka funda should be simple... What you don't want to happen to you, don't do it yourself. What you expect from your partner give them that.

Trust is not a commodity that can be bought... it's not abundantly available for one to renounce and restore... It's not a charity that one can get out of begging... It's a virtue that needs to be cherished and safeguarded.

Time for Raghav to take the onus of this relationship. Bohut ho gaya one sided. As much as I want Pallavi to let go the reigns, I want him to pick it up right there. If he can't cherish and value her and what he has with her... If he can't work to mend the chords he's set to break... We are looking at dead end for Raghvi!

sorry if I missed any thread....

🤣 IMHO - this RR may be an imposter.... someone has taken RR and sent an imposter to gain something.... some secret document....etc 🤣

This is itv - it is possible...😊

Originally posted by: A4Anjie

sorry if I missed any thread....

🤣 IMHO - this RR may be an imposter.... someone has taken RR and sent an imposter to gain something.... some secret document....etc 🤣

This is itv - it is possible...😊

It is absurd but given the track and sanctity of larger than life Raghav Rao... I think I may accept this over the actual 🤣

Hey Bhagwan kya din aa gaye hain 🤣