The reality of victim shaming

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Posted: 3 years ago
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So today's episode was decently paced, but I loved the precap the best. The whole point of this episode was to show how the victim will always blame themselves and how many a time even the family lands up doing that as well, making justice seem moot.

That was exactly what happened when the T family got a notice to appear in court. While none of them wanted to participate in this case, PT and HT talk some sense into them that not going can give them another trip to jail😆. Adi is still not being able to wrap his head around the fact that his best friend who has done so much for him and Imlie, could do such a ghatiya harkat with him. He would rather blame himself and paint himself as a perpetrator, rather than even try to entertain the theory that Imlie is right and that he is the victim in this case. This situation gets aggravated when a crowd comes to the T house on AC's behest to not allow them to reach court. They shouted all accusations that people who either have half knowledge of the situation or are primed to blame the victim as the reason a crime happened. Yahaan toh it was exaggerated by the fact that a man was accusing a woman of taking advantage of him, so that made it even worse according to this very "insaaf mangne wali bheed"

But as usual, it was Imlie's sensibilities to the rescue. She confronts the crowd asking them if they were judges to pass their judgment without any proof or knowledge of the case. She reminds people that where there is a Sita Maiyya, there we also had a Surpanakha in the same story (loved the allegory😆). But mostly I loved how she said that while a crowd had no responsibility because it is nameless, the same way they also have no rights to punish. Before she could go any further, NN comes there to show how amazing she us at handling "Bhed and Bakri" who do not know their place. With a danda she makes sure that the crowd gets a taste of their own medicine🤣. NN was fabulous here, so much that even Adi was worried that she may hit someone🤣.

On the other side we saw Malini today being really worried that finally she may have to pay the price for all the kand she has done all this while. She first tries convincing KC to drop the case, to no avail. The guy openly tells her that he has one-sided love for her, but will not support her in this endeavour of hers. Malini gets all huffy and leaves (so basically feeding into the hail Mary or fake preggers theory even more). Then she tries to convince her father to talk to Imlie to take the case back, under the garb of thinking about the T family ki izzat😆. Malini no kya phati hui hai, and I am liking it😆. DC is again useless here where even if he tries to ask the right questions, it lands again being him not being able to see both his daughters go through pain🤦‍♀️.

We are finally taken to the court scene where as usual the victim shaming begins again with the opposition lawyer saying about how can anyone believe this stupid case where a guy can be taken advantage of by a woman. Also the crowd delays the T's from reaching court, but KC manages the situation by reminding the judge that in sensitive case like these, the victim is often not allowed to come to court. In sab main my only question again was - is Mitthi back in the C house, as she was in court before the T's came🤦‍♀️. The proceedings start with HT telling the court that none of the T family remember being drunk that night. Then Adi is called to testify.

Anyway the precap seemed more interesting today, as the lawyer was talking about all the accusations that Adi's character has been getting from all his bashers and trollers. But the best was KC telling him that MC has stopped all divorce proceedings, which stuns Adi. Though my hope is that this may be the start of the end of his disillusionment with his gehri dost, with Adi somewhere you can never tell😆. All I hope is that if not for all, atleast this kickstarts the patrakar's brain to do something about proving the crime that was done with him.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Tent

The epi was good and many wishes of FD.. the first one atleast was fulfilled.. KC doing chop of Dd.. it was sweet... 😆


brb


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Posted: 3 years ago
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DD ki chop 😆 by KC

Bheed( bhed) ki aisi ki taisi by PD niwasis 😆

Divorce truth revealed by KC Infront of all the people in court😆 BS ko lagaa zatka ab dekhna ye hai ki ye zatka Iska dimag ki short circuit ko thik karega ya phir get fool by DD again 236735663135 times with lame excuses..

Adi married to Imlie before DD and that in the court by DD's lawyer😆

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Thanks aps 🤗


Wonderful build up episode today🥳. Loved it


The walls continue to close in on didiya. Kc ne lagaayi solid waat and mahila mandal ko ulta nn ne dandaa maarke bhagaa dees 👏. Imlu ne usse pehle solid bajaayi inki👏


Adi in shock after hearing the bombshell that didiya ne divorce rukhwaa di hoon was fab🥳I hope they show atleast a shred of doubt sowed in him after this😭. Bahuth acche tarah se ek sensitive topic ko handle kiya without going cringey so far atleast.


Episode begins with a petrified didi attempting to force kc to withdraw from imlus case getting royally bajaooed in the bargain👏. Kc tells her in no uncertain terms that when pyaar is not do tarfa it is considered zidd and that he will not back her obsession for adi🤣. Ghamandi aurath bolthi hai ki kc will ruin his career because no one will believe ki ek aurath ne ek aadmi ka faayda utaaya hai😡. Kc asks her to take a hike😆. Accha actor hai vishwa very natural. Liking him more and more👍🏼.


Back in the t house we have a riled up bk and apu bajaaoing imlu for having received court summons to appear as witnesses for the case. Apu is more concerned about court mein jaake beizatt hona over her son🤢. Imlu gets anxious and tries to calm the nalaayak seniors😡 down by saying they are going to fight for bs ke samman, daka on maryada jinki chori hui hai😆. Bs goes on didi jaap saying didi ne hamesha unka aur adilie ka saath diya aur wo nahin maan sakthe that didi kabhi aise ghatiyapan pe uthar aayegi😡. He insists that jurm uske haathon huwa hai. Apu refuses to go to court but pt and bk tell her koi choice nahi hai because they can even be jailed for ignoring court summons.


Pt imlu have a father daughter moment where imlu reassures him that she will never let harm come to bs and the family❤️. He says he will continue to support her at this time. A dari hui Didi😆 requests her dad to convince imlie to take the case back. Dev asks her why she is afraid if she has done nothing wrong. On seeing dev suspicious didi lies that wo apne liye nahi darr rahi par ts and adi ke liye😡 darr rahi hai. Dev once again pleads with malini to change her ways because he cannot bear to see her go down like this. Ac interrupts their convo reassuring didi that she has made arrangements for tripathis to not reach the hearing so that the case is dismissed. Her plan to have the mahila mandal ppl delay the ts is an epic flop😆. Hai unki poorani gunde waala tareeka use hi kar dethi english madam🤣.


Mahila mandal people sent over by ac harass the ts when they attempt to leave for the hearing. Imlu bajaooes them when they try to assault adi. Imlu Didi ko shoorpanakha boldees 😆and Nn danda maarke sabko bhaga dethi hai🤣. Court me kc being questioned about where his clients are and didi ka lawyer piling on to get the case dismissed since the ts are a no show. We have kc heaving a sigh of relief when Ts and imlu ki epic entry hothi hai just as judge is about to dismiss the case.


Kc begins by saying ki woh didi ki intoxication and molestation accusation ko saabith karenge. Desai ji counters saying aurath kisi mard ka faayda nahi utaa sakthi kyunki ye wahiyaat accusation hai and that didi was molested instead.Bk is questioned first and answers that the entire family was intoxicated beyond which no one remembers anything. They woke up in the morning to the news of the kaand.


Precap me desai accuses bs of being a fraud for having 2 wives cheating an 18 year old girl and then marrying malini for money. Kc drops the bombshell about malini having stopped divorce proceedings and adi is shocked. Really hoping bs starts doubting didi atleast now😭.

Edited by wizardofoz2 - 3 years ago
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Posted: 3 years ago
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Gwad peedith Babu Sahib🤣

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Makers have played a very smart game. Adi cant be convicted in this case for bigamy as this case is against Malini. For bigamy, Malini will have to file a separate case.


But Makers have a window to clear legal status of both marriages in this case. Smart move indeed. Now if only the handle pregnancy track sensibly and fast, I can go back to loving this show like before 😂

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Thanks Aps for the update..🤗


Kunal chauhan bane Prithviraj Chauhan!

Udaa legaye gaaye sukh, chain and gave a Big No to didi Mahaan!

If he was the man of the match today..

Imlie was the voice of reason, what a mic drop sway!

Jahan sita maiya hai wahan shoorpanaka bhi hai..

He or she, kahe hi yeh bhed bhaav hai!

If Imlie was the wonder womaniya..

Nani was the lath champion from Pagdandiya!

Bheedh nahi bhed hain..

Baaton ke nahi laaton ke bhoot hain!


And so begins the countdown ..not sure to what extent we will see didi going down..but definitely the process is starting. AKT claiming he is not the victim and re-iterating didi's magnanimity had all the undercurrents of didi going down. I know the promo has left us all baffled on how this will play out...but just gonna take one episode at a time!

Today's episode really belonged to KC. He said it like he meant it. Malini in her delusional and selfish world has literally always taken advantage of everyone who loved her right from her parents to AKT to Tripathis. Today again she wanted to exploit her so-called friendship with KC. Chauhan babu gave her the biggest No, not once but twice and that too most blatantly. Bravo!!

On the other hand how awesome was Imlie. ST was fabulous! I am actually quite impressed that the show took such a sensitive, concealed topic and are giving it a very decent dealing. Her stance, her determination and her will power- so well done!

As for AKT, I hope in the timeline of this track's stretch, it is now that his bulbwa lights up. I was hoping to see this as track where both the man and woman fight for what is right, but oh well....hoping the investigative reporter's instincts stop being passive and get some spark...now that a top notch lawyer is asking him why he is not divorced yet?!


#KCaayaBadeSareChopsLaya😆

Edited by Whatever765 - 3 years ago
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Posted: 3 years ago
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Thanks for the thread and WU, Aps ji! ❤️


Aaj ek pure surf excel ki badi packet use karli KC ne Malini ki dhulai karne ke liye 🤣


Safedi aane ki ummeed toh nahi thi par devi ji ko aise pachhadta hua dekhkar maza aaya 🤣


NN apna danda lekar thoda Aparna, Radha aur BK ko bhi maar deti toh aur maza aa jaata. 😔 Koi nahi, sapne mein dekh liya maine yeh drishya


Precap: Three cheers for Adi finally finding out the status of his own divorce 🥳🥳


Ab shock lag gawa, hopefully dimaag bhi hil kar sahi jagah par aa jaaye


Enjoyable episode overall 👍🏼😆

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Arre kahaan hai woh log jinhe laga MC KC ko seduce karne gayi thi? 😆


Hopefully, the seduction and KC's reaction to it lived up to everyone's expectations 🤣

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Posted: 3 years ago
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I have to admit pehli baar Gul ne court room drama dikhaya hai. I never remember seeing court room drama before. It was executed well👏

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