Mithai মিঠাই Discussion Thread #3 “Aamar Bhindeshi Taara” - Page 80

Originally posted by: CrazyLtlBitch

I'm so so so so so angry right now with Mithai 😠😠 She wasn't ready to leave.. She was crying bucket coz Dadai asked her to do what her mother asked her to do 😠😠😠 What happened to that Rathyatra Day Mithai???? Lying inside a coffin??? 😠😠😠

Rajeev, Ratul n Sandy literally went to Sid n asked him to go n talk to Mithai.. That's why he went to talk to Mithai - bahut bada ehsaan kiya 😠😠😠😠

And Mithai - Tomar eta ekhane ache, tomar ota okhane ache, lotpot charger sekhane ache 😠😠😠

The only sensible thing she said in the episode was - Mithai nijer life er decision nije kobe nilo?? Dadai n Maa er kothay biyete raaji holo, Sid er kothay oke biye korlo, Sree er kothay or sathe or ghore chhilo, tarpor Sid er challenge er jonno or kothay Sid er ghore thaklo... Nothing was her decision.. 😠😠😠

And Sid still doesn't have any answer to Mithai kon porichoi e thakbe?? 😠😠

BoroBabu 🙄 He was asking Kakai when will Mithai rejoin the business coz without her sell went down.. But refused to accept her as DiL.. But he was right about one thing.. Whatever Sid is doing was for Dadai not Mithai...

Absolutely hate SidMit scenes today 😠😠😠😠😠

Sid really doesn't need to accept Mithai after all these nyakami 😠😠😠 And Mithai said Sid has never misbehaved with her.. Like seriously 😠😠 I think @Sidhai_lovebirds er Haturi ta ebar Mithai er mathay mara uchit 😠😠

This was the nail on the coffin. 🤬

NEVER NEVER NEVER again am I watching this show 😠😠😠😠

I am sooooo angry that I feel like running a #BoycottMithai twitter campaign 😠😠😠😠😡

Where is our Mithai and what has Tess done to her?😕

And the WTF-ness continues....

Is this the same mithai who was adamant about going back home during rathyatra??!! Tokhon toh madam ekdom bag niye ready cilen. Ajke eto kanna keno? Really disappointed and frustrating to see👎🏼

The only good things -

"mithai kobe nijer ichhe kicu koreche?"

"kon porichoy e thakbe mithai"

Bas, everything else was nonsense of the highest level. All that forced cheer in the room and then pa dhore pronam😡😡

Originally posted by: mishti_unicorn

Excuse me what! Mit touches Sid's feet? Could it get any worse?😡

Don't tempt fate. The way it is going...it might just get 😭

For me it was a nice episode. I liked the Sid-Mit interaction today.

Mithai can never hate Sid. Neither can she be angry on him. Why will she be angry on him exactly? She explained today, She married becoz of dadai and her mom, similarly Sid married bcoz of dadai. How can she blame him? She cant be angry on Sid just becoz he doesnt beliv in marriage.

Sid has changed in past few months, have always respected her. Inspite of her being uneducated, he never actually shamed her. He actually stood by her in her problems. He fought with his father, his best friend, even questioned Som, compromised/jeopardized his career(somethng which he has nvr done for anybody). All of these was witnessed by Mit. She cant be angry with him.

At the same time, she can't stay in Manohara, because she doesnt have any reason to stay.

Sid is a confused soul. As I said earlier, he doesnt beliv in marriage, he believes in live-in relatioship. He said that also, what is the problem if u stay here. We have reached an understanding.

He is refusing to understand, that Mithai can have her dreams, dreams of being a wife etc etc. Mithai that told him clearly, that whatver u thnk can not always happen. Sid needs to thnk from other ppl's perspective also.

Regarding Mit touching Sid's feet, its very natural. Touching feet is to show respect. In our culture, we always touch feet of elders when we leave home. For Mithai, Sid is her husband, she s leaving permanently, so she just did her duty.

During Rudy track, Mit already mentioned, she will never re-marry.

PS- During marriage track, Sid refused Mit when she was about to touch his feet. He walked away. Today, in a way she completed that ritual.

****kitna bol diya****

We call nanda and nipa Alice in wonderland. But what should we say to Sid then

Today he asked, ami biye mani na ete ki tomar kokhono kono kosto hoye he mithai? Is this guy for real?

Personally, I agree that there is no harm in not believing in marriage. It is a personal choice. But if he has willingly married someone, isn't it basic courtesy to give them that respect of a spouse? Especially in the family that he lives in and the kind of girl mithai is, does he seriously with all his heart believe that his non-belief in marriage has not created any hurdles in mithai's life?

Mane it is one thing to know and understand, yet ignore the repercussions. But ajke je sid erom proshno korlo mithai ke, it really made it seem like he is unaware about the consequences of his decisions, which I feel is unacceptable.

This question he asked today + the juvenile way he was making faces at the dhaba in baruipur + his reaction at the fish market during the chitoi maach kando -- all these things just point out that sid lives in a dreamworld far removed from the reality of life.

I know the latter 2 instances were scenes meant for comedic relief... But just an observation for Sid as a character.

PS. Sorry for the long rant. Itend to fo that angry 😆

Originally posted by: anjani-pagli

For me it was a nice episode. I liked the Sid-Mit interaction today.

Mithai can never hate Sid. Neither can she be angry on him. Why will she be angry on him exactly? She explained today, She married becoz of dadai and her mom, similarly Sid married bcoz of dadai. How can she blame him? She cant be angry on Sid just becoz he doesnt beliv in marriage.

Sid has changed in past few months, have always respected her. Inspite of her being uneducated, he never actually shamed her. He actually stood by her in her problems. He fought with his father, his best friend, even questioned Som. All of these was witnessed by Mit. She cant be angry with him.

At the same time, she can't stay in Manohara, because she doesnt have any reason to stay.

Sid is a confused soul. As I said earlier, he doesnt beliv in marriage, he believes in live-in relatioship. He said that also, what is the problem if u stay here. We have reached an understanding.

He is refusing to understand, that Mithai can have her dreams, dreams of being a wife etc etc. Mithai that told him clearly, that whatver u thnk can not always happen. Sid needs to thnk from other ppl's perspective also.

Regarding Mit touching Sid's feet, its very natural. Touching feet is to show respect. In our culture, we always touch feet of elders when we leave home. For Mithai, Sid is her husband, she s leaving permanently, so she just did her duty.

During Rudy track, Mit already mentioned, she will never re-marry.

PS- During marriage track, Sid refused Mit when she was about to touch his feet. He walked away. Today, in a way she completed that ritual.

****kitna bol diya****

Thank you so much Anjani for saying all these 😌

I was so so so upset after watching the epi.. A different pov is really welcoming.. Actually I was upset coz Mithai was crying coz she didn't want to leave..

I was upset coz I was missing the Rathyatra Day Mithai who just packed her bag n was ready to leave coz she didn't want to be a part of Sid's one month challenge..

I was upset coz Mithai claimed Sid has never misbehaved with her.. When in reality Sid had actually started behaving with her after she put her life at risk to save him..

Originally posted by: reshamc

We call nanda and nipa Alice in wonderland. But what should we say to Sid then

Today he asked, ami biye mani na ete ki tomar kokhono kono kosto hoye he mithai? Is this guy for real?

Personally, I agree that there is no harm in not believing in marriage. It is a personal choice. But if he has willingly married someone, isn't it basic courtesy to give them that respect of a spouse? Especially in the family that he lives in and the kind of girl mithai is, does he seriously with all his heart believe that his non-belief in marriage has not created any hurdles in mithai's life?

Mane it is one thing to know and understand, yet ignore the repercussions. But ajke je sid erom proshno korlo mithai ke, it really made it seem like he is unaware about the consequences of his decisions, which I feel is unacceptable.

This question he asked today + the juvenile way he was making faces at the dhaba in baruipur + his reaction at the fish market during the chitoi maach kando -- all these things just point out that sid lives in a dreamworld far removed from the reality of life.

I know the latter 2 instances were scenes meant for comedic relief... But just an observation for Sid as a character.

PS. Sorry for the long rant. Itend to fo that angry 😆

He does live in a SidLand.....😆 Mit has understood him so she is nt angry with him. A person who thnks saving her sister's marriage is a project, how can she be angry on that kiddo?😆

Sid needs lot of growing up.

Originally posted by: CrazyLtlBitch

I'm so so so so so angry right now with Mithai 😠😠 She wasn't ready to leave.. She was crying bucket coz Dadai asked her to do what her mother asked her to do 😠😠😠

Rajeev, Ratul n Sandy literally went to Sid 😠😠😠

And Sid still doesn't have any answer to Mithai kon porichoi e thakbe?? 😠😠

BoroBabu Whatever Sid is doing was for Dadai not Mithai...

Absolutely hate SidMit scenes today 😠😠😠😠😠

Mithai sometimes na.. very immature. o ki chai sheta writter highlight korena, show is very progressive but mithai r kono growth neyi, always being bechari. very unfair and immature. we all know she feels happy jokhon shobai happy thake but her mother is ill aar oke dekhano hoy na concern everytime only monohora bari. the way she behave everytime like choto meh, i sometimes feel na sid jeta bole sheta thik kokhon oi point ta holo jekhane sid release korbe ki bhalo bashche? very time to force kora hoi oke. mithai single kono scenes neyi why? it's very disappointing. it's confusing maje maje feel hoy ki dekhchi!? Mithai kono growth dekhano hoina only sid like o kichu bojhena. I find myself questioning eta ki really love story ? The thing is eta reality show noy jekhane limitless feel korbo, it feels like torturing. I'm sorry if this sound like bashing but idk just very angry n frustrating. Eta onnai i know it's a story but phir bhi

Originally posted by: CrazyLtlBitch

Thank you so much Anjani for saying all these 😌

I was so so so upset after watching the epi.. A different pov is really welcoming.. Actually I was upset coz Mithai was crying coz she didn't want to leave..

I was upset coz I was missing the Rathyatra Day Mithai who just packed her bag n was ready to leave coz she didn't want to be a part of Sid's one month challenge..

I was upset coz Mithai claimed Sid has never misbehaved with her.. When in reality Sid had actually started behaving with her after she put her life at risk to save him..

Sid misbehaved with her a initially. But later for all he did Mit has forgiven him. She actually understood his POV. She knows Sid's thnking is not proper, but she cant blame him also. She understood the pain he went thru.

Sid shared his mother's story with Mit, which he never did with anybody. Mit is just grateful that Sid trusted her inspite of her lowly self.

Mit is unhappy bcoz she never wanted to leave Manohara by making everybody cry. She has said many times she wants everyone to be "heppy". Few dialogues by Mit-Dadai was not needed I agree. But she accepted to Sid, that what is happening, is for the good.

Waise I still dont know why the hell Sid, agreed for mala bodol😳 I dont have any reason. May be he thght after this nobody will disturb him and Mit can stay in Manohara without any issue.

Originally posted by: Iinvisible

Mithai sometimes na.. very immature. o ki chai sheta writter highlight korena, show is very progressive but mithai r kono growth neyi, always being bechari. very unfair and immature. we all know she feels happy jokhon shobai happy thake but her mother is ill aar oke dekhano hoy na concern everytime only monohora bari. the way she behave everytime like choto meh, i sometimes feel na sid jeta bole sheta thik kokhon oi point ta holo jekhane sid release korbe ki bhalo bashche? very time to force kora hoi oke. mithai single kono scenes neyi why? it's very disappointing. it's confusing maje maje feel hoy ki dekhchi!? Mithai kono growth dekhano hoina only sid like o kichu bojhena. I find myself questioning eta ki really love story ? The thing is eta reality show noy jekhane limitless feel korbo, it feels like torturing. I'm sorry if this sound like bashing but idk just very angry n frustrating. Eta onnai i know it's a story but phir bhi

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