Originally posted by: moonwearer
From her response to Kavya the other day it is obvious that anupama likes wearing sarees. There can be holidays and functions when she chooses to wear dresses. Not sure if the persona of anupama will be comfortable in other outfits.
I don't think saree makes one gareelu. I wear salwars at home 👖on vacation and saree to work. I am very progressive in my outlook even though I'm draped in a saree.
I don't think anupama will be comfortable in the black outfit kavya wore when instigating the idiots. Clothes are a matter of personal choice and comfort.
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This is bottom line of everything i.e personal choice and comfort!
Bottom lines are also debatable thing! People evolves, generations evolves and with it comfort zones also evolves/changes and choices too.
There was a palla era in india jisko women apna comfort zone samati thi! Jo bhi women palla era se bahar nikal saki unko saree era bahot comfortable feel hua, jis bhi ladies ko saree era se bahar nikal kar salwar-suits and kurta leggings pehen ne ka mauka mila unko salwar suits ,saree se bhi kahi zyada comfortable feel hue and unke choices change hue.
Bahot khushnasib hoti hai woh aurat india mai jisko ek dressing era se bahar nikal kar dusre dressing era ko time ke sath experience karne ka mauka milta hai and naya comfot zone feel karne ka bhi mauka milta hai. Agar kabhi kisi aurat ko time ke ek dressing era se nikal kar dusre dressing era mai comfort zone feel karne ka mauka he nahi mila hota toh aj bhi bharat desh ki aurat palla era mai he comfort zone samaj kar atki hoti!
As i said " personal choice and comfort " is bottom line for everything but it is very debatable subject .
And maine toh dekha hai "Inka comfort zone bhi limited hota hai just like unki family ka soch ! "
That's why i personally prefer anupama in saree only seeing her life history, her regressive family background and her personality!
As you said you wears salwar at home, saree at work and jeans on vacation, your comfort zone is not limited to just one type of outfit everywhere because you got a chance to explore jeans and salwar and since you are comfortable in other outfits ,you prefer them on vacations and at home too. You do not feel only saree is your comfort zone ! Which seems quite normal and can't call you gharelu version like anupama!
It's all about exploring the things with the changing era and changing time and finding new comfort zones.
Kuve ke mendak ko uska comfort zone uska kuva he lagta hai! But iska matlab yeh nahi hai ki genuinely mendak ki khushi sirf kuva hai!
Agar mendak ko badalte era and waqt ke sath naya naya explore karne diya jaye toh i doubt mendak ko fir se kabhi sirf kuva he uska comfort zone lagega!
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