Originally posted by: soapwatcher1
Truly hope Anupama stops being the doormat for everyone in that wicked household. She has not moved forward an iota, she might have divorced Vanraj and told him to go marry Kavya because Anupama couldnāt stand the daily onslaught of being drawn into unnecessary character assassination of herself.
But enough is enough, Anupama owes Ba nothing, she owes Vanraj no explanation, she needs to harshly shake some sense into Toshu. Her life is her own, she needs to seek happiness for herself instead of being kicked in the shin everyday by this dysfunctional family.
A truly independent and sensible woman will understand that her ex in-laws are a bunch of users, her own children, Toshu and Pakhi included. A woman that has been burnt like Anupama has, her husband carrying on an affair for 8 years under her own nose, Vanrajās mental and physical abuse, Baās constant taunts, her adult children putting her down, such a woman should and will have a limit to her patience. She is Mukth from that bondage, she is staying on to be a mother to her children and daughter to Bapuji, other than that she has no obligation to anyone else, and the faster Anupama realizes this, the more realistic her character growth will be. Otherwise, Anupama is stuck in the same rut, a cycle of abuse that she seems to relish and wallow in at the same time. It is frustrating to watch Anupama placate Ba or justify her actions to Vanraj. I hope Toshu says something in front of Samar about Anupama not having friends and that Samar gives his nasty brother a proper dressing down. I also hope Kavya realizes that Vanraj is insanely jealous and goes off on him.
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