Kuch pal sukoon ke - Page 6

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

And I loved that..I love how subtle /downplayed and casual it was bas pata hai awareness came through but in imlie ka blush and smiles in his maine kar lia jo main chahta tha wala sukoon smile rather than woh maine number maar liya wala arrogance..they did it bohat pyare way main ek dum humbling tha if I may ☺️ and that is why these things work on them ke cliche break laga lo and uskein aad main kar li jhatka lag gaya kareeb aa gaye caz they do it organically without making a 20 Mins episode on it hi.. matlab sab boxes check thay but phir bhi it didn't came out as a cliche even with a song playing IYKWIM

Yes they always work when they keep in their zone..like right from the beginning with Adi's jaldi aao tel kharch mat karo lol and baitho Imlieee jaldiiii...hehe reminded me jab he did her champi uss time bhi jaldi tha isko😆..and the bittersweet way he brought up ki asli ride nahi par koi nahi we'll find our khushi in this as well❤️...so true on the brake lagana bit that humbling quality and Adi ka woh endearing nervousness while trying to explain hehe...aww and then both their smiles throughout aur Imlie leaning on him❤️...and even the bits later where he's trying with all these different things and Imlie's indulging him with her pyaare smiles throughout this bit❤️

And about that overused song lol..like you said their bit came out so organically I didnt notice the song much by itself😆

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Word about him knowing imlie is stronger than anyone he knows and he feels so overwhelmed by that by her resilience in most situation.. ke woh kuxh bhi handle karne ki ability rakhti hai on her own vb when she feels emotionally volatile knowing that she wouldn't do something stupid like yeh ajrat and her suicide shows.. that imlie will be broken but she won't keep her mind aside and will take a sane decision whatever it maybe..that honsla and that gives him strength too in return to then deal with these situations even though I am totally of the opinion and you too I know e that doesn't mean ke push her to the limits and not like he does that on purpose

Oh definitely....that last scene again reinforced this. He doesn't try to DELIBERATELY burden Imlie with his problems and he isn't expecting her to handle everything on his behalf either....but he does share his vulnerabilities and helplessness with her cuz usko sach mein kahin aur itna safe nahin feel hota apne aap ko express karna. The situations are always such ki ek Imlie ke saath hi woh sab kuch share kar sakta hai cuz aur kisi ko woh saari baat waise nahin bol sakta jaise Imlie ko....there is always another level of intimacy even in the heartbreak they share.....here he's feeling such self-loathing again over thinking he's gira hua etc. but phir bhi woh Imlie ko hi express kar raha hai.....not for any expectation of sympathy...heck, it kills his pride as a man to even admit that kind of self-loathing...but woh Imlie ke saamne phir bhi sab kuch khol ke rakh hi deta hai.

And no, he's not doing this cuz he thinks she is strong enough toh matlab saara burden, saara bhaar daal do uspe.....and he's also not in anyway expecting her to silently go along with whatever problems are falling on her as the collateral of being in his life....he's simply stating the helplessness he feels given how badly he's been trapped from all sides. Him telling her ki mujhe kuch samajh nahin aa raha kya horaha hai aur main kya karun is not simply to ask for a solution from her. He just shared it with her as her partner....cuz rishte mein SHARING hi hoti hai....and people take turns stepping up for each other. Adi hasn't asked Imlie to share this burden but woh khud step up karegi cuz she loves him and can't bear to see him this tormented.

If people try to do whataboutism here ki Adi ko kyun nahin dikhta Imlie ka trauma - that's also not true....Imlie ka challenge regarding acceptance from his family was a different issue that he did fight for as long as he could before things totally took a sidetrack with the SK wala NDE.....so right now we have an Adi dealing with a swirl of back to back confusing situations and he's sort of lost in many ways....that is why Imlie is feeling the onus of stepping up for him even though he's not asking her ki tum uthaao mera bhaar.....lol woh khud hi karegi cuz she knows he is a sincere and good man who's just not being able to see the truth as of now.

*Edit: I'll just add that while Adi is definitely HUMBLED by Imlie's emotional strength, I have never gotten the sense that he expects her alone to shoulder all the emotional burdens of their lives....he just has a different way of coping with things emotionally than her but I still wouldn't say he tries to burden her jaanboojh ke. Zidd karna is not the same as just burdening someone with your life ki problems.

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Which then again is hilarious je he so.ooenly told aparna and got a smile in return of his request ke not only uska dabba bana do but I am dropping her too with no insistence from.her too ke uhhh bhojhni ka coolie ban🤣🤣 well for now.. 🤷‍♀️ she was more than happy in adi being willing to drop imlie too and allowing allowing their time and privacy as husband wife.. a huge shift from where we were it was rather noticeable ke adi bhi more haq se Confidently openly saying it to his mum with an ease.. too something he couldn't have done pre- rape jahan isko sab saas bahi soap opera lag raha tha ke main phans gaha hoon iss sab main by you 2 and the constant putting imlie down and am not going koi far far far back but yehi mithi ka accident episode post party episodes age main bhi.

again didi ki haq ke liye tadapna never stops being funny caz of how he doesn't care doesn't notice haath rakhe na rakhe none of it matters ..girti hai bike se sau Bismillah jaaye gire🤷‍♀️ none of his concern.. again as a husband wife too he never ever was at ease with her on the bike..does anyone remember woh post PD ride jahan yeb apparently mana ke laa raha tha and the clear stiffness ot well chslo then he had emotionally turned off from.her but ussee pehle bhi when they were newly Weds too it was always so stiff he would never even ease as the driver but with imlie his whole body language is on a different level woh ek laid back ess hai and her chinta keeps him occupied and he is always asking her to hold properly gir vir na jaaye and he cannot afford to make her fall bahaana alag bana leta hai but he always mentioned ke gir gayi toh haah even though they have been going on these rides for so long now and isko bhi oata hai woh nahi giregi ainvayein and usko bhi ke nahi girauega ainvayein🤣 the only chances are if she leaves him midway kahin on some signal toh yeb like ki bhainsiya ki takkar maarega in some truck🤣

@bold: LMAO I just got a visual in my head from that description and it cracked me up🤣🤣🤣......it would be too funny agar woh bike se gir gayi aur Adi phir bhi notice bhi na kare🤣🤣....that's how IRRELEVANT she would be even in death😆.....

Also agree with your point regarding the Adi-Aparna scene....again they are showing all these things subtly ki Adi-Imlie have continued their usual stance of caring for each other as husband-wife and dheere dheere Ts ne kaafi hadh tak bolna bhi chhod diya hai....Adi came and pehle played ziddi baccha to his Maa but then also just as naturally in the flow asked her ki Imlie ke liye bhi tiffin de do, main usko saath lekar jaunga and Aparna is no longer throwing tantrums ki khud banvaa lo uska khaana alag se.....lol

Jo Ts pehle itna uchhalte the over any glimpse of Adi showing concern for Imlie as her husband now mostly remain silent even if not overtly supportive of Adilie ki jodi yet😆.....grudging acceptance ho chuka hai, man😆.....and it's very VERY noteworthy that they no longer ask Adi ki Malini ka khayaal rakho as her pati.....Yeah Ts are weird enough ki people like BK-Radha can fixate on AM as bacche ke mom-dad while conveniently zoning out the fact that Adi sirf Imlie se pyar karta hai.....lol....but that's a larger issue that isn't worth getting into daily.....for now, itna toh consistently dikh raha hai that Ts have given up the battle to try to make Adi accept M as his wife again......routine mein aadat dal rahi hai to see only Imlie as Adi's wife.....M ki image shift ho chuki hai to baby carrying vessel and nothing else😆.

Made some reaction gifs on the other notable dialogues of the epi😆

Oh man, the SATISFACTION in seeing the expressions Adi gives as he describes UNSTABLE Malini....the DISTASTE👏😆

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Made some reaction gifs on the other notable dialogues of the epi😆

Oh man, the SATISFACTION in seeing the expressions Adi gives as he describes UNSTABLE Malini....the DISTASTE👏😆

Oye I need the kuch toh sharam kijiye too😆 they are freaking awesome I love these .. adi ko ulti aa rahi hai sirf itni si baat karne main hi

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Oye I need the kuch toh sharam kijiye too😆 they are freaking awesome I love these .. adi ko ulti aa rahi hai sirf itni si baat karne main hi

Haha thankoos! 🤗

Ee liyo Sharam Keejiye also gif-ed😆

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Haha thankoos! 🤗

Ee liyo Sharam Keejiye also gif-ed😆

I want someone to play it everytime she comes on screen kinda like imlie to play it on loop for her..🤣

And yeh mera batch on the bike ride😆

Thanks for the thread AY 😊

I liked todays Epi a lot ... 1st it had beautiful and meaningful convo..

2nd Date actually happened failing Didi's life taking efforts to stop it...

3rd the Date was very sweet and cute and Unique of it's own kind... like a separate cozy zone of these two being only with eo.

4th there was good insight to Adi's situation..

So the date was all imaginary bike and restaurant... i loved the visual .. it was soothing to my eye and pleasant to my ears... Ohh this man wants to badly run away and spend it dream life with Imlie... More than Imlie he is desperate to spend his normal life with her he wants to leave all the mess he has created but he is not understanding that the mess in his life is the result of his running from the current mess and it has cumuliated to this big one now and he is still doin that....

But the best part was Imlie brining back Adi in world of reality .. Her answer was crisp and to the point..

Adi is confused... we get upset with him but this man is actually confused of scenario as a victim will be in real.. he is in pain for what happened that day... can't feel for the baby and coz to negate that not feel he is doings things for baby which in usual he would have ignored and his most and biggest pain is the feeling of being dishonest with Imlie.. he is not able to take it that be in whatever condition how could he do somethin which will hurt her... these are all eatin him up together and thus he is confused on how to behave , how to act and what to speak... which makes even us angry on him most of the time... but his acts are result of his painful situation....

Tiady he said to Imlie - even a bad woman will take care of her child.. so he is not completely negating that M is not bad.. it is sinking to him slowly that M is wrong and all he gave for her today - emotionaly instable or insecure... shows he have been continous been tortured by her this behavior and thus designed to behave polite with her whatever she does... it happens in real life too I have seen such few cases.. but this is very painful and ghutan wala situation..

Imlie has come as a fresh breeze in his life and he feels to breath free with her.. and thus he treasure her...

Imlie above all her narazgi Loves him... she is naraz that he is not helping himself and not letting her help him... he backs out in last minute BUT her love is bier than narazgi and she can't leave him when he need her as his support system... i was also angry in few epi that she is not showing any self respect and staying here but she knows that he need her badly. Imlie is keeping her self respect by her narazgi but she is around him showering her care and support as well... this is the level of their relation.. not typical where FL leaves and NDE happens and all fous comes to FL and TRP goes up... I will say makers are risking TRP but the depth of Adilie is unique...

Rupi di is becoming much upfront in her views of Malini... kamse kam she broke her image of being very sweet and Mahan in front of all... and see how M behaved with Rupi Di.. anyone against her and her true colors comes up... this is what she is in actual... upar se suar coated and makers had always tried to show it that way... kuch loon ko nahi dikha .. their problem

But i am really wonderin... does Ts not love their own child.. Adi to begana tha hee.. M was always above him for them now How Rupi spoke to Rupi Di but none T's spoke a word to her to behave with her as she is elder sister of Adi... and Radha.. does she have any feel for her own kid..Rupi is her own daughter and she herself has tormented life... and Radha BK and nothing to worry about their own child....

hfff...Hope i have been able to put the thoughts that came to my mind after the epi😊

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Made some reaction gifs on the other notable dialogues of the epi😆

Oh man, the SATISFACTION in seeing the expressions Adi gives as he describes UNSTABLE Malini....the DISTASTE👏😆

My new favorite word ever is “ASTHIR” 🤣

Can’t get over that at all! Love the first gif - something that we ask everyday - this will come very handy in the future 😆

Love this! Thanks for sharing!!