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Posted: 4 years ago
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I don’t care about other characters at the moment, I have some attachment with Samrat, maybe because I waited for him so long and he has been good in first few weeks, it is so sad to see him being turned into mindless follower of FL, he is fighting Virat for her when she doesn’t even consider Virat as a culprit


Samrat needs to focus on his life, you can’t stay married to a woman because of your Bhabhi, if he feels that Pakhi is involved with Virat, he has to start divorce proceedings, there’s no point of saying things to Pakhi when you are not going to take any action. I expected better from him, I know the FL is not less than God for this show but I have lost every connection I had with her be it as a viewer or as a woman


To the makers, Please give Samrat, the character arc you gave him in first few months of his return, there are enough cheerleaders for Sai, now whole Chavhan Niwas will do it, I don’t want Samrat to be just another Devi, Shivani, Ashwini, Pulkit and Mohit who have nothing in name of character arc except a few lines here and there in support of Sai


PS - precap - Sai to everyone who took a stand for her against Virat and domestic violence


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Posted: 4 years ago
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Patralekha manipulates situation according to Samrat. Like today green tea was the example. She convincingly justified handholding. He might have his doubts but he is also not sure that Patralekha still is into Virat.

Also precap 🤣

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: nutmeg7

Patralekha manipulates situation according to Samrat. Like today green tea was the example. She convincingly justified handholding. He might have his doubts but he is also not sure that Patralekha still is into Virat.

Also precap 🤣


Handholding wasn’t wrong nor she lied about the reason Virat held her hand, Green Tea scene happened when I was having mine and I had to throw it because yuck, how can anyone be so desperate?

I had saved that picture in my camera roll to post when Sai craves Virat, after fighting for her 😆 Apni beizzati

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Handholding wouldnt be wrong in normal circumstances. But with this pair, given the history and her reiteration of 'khaas ho', the scene looked, like let's say 'not palatable'.

Smart use of picture 😆

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Beautiful SaiRat picture♥️

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Posted: 4 years ago
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If Samrat thinks Pakhi is cheating on him he should divorce her. I don't understand him at all. He asks right questions. He is observant. He is very perceptive and intuitive. He can see through what Pakhi is doing. So why is he giving her a chance? He didn't even get to know her well. Doing this out of the few day acquaintance they had make no sense. There is no progress in their relationship and Pakhi is becoming more and more desperate and shameless.

As to Sai going back she goes back or not domestic violence will remain domestic violence. She can fall in love with him still doesnt change the fact he is an abusive husband. She will fall for her abuser. That's her mistake. I think that's Stockholm syndrome. She doesnt recognize it as domestic violence. I dont know why makers added the dialogue of domestic violence if they never planned to address it. However it is a welcome change they at least mentioned it. They are showing Sairat as an eternal love story and inserting all that superstitious bull shit. Moving on shouldn't be difficult but I am understanding the psyche of a 19 year old orphan who has nowhere to go. They showed her a faint glimmer of care n love she is feeling overwhelmed by it. Sometimes I think if she had any blood relation she wouldn't have ended up in that family

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: oblivious_soul

If Samrat thinks Pakhi is cheating on him he should divorce her. I don't understand him at all. He asks right questions. He is observant. He is very perceptive and intuitive. He can see through what Pakhi is doing. So why is he giving her a chance? He didn't even get to know her well. Doing this out of the few day acquaintance they had make no sense. There is no progress in their relationship and Pakhi is becoming more and more desperate and shameless.

As to Sai going back she goes back or not domestic violence will remain domestic violence. She can fall in love with him still doesnt change the fact he is an abusive husband. She will fall for her abuser. That's her mistake. I think that's Stockholm syndrome. She doesnt recognize it as domestic violence. I dont know why makers added the dialogue of domestic violence if they never planned to address it. However it is a welcome change they at least mentioned it. They are showing Sairat as an eternal love story and inserting all that superstitious bull shit. Moving on shouldn't be difficult but I am understanding the psyche of a 19 year old orphan who has nowhere to go. They showed her a faint glimmer of care n love she is feeling overwhelmed by it. Sometimes I think if she had any blood relation she wouldn't have ended up in that family

I don't understand what makers are doing with Samrat, He should file for divorce but it seems that will give him a different storyline, seperate from Sai's character and they can't have it, so just making him say things in her support that's about it, No need for a character arc when you are appointed as a cheerleader for someone.



I would have agreed with you on Sai, if she was real but here they are not presenting her going back to Virat as wrong, they are showing this is the only way she can be safe or she'll have an accident and Sai craves for his presence. I feel like we are belittling pain and trauma real victims face by equating Sai with them, they called it domestic violence but Sai doesn't care, all she cares about is Pakhi's presence in his life

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: oblivious_soul

If Samrat thinks Pakhi is cheating on him he should divorce her. I don't understand him at all. He asks right questions. He is observant. He is very perceptive and intuitive. He can see through what Pakhi is doing. So why is he giving her a chance? He didn't even get to know her well. Doing this out of the few day acquaintance they had make no sense. There is no progress in their relationship and Pakhi is becoming more and more desperate and shameless.

As to Sai going back she goes back or not domestic violence will remain domestic violence. She can fall in love with him still doesnt change the fact he is an abusive husband. She will fall for her abuser. That's her mistake. I think that's Stockholm syndrome. She doesnt recognize it as domestic violence. I dont know why makers added the dialogue of domestic violence if they never planned to address it. However it is a welcome change they at least mentioned it. They are showing Sairat as an eternal love story and inserting all that superstitious bull shit. Moving on shouldn't be difficult but I am understanding the psyche of a 19 year old orphan who has nowhere to go. They showed her a faint glimmer of care n love she is feeling overwhelmed by it. Sometimes I think if she had any blood relation she wouldn't have ended up in that family

Regarding Samrat, Well I dont see him just staying back for his Bhabhi or anybody. He does get influenced and besotted by her most of the times..Recently when she talked about Aarti, getting ready or getting tea for him. He gets manipulated by her and her beauty most of the times. Patralekha is pro at it. The actress is unconvincing, but thats her real character...RK needed no dialogues in most of the scenes, that they add for Patralekha... Samrat is here because he still is in love with her and sees a chance there...

Coming back to Sai, going by what she has gone through..SHe has not seen better men out there, infact she has not seen a life in the last one year..Whatever happiness she got was due to Virat, so she holds him high and fell in love with a wrong man. Does not change the fact that she is abused... I remember telling the TM also, young girls at this age can be manipulated in the name of love. I know few, since have seen them closely, where they get abused , then the man apologises , victimises himself, threatens to kills them and then the woman gets back... EVen though they have their own family to lean back , to tell them otherwise. I dont think Sai even has anyone genuinely to tell her otherwise, to make her understand. She is attached an in love with her abuser. Had she been a few years older known few good college mates and then married Virat for the same reasons, she would surely have not reached till this stage. She needs good therapy to come out of it. But since they are selling the eternal love story , anyway its not going to happen here..

Samrat's main Virat ki tarah kahi bhi rone nahi lagta, got me in splits..majorly because he does so many mistakes and keeps crying.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: nutmeg7

Handholding wouldnt be wrong in normal circumstances. But with this pair, given the history and her reiteration of 'khaas ho', the scene looked, like let's say 'not palatable'.

Smart use of picture 😆


You wouldn't like my take on it but I see it differently, if you give me a chance, I'll explain my view

The other day Virat spoke about committing suicide, none in his family cared, it was only Pakhi who gave a normal reaction to someone talking about suicide, was it someone in love? No, because we have seen scenes where Virat has said this and Sai covered his mouth with her hand, that was a romantic scene, what Pakhi did was a natural reaction

When everyone was blaming Virat and Pakhi together in the hospital, they cornered both of them and made them into a team, when she saw Virat crying, she assured him that Sai will be fine and her operation will be successful and she cares about him, he was angry with her words and reactions but he opens up to her, whatever he feels, he has always shared with her easily and he shared his grief with her

Pakhi's intentions are wrong but Virat holding her hand was not wrong because he needed an outlet from his grief, everyone else is busy blaming him and today, he laid his head on his mother's lap because she is not blaming him. When Sai is in a critical condition, everyone is fighting with him, they are not wrong on their stand against Virat

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: NoraSM


You wouldn't like my take on it but I see it differently, if you give me a chance, I'll explain my view

The other day Virat spoke about committing suicide, none in his family cared, it was only Pakhi who gave a normal reaction to someone talking about suicide, was it someone in love? No, because we have seen scenes where Virat has said this and Sai covered his mouth with her hand, that was a romantic scene, what Pakhi did was a natural reaction

When everyone was blaming Virat and Pakhi together in the hospital, they cornered both of them and made them into a team, when she saw Virat crying, she assured him that Sai will be fine and her operation will be successful and she cares about him, he was angry with her words and reactions but he opens up to her, whatever he feels, he has always shared with her easily and he shared his grief with her

Pakhi's intentions are wrong but Virat holding her hand was not wrong because he needed an outlet from his grief, everyone else is busy blaming him and today, he laid his head on his mother's lap because she is not blaming him. When Sai is in a critical condition, everyone is fighting with him, they are not wrong on their stand against Virat

Why wouldn't I like your take? You know the other day, I was thinking in one way when I read your post. Now I don't remember exactly which but it kinda struck me that yes, this is also one of the possibility. Please keep writing. It is good to read another set of ideas when mind is open and receptive. 😊

About Virat holding hand, I mentioned in some other post that he was so broken at that moment. His legs were jelly and had there been Vitthal Mane in front of him, he would have held his hand also if he was trying to console virat. Yes, we find it extremely horrid because he held her hand and he shouldn't have.

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