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Posted: 4 years ago
#61

Originally posted by: joliefemme


I read this post and honestly I've not yet seen the episode but I really want to give Raghav benefit.of the doubt just coz of his intentions and love towards Pals.


It was not needed, whatever was on display today. It didn’t add to the track anyhow unless they want to show Raghav conflicted between his ex and his Pallavi now, which would be even worse really.


Hoping for the best.


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Posted: 4 years ago
#62

Originally posted by: Inese_20


It was not needed, whatever was on display today. It didn’t add to the track anyhow unless they want to show Raghav conflicted between his ex and his Pallavi now, which would be even worse really.


Hoping for the best.



Yeh Trp ka moh maya hai but inko nai milne wala. Sicku didn't learn his lessons after spoiling khkt

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: joliefemme


Just because he shares a room and drink with his ex doesn't make it any less of a crime if Esha drugs him. Agar consent nai hai (irrespective of gender), it's an assault. Even if raghav sleeps next to Esha nothing gives hee the right to violate him. Genders reverse karo and it is problematic.


You can hold Raghav accountable for every thing stupid he's done but only till he's drugged. You may call him a cheater and I will give him a lee way, it's all upto perspectives. Murky territory hai.

@bold: agree but we don’t know about it yet???

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Posted: 4 years ago
#64

Originally posted by: Anu1975

@bold: agree but we don’t know about it yet???


There are 3 possibilities.


  • He has been drugged.
  • He's had too much to drink and passed out of his senses.
  • He's sober


In either of the above situation, 2 more possibilities, they slept together or not.


Except in the sober and slept situation, I won't blame him for the other 5.

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Posted: 4 years ago
#65

Originally posted by: joliefemme


Raghav's personality trait is that he hates cheaters, he'd never cheat on Pallavi, not even when he hated her during their initial days of marriage. If they didn't fall in love, he'd remain celibate for the rest of his life. That's how much I trust in the man.

This is exactly what I feel as well so I'm not too concerned about how this will turn out. We are going into deep analysis but ultimately they will wrap the track up with some OTT scenes and move on to the next without going in depth on this.

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Posted: 4 years ago
#66

Thanks for bringing up the point about the riots and her being kidnapped by her ex and how they ended up in the hotel room. Some people are talking about this as if they both are there for leisure.

I'm sure I wouldn't be able to accept him looking the other way when he saw her in trouble. He'd do that for a stranger and this is not just his ex but someone who was a very close friend before they fell in love.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Appreciate the sensitivity and clarity of your post.


Further to the questions you have asked, I would like to ask if Raghav would have forgiven Pallavi if he found her blushing on hearing Mandhar's name?


I haven't been watching the episodes, right from the time Raghav blushed and cried thinking about his ex, I was highly discomforted and couldn't help wondering if his loyalty completely lies with Pallavi.


I am all in for giving Raghav a benefit of doubt if it were a matter of only what transpired in the hotel room. But from what I understand there has been apparent ambiguity with respect to his feelings for Esha from before. And Pallavi deserves nothing less than 100% of his loyalty.


Raghav would not be able to muster the courage to let Pallavi know that he spent a whole night in a single room with his ex under questionable circumstances. Every second he delays telling the truth would feel like a betrayal in itself. And that alone makes me feel like not wanting to ship Pallavi and Raghav anymore.


I also want Pallavi to have nothing to do with "proving Raghav's innocence" coz honestly it's not a question about having sex, it's a question of being untruthful, of lying. Moreover, Raghav is more than capable to proving whatever he wants to.


More than saving Raghav, I would say Pallavi should save herself from this constant cycle of trying to mend Raghav's ways. That amount of time and effort could be attributed to building her own life.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: inlieu

This is exactly what I feel as well so I'm not too concerned about how this will turn out. We are going into deep analysis but ultimately they will wrap the track up with some OTT scenes and move on to the next without going in depth on this.


For my own sanity, I want to view this track as the makers will make Raghvi view it.


It's all esha ka fault and she drugged him.

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Posted: 4 years ago
#69

Originally posted by: joliefemme


For my own sanity, I want to view this track as the viewers will make Raghvi view it.


It's all esha ka fault and she drugged him.

The writers are not in the same frame of mind as they were in the first 100 episodes. Don't expect coherence and consistency in writing. It's only going to hurt you more. Things went downhill since the confession and we just never saw the show recover from it. It had a longer run than many other shows but I doubt we can expect the same crisp writing as before. They will throw in some pearls once in a while but you can't make a necklace out of them.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: beguiling

Appreciate the sensitivity and clarity of your post. Thanks so much. I try 😳


Further to the questions you have asked, I would like to ask if Raghav would have forgiven Pallavi if he found her blushing on hearing Mandhar's name? He would have burned the world down. Again, the threshold depends on person to person. Pals may be much more forgiving.


I haven't been watching the episodes, right from the time Raghav blushed and cried thinking about his ex, I was highly discomforted and couldn't help wondering if his loyalty completely lies with Pallavi. I'm still struggling to understand why show him conflicted. Like I know for sure he loves Pallavi and can never go back to loving Esha. Why show him conflicted, why make him chose either. Pallavi should never be an option.


I am all in for giving Raghav a benefit of doubt if it were a matter of only what transpired in the hotel room. But from what I understand there has been apparent ambiguity with respect to his feelings for Esha from before. And Pallavi deserves nothing less than 100% of his loyalty. Yes he should be 100pc loyal to her. All the earlier instances can be looked at as residual pain and him acting on it. There was no love involved. Again, murky territory, the makers should not have gone there



Raghav would not be able to muster the courage to let Pallavi know that he spent a whole night in a single room with his ex under questionable circumstances. Every second he delays telling the truth would feel like a betrayal in itself. And that alone makes me feel like not wanting to ship Pallavi and Raghav anymore. Yes that's why I want him to come clean and I trust him not to. He's not wired that way and he'll lose her to realise where he went wrong. His lying ways have been forgiven in the past but should not anymore. He needs to cry, beg for forgiveness and only then Pallavi should take him back. He's doing a lot of questionable things which he would not forgive Pallavi if tables were turned.


I also want Pallavi to have nothing to do with "proving Raghav's innocence" coz honestly it's not a question about having sex, it's a question of being untruthful, of lying. Moreover, Raghav is more than capable to proving whatever he wants to. Yes, R should do this on his own.. Pallavi should deal with her own heartbreak and pain. I want a silent treatment so that he learns to value her and her trust.




More than saving Raghav, I would say Pallavi should save herself from this constant cycle of trying to mend Raghav's ways. That amount of time and effort could be attributed to building her own life.


I swear, she's doing way more in this marriage than she should. It's so difficult to deal with someone as volatile as Raghav. While he indulges her a lot, she does have to baby him and pick up a lot of slack. Poor girl never gets a break in her life. Pura kasauti zindagi ki bana diya hai.

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