The reality of victim shaming - Page 71

Originally posted by: Rollingdeep

If I may.. he is not fighting against imlie but himself and she is the extension. Is it wrong? Maybe but it’s his character which is super flawed .

Super flawed ke chakkar me kuchh bhi to nahi dikha sakte na..

My main issue is why does he want DD still to live with them In t house!! He feels he is guilty but that doesn't means he forget s that he married to DD too and now after this izzat lut gayi fiasco how can he behaves like a dumb !!

He is not fighting against Imlie but he is standing Infront of Imlie with DD and that is not helping him nor Imlie . Not even DD because she is getting wrong hope in all this..

And all this what Imlie getting !! Insult humiliation etc ..

Originally posted by: Panchhi1

This time the issue is very much different than daant fir padhai or some random one ..

Here what is he doing ..he believes on everyone except Imlie. . the typical way he is taking out his helplessness frustration on Imlie ..it's not just daant fatkaar but it's serious one where she is at least trying to find out his innocence and in that process sometimes a person fail ..

Why can't he trust / believe Imlie ?? The way he is agreeing all the lame excuses given by DD why can't he do that with Imlie??

Imlie humari patni hai is just a sentence now !! It doesn't make any fark at all..

One side Imlie ko patni bolke Ghar me rakhna aur dusri side after this kaand too DD ko aap kanhi nahi jaayegi!!😳 kyun ?? What does he want even??

He wants to live with Both of his wives under one roof ??😡

Adi is doing what any normal husband do . Vent their anger and frustration with their wife . Their punching bag .

Originally posted by: Apudip

Aadi jab padhai ke liye Imlie ko daant tha to wo thhik tha aur wo Imlie se payaar bhi kartha tha lekin ab jab wo usse daant raha hai to wo payaar nehi karta hai aur sabke samne Imlie ki beijjati bhi kar raha hai 👏isse kehte hai selective vision😆

Aadi Imlie ke barein mein bahort clear hai ,praise bhi khulke sab ke samne karte hai aur daant bhi sabke samne lagate hai ,isme itna special keya hai 🤷

Thank you for this - and completely true. Everytime Adi shouts at Imlie, it is for a specific reason. He is not one to blast her just to insult her or pull her down. His shouting is either for removing his frustration to the one person he knows will understand his feelings, or to make Imlie understand that her impusive actions are putting her in a situation which will badly affect her only.

Imlie bhi sach me dheet hai ..jab Banda khud nahi chahta ki Kuch karna to ye kyun Piche padi Hui hai ..😕

Pyar me aise haal ho jaata hai to Bhagwan hi bachaye aise andhe Pyar SE !!

Originally posted by: zubaidah

Adi is doing what any normal husband do . Vent their anger and frustration with their wife . Their punching bag .

Imlie to punching bag hi hai ..😕 for all not only Adi😳

Originally posted by: Bakwas_BS

Ye hamri patni hai 100 times bolne se kli patni nahi banjathe.

Rishte ke base hota hai trust jo ye imlie pe bilkul nahi karta ..

So true ..

Ab Kya bacha hai inke rishte me ..base tha " Vishwas " Jo ki hai hi nahi ab ..

Its customary for male leads to sleep with other woman in ekta shows and have a kid. And she shows it in detail😆. Then female lead goes away n she too will be raising the kid of male lead

It is customary to have a fake bacha in all GK shows😆 she don't show it in details. Male leads drink will be spiked and get revealed they never slept at first place😆. Azad and biloo, Shivay & tia , Om & gauri (gauri was female lead) & now Adi & malini😆

Originally posted by: .SNOWWHITE.

Its customary for male leads to sleep with other woman in ekta shows and have a kid. And she shows it in detail😆. Then female lead goes away n she too will be raising the kid of male lead

It is customary to have a fake bacha in all GK shows😆 she don't show it in details. Male leads drink will be spiked and get revealed they never slept at first place😆. Azad and biloo, Shivay & tia , Om & gauri (gauri was female lead) & now Adi & malini😆

😆 dono ki signature style hmmm ..

Same plot in all serials !! Ye sach me ullu hi samazte hai audience ko and waise hai bhi ullu hi ..inki products chalti bhi hai market me😆

Originally posted by: Panchhi1

Super flawed ke chakkar me kuchh bhi to nahi dikha sakte na..

My main issue is why does he want DD still to live with them In t house!! He feels he is guilty but that doesn't means he forget s that he married to DD too and now after this izzat lut gayi fiasco how can he behaves like a dumb !!

He is not fighting against Imlie but he is standing Infront of Imlie with DD and that is not helping him nor Imlie . Not even DD because she is getting wrong hope in all this..

And all this what Imlie getting !! Insult humiliation etc ..

He keeps Didi there despite everything cos he feels

Bad about her emotional weekness and he thinks keeping her away from her mother would help… but here she is just as evil. 🤷‍♀️The guy has blinders since day one to anyone’s faults if not when Didi asked him why he never felt jealous if she went on holiday without him … any man or woman would wonder why would your Partner ask if u are not getting jealous unless they are the Shaaki type which is a red flag ! But he just brushed it aside !

And here what make it different is that Gashmeer showed the shame , heartbreak and pain very beautifully. And the consent was stressed. But he find himself as a predator too.