Focus on your life, Samrat - Page 2

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Regarding Samrat, Well I dont see him just staying back for his Bhabhi or anybody. He does get influenced and besotted by her most of the times..Recently when she talked about Aarti, getting ready or getting tea for him. He gets manipulated by her and her beauty most of the times. Patralekha is pro at it. The actress is unconvincing, but thats her real character...RK needed no dialogues in most of the scenes, that they add for Patralekha... Samrat is here because he still is in love with her and sees a chance there...

Coming back to Sai, going by what she has gone through..SHe has not seen better men out there, infact she has not seen a life in the last one year..Whatever happiness she got was due to Virat, so she holds him high and fell in love with a wrong man. Does not change the fact that she is abused... I remember telling the TM also, young girls at this age can be manipulated in the name of love. I know few, since have seen them closely, where they get abused , then the man apologises , victimises himself, threatens to kills them and then the woman gets back... EVen though they have their own family to lean back , to tell them otherwise. I dont think Sai even has anyone genuinely to tell her otherwise, to make her understand. She is attached an in love with her abuser. Had she been a few years older known few good college mates and then married Virat for the same reasons, she would surely have not reached till this stage. She needs good therapy to come out of it. But since they are selling the eternal love story , anyway its not going to happen here..

Samrat's main Virat ki tarah kahi bhi rone nahi lagta, got me in splits..majorly because he does so many mistakes and keeps crying.

Regarding Samrat thats a good point too. He asks right questions but ends up taking decions that makes him look dumb. Yesterday outside OT when Pulkit taunted Pakhi Samrat gave only a scornful smile which means he is aware of Pakhi's intentions. Now if the whole world knows and he himself is aware why cant he take a divorce? This way he is compromising on his own self worth. Pulkit and Samrat are the only non toxic tolerable male characters in the show. But Samrat choosing Pakhi despite being aware of her intentions make him look dumb. I wanted to see how Samrat explores a relationship but not with a characterless woman like Pakhi. He is all goals for a relationship. He is non toxic, non dominating and not abusive- everything that Virat is not but him ending with Pakhi is hopeless. He doesnt even know Pakhi well to give her so many chances. He can clearly see she is after his own brother. Even his brother is not mindful of the boundaries. Samrat disappointed me so much because he asks right questions and ends up being a fool. He had a choice after marriage as well to confront her and procced for divorce. He ran away then. Even now he has an option to confront her and proceed with divorce. He is melting at her beauty. He should sit down with her n talk. If she is not giving answers divorce than beating around bush.

Regarding Sai you worded it aptly. She recognizes it or not she is in an abusive relationship. She is at an young impressionable age. She wasn't even ready for a marriage. Had she completed her studies she wouldn't have been in this weak vu5lnerable position she is in today. She decided to go away from Virat many times but it was his manipulation and emotional blackmailing that made her return. For this soap to be a strory of today they should separate Sai and Virat but they will see the batshit love story

Virat crying is not the issue. Him crying after making mistakes crimes 2 be precise is the problem. Samrat should chastiate him on that

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Coming back to Sai, going by what she has gone through..SHe has not seen better men out there, infact she has not seen a life in the last one year..Whatever happiness she got was due to Virat, so she holds him high and fell in love with a wrong man. Does not change the fact that she is abused... I remember telling the TM also, young girls at this age can be manipulated in the name of love. I know few, since have seen them closely, where they get abused , then the man apologises , victimises himself, threatens to kills them and then the woman gets back... EVen though they have their own family to lean back , to tell them otherwise. I dont think Sai even has anyone genuinely to tell her otherwise, to make her understand. She is attached an in love with her abuser. Had she been a few years older known few good college mates and then married Virat for the same reasons, she would surely have not reached till this stage. She needs good therapy to come out of it. But since they are selling the eternal love story , anyway its not going to happen here..

Asmi again I agree with this 🙌

From what I have seen with young gals in my fam, friends who got married young and some of the peeps in my support group this is a very common phenomenon when the man victimizes himself either the gal forgives or due to the drama the fam forces her to do so.

I know since this happened to me too ..the crying , falling in on feet that he did when I was stotic 😠 but thank my lucky stars bhai made an entry..he asked some questions instigated him to accept his deeds.

Plus in my case I totally was aware of the drama and knew that no therapy works with him period and I need to move away if I want to be alive.

A wrong remains wrong even when the victim forgives the perpetrator. It's just that henceforth few will sympathize with the victim in case of suffering at the hands of the same person.

Can someone elaborate here what they mean by domestic violence when it comes to sairat?

Originally posted by: john909

Can someone elaborate here what they mean by domestic violence when it comes to sairat?

As per Virat locking the for the whole day is disciplining her and not domestic abuse. For Samrat it was domestic abuse.

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

As per Virat locking the for the whole day is disciplining her and not domestic abuse. For Samrat it was domestic abuse.

Ok. Thanks for clarifying. I am on and off as I don't really like the way they have butchered virat's character to make sai look basically mahaan and flawless. Nobody in this show is flawless. But rarely everyone gets called out on it fairly. They keep talking about issues that don't exist and make it a real issue instead of solving the root cause. Samrat is also getting on my nerves as it looks like he is too invested in sai instead of focusing on his own relationship. He reallyneeds to make a decision and yet he is after sairat preaching them whar to do and has amnesia periodically as he tends to forget the conclusions he drew about them in past and behaves like his previous thoughts didn't exist. Less said about Kaku gang the better. This whole show has hypocrisy blatantly displayed everyday

We often say that one should always see how a man treats a woman, not only when she agrees with him but also when she disagree. And that should not only be permitted to the woman he loves but also other woman.

So here, Samrat has seen how Pakhi treats Sai. The amount of abuse she do against her is not something unknown to him. And also, her 'unconditional' love for Virat. And also, he feels (according to me) kind of indebted to Sai. She was the one who brought him back, because of her he is able to give his relationship with Pakhi a chance. So, of course, the place of Sai is higher.

I agree he should just divorce Pakhi seeing how vile she is but there are some things that still a taboo in ITV. Divorce is one such thing.