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This post is just to call out the hypocrisy of this world we live in and make a short comparison between the two third angle tracks - Mandar and Esha.

1. Pallavi was always transparent with Raghav and Amma about her equation with Mandar. Whereas Raghav did not clarify the fact that Esha still loves him. He also didn't tell Pallavi the entire truth of his past with Esha and she got to know through Esha.

2. Pallavi had a clear conscience in regard to Mandar's position in her life, he was the son of her Aai and Baba and she was helping them get his memories back. Whereas Raghav's stand looks conflicted, he smiles while reciting the shlok, he cries while hearing the recording and reacts so strongly to her presence.

3. Pallavi never led Mandar on and was very clear to him that she's helping him for the sake of humanity. She was Raghav's wife and she openly declared it to the world. Raghav on the other hand, is somewhere leading Esha on by taking care of her, staying in the room etc despite knowing she loves him.

4. Pallavi went with Mandar to the doctor for a whole day (broad daylight) and was questionned for being naive and stupid (I was among those who were pissed that day) but here Raghav is drinking with the ex and sleeping in the same room, sofa or not is unacceptable unless he planned to tell Pallavi the truth (which he's practically not capable of).

5. Pallavi never lied to him about anywhere she went or any interaction with Mandar. Raghav will lie after the kand (I can understand he was drugged but he somewhere will bring this on himself for drinking after promising Pallavi not to). He can never be honest with Pallavi because he's too afraid that she'll leave him.

My take:

Raghav has always hated cheaters toh when he gets up tomorrow (he doesn't know it's a trap), he will have done the same thing he hates. Will he come clean to Pallavi or continue his mountain of lies in the name of insecurities?

Pallavi should take a step back from this relationship. He will break her trust so badly (something she gave him much before her heart), he needs to literally grovel to get her back. Pallavi pls leave for your own self-respect. He needs to realise your value and stop taking your trust for granted. You can't continue to take the full ownership of this marriage when all Raghav does is lies to you, hurt you, insults you, shut you out and make you feel like an outsider.

My questions to the whole world,

Would Raghav have let this slide if it was Mandar and Pallavi in the same situation?

Will we call Raghav a two-timer and cheater and ask Pallavi to divorce him?

The genders here play a massive role in how one will react. A man always gets a free pass for cheating (emotional / physical all of it) but a woman is asked to prove her honor. I'm so done with this.

Ren pallavi always have been easy target to bash so it will continue even now.

I don't want to say much you have wrote everything. Only thing I want from raghav that pls he should tell pallavi everything whatever happened and let her decide what she wants if she wants to be with him give him chance let her decide . we know isha will play dirty from now on and Raghav will be guilty but for god sake don't make play with her feelings by keeping her in dark . she will be hurt to no end but she will handle herself just Raghav be honest.

Let's see what happens I hope Butchering don't go to next level.. Sikku has destroyed one of the best character.. I feel bad for sai 💔

Originally posted by: joliefemme

This post is just to call out the hypocrisy of this world we live in and make a short comparison between the two third angle tracks - Mandar and Esha.

1. Pallavi was always transparent with Raghav and Amma about her equation with Mandar. Whereas Raghav did not clarify the fact that Esha still loves him. He also didn't tell Pallavi the entire truth of his past with Esha and she got to know through Esha.

This feels more like Pallavi vs raghav and who is superior than comparison the two tracks.

People dislike pallavi in mandar track because she has a facade of transparency. She was clearly not telling raghav that mandaar 's touching her making her uncomfortable. Even when raghav says there is something wrong about Mandar I don't trust him. That would have been a transparent person' s cue to come clean. But it gives a discussion point - some would say it's get fault and others say no. All her actions have been swept without addressing and under Raghav's insecurity or mandaar's evil. Because the audience is largely women, they are more bound to support pallavi largely because she is a woman.

Raghav on the other hand has done wrong and a sin. It is clear as day to everybody.

Originally posted by: s_kavya

Ren pallavi always have been easy target to bash so it will continue even now.

I don't want to say much you have wrote everything. Only thing I want from raghav that pls he should tell pallavi everything whatever happened and let her decide what she wants if she wants to be with him give him chance let her decide . we know isha will play dirty from now on and Raghav will be guilty but for god sake don't make play with her feelings by keeping her in dark . she will be hurt to no end but she will handle herself just Raghav be honest.

Let's see what happens I hope Butchering don't go to next level.. Sikku has destroyed one of the best character.. I feel bad for sai 💔

I'm willing to let everything slide only if this man comes clean. He needs to stop lying coz the others are taking advantage of the lack of communication here.

Originally posted by: joliefemme

I'm willing to let everything slide only if this man comes clean. He needs to stop lying coz the others are taking advantage of the lack of communication here.

Originally posted by: Ruhi.007

This feels more like Pallavi vs raghav and who is superior than comparison the two tracks.

People dislike pallavi in mandar track because she has a facade of transparency. She was clearly not telling raghav that mandaar 's touching her making her uncomfortable. Even when raghav says there is something wrong about Mandar I don't trust him. That would have been a transparent person' s cue to come clean. But it gives a discussion point - some would say it's get fault and others say no. All her actions have been swept without addressing and under Raghav's insecurity or mandaar's evil. Because the audience is largely women, they are more bound to support pallavi largely because she is a woman.

Raghav on the other hand has done wrong and a sin. It is clear as day to everybody.

The post is not to compare Raghav vs Pallavi but just how genders will make you perceive things differently at times.

I agree to disagree with you here. Pallavi never felt the discomfort in his touch (which was shocking to us as well) but if she didn't feel it, there was no need to come clean to Raghav. Raghav voiced his thoughts out much before the track unfolded (before he got to know Mandar's truth himself) and Pallavi knew the man through his family. There was no reason for Pallavi to not give him benefit of the doubt.

She's made mistakes in the Mandar track I will not deny but her intentions have been clean, her conscience clear and there's no malice in her. That's the reason today I can't stand and support Raghav how much ever I want to. He needs to come clean to Pallavi and that is the only way his conscience will be clear.

Originally posted by: joliefemme

This post is just to call out the hypocrisy of this world we live in and make a short comparison between the two third angle tracks - Mandar and Esha.

1. Pallavi was always transparent with Raghav and Amma about her equation with Mandar. Whereas Raghav did not clarify the fact that Esha still loves him. He also didn't tell Pallavi the entire truth of his past with Esha and she got to know through Esha.

2. Pallavi had a clear conscience in regard to Mandar's position in her life, he was the son of her Aai and Baba and she was helping them get his memories back. Whereas Raghav's stand looks conflicted, he smiles while reciting the shlok, he cries while hearing the recording and reacts so strongly to her presence.

3. Pallavi never led Mandar on and was very clear to him that she's helping him for the sake of humanity. She was Raghav's wife and she openly declared it to the world. Raghav on the other hand, is somewhere leading Esha on by taking care of her, staying in the room etc despite knowing she loves him.

4. Pallavi went with Mandar to the doctor for a whole day (broad daylight) and was questionned for being naive and stupid (I was among those who were pissed that day) but here Raghav is drinking with the ex and sleeping in the same room, sofa or not is unacceptable unless he planned to tell Pallavi the truth (which he's practically not capable of).

5. Pallavi never lied to him about anywhere she went or any interaction with Mandar. Raghav will lie after the kand (I can understand he was drugged but he somewhere will bring this on himself for drinking after promising Pallavi not to). He can never be honest with Pallavi because he's too afraid that she'll leave him.

My take:

Raghav has always hated cheaters toh when he gets up tomorrow (he doesn't know it's a trap), he will have done the same thing he hates. Will he come clean to Pallavi or continue his mountain of lies in the name of insecurities?

Pallavi should take a step back from this relationship. He will break her trust so badly (something she gave him much before her heart), he needs to literally grovel to get her back. Pallavi pls leave for your own self-respect. He needs to realise your value and stop taking your trust for granted. You can't continue to take the full ownership of this marriage when all Raghav does is lies to you, hurt you, insults you, shut you out and make you feel like an outsider.

My questions to the whole world,

Would Raghav have let this slide if it was Mandar and Pallavi in the same situation?

Will we call Raghav a two-timer and cheater and ask Pallavi to divorce him?

The genders here play a massive role in how one will react. A man always gets a free pass for cheating (emotional / physical all of it) but a woman is asked to prove her honor. I'm so done with this.

He ruined Anjalis life and gave him lectures and now look @ him . Did what he said he hated the most and always blamed others

Hypocrisy Ki to hadh ho gayee ab 🙄🙄🙄🙄

Originally posted by: joliefemme

This post is just to call out the hypocrisy of this world we live in and make a short comparison between the two third angle tracks - Mandar and Esha.

1. Pallavi was always transparent with Raghav and Amma about her equation with Mandar. Whereas Raghav did not clarify the fact that Esha still loves him. He also didn't tell Pallavi the entire truth of his past with Esha and she got to know through Esha.

2. Pallavi had a clear conscience in regard to Mandar's position in her life, he was the son of her Aai and Baba and she was helping them get his memories back. Whereas Raghav's stand looks conflicted, he smiles while reciting the shlok, he cries while hearing the recording and reacts so strongly to her presence.

3. Pallavi never led Mandar on and was very clear to him that she's helping him for the sake of humanity. She was Raghav's wife and she openly declared it to the world. Raghav on the other hand, is somewhere leading Esha on by taking care of her, staying in the room etc despite knowing she loves him.

4. Pallavi went with Mandar to the doctor for a whole day (broad daylight) and was questionned for being naive and stupid (I was among those who were pissed that day) but here Raghav is drinking with the ex and sleeping in the same room, sofa or not is unacceptable unless he planned to tell Pallavi the truth (which he's practically not capable of).

5. Pallavi never lied to him about anywhere she went or any interaction with Mandar. Raghav will lie after the kand (I can understand he was drugged but he somewhere will bring this on himself for drinking after promising Pallavi not to). He can never be honest with Pallavi because he's too afraid that she'll leave him.

My take:

Raghav has always hated cheaters toh when he gets up tomorrow (he doesn't know it's a trap), he will have done the same thing he hates. Will he come clean to Pallavi or continue his mountain of lies in the name of insecurities?

Pallavi should take a step back from this relationship. He will break her trust so badly (something she gave him much before her heart), he needs to literally grovel to get her back. Pallavi pls leave for your own self-respect. He needs to realise your value and stop taking your trust for granted. You can't continue to take the full ownership of this marriage when all Raghav does is lies to you, hurt you, insults you, shut you out and make you feel like an outsider.

My questions to the whole world,

Would Raghav have let this slide if it was Mandar and Pallavi in the same situation?

Will we call Raghav a two-timer and cheater and ask Pallavi to divorce him?

The genders here play a massive role in how one will react. A man always gets a free pass for cheating (emotional / physical all of it) but a woman is asked to prove her honor. I'm so done with this.

Ren , to be honest I have reached a stage where even ranting about the track or expressing myself here doesnt help me in getting over the frustration.

I am at loss of words now.

Trying few destressing therapies at home .

If they help me overcome this, I will surely write a long reply here.😂

If they want to retain a bit of dignity to Raghav’s character then he should confess it to Pallavi himself before she gets to know from someone else.. but I am sure it won’t happen…Whether something happened or not between him and Esha is different but the fact that he volunteered to stay back in the same room and have a drink with his ex and hiding it from Pallavi will successfully ruin Raghav for me…I won’t be able to see him the same way anymore…I don’t know about Pallavi but I have lost trust in him…he is not the same Raghav anymore…

I will be greatly disappointed if Pallavi pulls a Sati Savithri to save her Satyavan act here…no she doesn’t deserve this…I want her to lash out at him and leave him to his misery and wallow in guilt and that pain would be nothing compared to the heartbreak she will go through…

To Pallavi “ Girl please leave…you deserve better, you don’t have to choose him this time, simple reason, he treated you as an option”

Originally posted by: joliefemme

I'm willing to let everything slide only if this man comes clean. He needs to stop lying coz the others are taking advantage of the lack of communication here.

I won’t be able to do even that…they have diluted his love & integrity…how can I trust him with her now…I feel hopeless now…they have not only ruined him but also the sanctity in their relationship…how can they do this…