Originally posted by: beguiling
Appreciate the sensitivity and clarity of your post. Thanks so much. I try 😳
Further to the questions you have asked, I would like to ask if Raghav would have forgiven Pallavi if he found her blushing on hearing Mandhar's name? He would have burned the world down. Again, the threshold depends on person to person. Pals may be much more forgiving.
I haven't been watching the episodes, right from the time Raghav blushed and cried thinking about his ex, I was highly discomforted and couldn't help wondering if his loyalty completely lies with Pallavi. I'm still struggling to understand why show him conflicted. Like I know for sure he loves Pallavi and can never go back to loving Esha. Why show him conflicted, why make him chose either. Pallavi should never be an option.
I am all in for giving Raghav a benefit of doubt if it were a matter of only what transpired in the hotel room. But from what I understand there has been apparent ambiguity with respect to his feelings for Esha from before. And Pallavi deserves nothing less than 100% of his loyalty. Yes he should be 100pc loyal to her. All the earlier instances can be looked at as residual pain and him acting on it. There was no love involved. Again, murky territory, the makers should not have gone there
Raghav would not be able to muster the courage to let Pallavi know that he spent a whole night in a single room with his ex under questionable circumstances. Every second he delays telling the truth would feel like a betrayal in itself. And that alone makes me feel like not wanting to ship Pallavi and Raghav anymore. Yes that's why I want him to come clean and I trust him not to. He's not wired that way and he'll lose her to realise where he went wrong. His lying ways have been forgiven in the past but should not anymore. He needs to cry, beg for forgiveness and only then Pallavi should take him back. He's doing a lot of questionable things which he would not forgive Pallavi if tables were turned.
I also want Pallavi to have nothing to do with "proving Raghav's innocence" coz honestly it's not a question about having sex, it's a question of being untruthful, of lying. Moreover, Raghav is more than capable to proving whatever he wants to. Yes, R should do this on his own.. Pallavi should deal with her own heartbreak and pain. I want a silent treatment so that he learns to value her and her trust. 
More than saving Raghav, I would say Pallavi should save herself from this constant cycle of trying to mend Raghav's ways. That amount of time and effort could be attributed to building her own life.