Being Married

Ok just a question…are any of the directors, creatives etc of the show married? Im just curious please dont come at me or bash me. It’s just that there are a lot of things that have been happening in the show that im sure you all have wondered too that the leads are married how come they havent done this or that etc.

Like sharing a room and saying i love you but no physical contact.

And then this latest where yeah he loves her and does all this for her but hurts her either way when he refuses to eat from her hand and that too infront of all where just a few moments ago she was defending him infront of sunny and now was made to look like a fool when raghav walked away.

I just feel like the creatives could atleast show some realism in these two’s marriage. Maybe eat the ladoo but can later tell her he didnt want people to know so he did. Doesnt mean he is ok now etc. His angry face was noticed by all. 😢

What are your thoughts?

Not married no experience

mummy always used to say never take your fights to bed

resolve them don't stretch them

don't show fight hui hai in public - don't give others the chance or room to interfere in your marriage

Originally posted by: farheenbachani

Ok just a question…are any of the directors, creatives etc of the show married? Im just curious please dont come at me or bash me. It’s just that there are a lot of things that have been happening in the show that im sure you all have wondered too that the leads are married how come they havent done this or that etc.

Like sharing a room and saying i love you but no physical contact.

And then this latest where yeah he loves her and does all this for her but hurts her either way when he refuses to eat from her hand and that too infront of all where just a few moments ago she was defending him infront of sunny and now was made to look like a fool when raghav walked away.

I just feel like the creatives could atleast show some realism in these two’s marriage. Maybe eat the ladoo but can later tell her he didnt want people to know so he did. Doesnt mean he is ok now etc. His angry face was noticed by all. 😢

What are your thoughts?

duniydaari kab seekhega ye ladka

maininging normalcy in front of others would not mean he's being two faced

raghav has always been jo dil mein wo zubaan par and chehre par

he needs tp learn these things she too needs to learn some things

ho jaayega time ke saath experience they'll lear

cvs do need to work on realistic things this is a drama but in the drama the characters are human and bound by same relationships as in the real world

I'm not married but I can say that if the makers showed us how a real marriage between Raghav and Pallavi would look like, it would be nothing short of a horror story. Their personalities are so different, I even doubt if in real life they can stay together for one day without pulling out each others hair. haha. Just my opinion.

Originally posted by: farheenbachani

Ok just a question…are any of the directors, creatives etc of the show married? Im just curious please dont come at me or bash me. It’s just that there are a lot of things that have been happening in the show that im sure you all have wondered too that the leads are married how come they havent done this or that etc.

Like sharing a room and saying i love you but no physical contact.

And then this latest where yeah he loves her and does all this for her but hurts her either way when he refuses to eat from her hand and that too infront of all where just a few moments ago she was defending him infront of sunny and now was made to look like a fool when raghav walked away.

I just feel like the creatives could atleast show some realism in these two’s marriage. Maybe eat the ladoo but can later tell her he didnt want people to know so he did. Doesnt mean he is ok now etc. His angry face was noticed by all. 😢

What are your thoughts?

Well, I am not married but looking at my mom dad and other couples in the family, I can surely say that there is one golden rule- " Never air your dirty laundry in public". I mean never fight or show in public that you as a couple are not on talking terms or you had a fight.

It should be only restricted behind closed doors.

So yes , Raghav should not let it know in public or even family ( specially the people whom she considers her maayka) that something is off between them .

You know like....MHRW has been way different from any other serial....just like in Mandar's case first when Pallavi caught Raghav with the tracker she was upset anyone would be eventhough Raghav put it for her safety....but if you see it from others eyes it means something else and she getting angry on that is normal and they patched up real quick.....at the same time when Mandar took her to his room Raghav was angry but again they patched up real quick but this time it's a completely different story.

Raghav doesn't know what had actually happened he knows Pallavi is good hearted person and she'll believe anyone and I think that's what he is angry for he is angry at her for believing Keerti and lettingher out....ruining her life forever.

And second I think the makers are purposefully setting a quarrelsome atmosphere between Pallavi and Raghav for a reason.

Originally posted by: Viewpoint

I'm not married but I can say that if the makers showed us how a real marriage between Raghav and Pallavi would look like, it would be nothing short of a horror story. Their personalities are so different, I even doubt if in real life they can stay together for one day without pulling out each others hair. haha. Just my opinion.

Arre yaar that would be so much fun to see...LOL

Originally posted by: farheenbachani

Ok just a question…are any of the directors, creatives etc of the show married? Im just curious please dont come at me or bash me. It’s just that there are a lot of things that have been happening in the show that im sure you all have wondered too that the leads are married how come they havent done this or that etc.

Like sharing a room and saying i love you but no physical contact.

And then this latest where yeah he loves her and does all this for her but hurts her either way when he refuses to eat from her hand and that too infront of all where just a few moments ago she was defending him infront of sunny and now was made to look like a fool when raghav walked away.

I just feel like the creatives could atleast show some realism in these two’s marriage. Maybe eat the ladoo but can later tell her he didnt want people to know so he did. Doesnt mean he is ok now etc. His angry face was noticed by all. 😢

What are your thoughts?

@bold I feel the that whole ladoo scene signifies two things…

1. Raghav is extremely hurt but he still cares about Pallavi’s happiness so feeds her ladoo but is also disappointed with her so doesn’t want to give her the right over him so doesn’t let her feed him…he will fulfill his responsibility as a husband while registering his disappointment in her.

2. probably the upcoming track where both will misunderstand each other due to the mischiefs of Sunny Keerthi Sulo Mansi even Amma & Ayi…

They have already set up solid ground for misunderstanding from both ends…Pallavi is super confident about Raghav so extreme hurt is on her way when she gets to know the truth…she is already questioning Raghav about his business so it’s quite possible Sunny tips off the police and makes it look like pallavi is behind it so Raghav misunderstands her…Nikhil & Abishek guy are brought back for a reason…Sunny already knows about Abishek and his connection with Pallavi..Nikhil is yet to know he was working for Raghav…misunderstand leading to separation is sure to happen, who is going to create chaos to what extent is what is to be seen..

This track is probably leading to separation angst desperation which we were expecting in Mandar track…as of now the plot execution looks interesting so I am looking forward to it…

I agree that the golden rule is "don't air your dirty laundry in public", but I can also see why that's very often difficult to follow.

It's hard to hide your hurt or anger, especially if it runs THAT deep. I can see why Raghav is unable to cover his ghussa in public, not saying he can't do better, but he's simply expressing how he feels in his heart. He doesn't know how to behave any differently, dunyadaari isse nahi aati. If he really cared to fit in the world around him, he wouldn't be in Sanki's bad books and nor would his sister detest him. He wears his heart on his sleeves, as much as he tries to show otherwise, and I think that paired with his temper always puts him at a disadvantage with his loved ones.

Also, if roles were reversed, I don't think Pallavi would hide her hurt or anger either. We've seen her lash out at Raghav on multiple occasions without caring for the time or place. She's embarrassed him as much as he's embarrassed her in today's episode (haven't watched it yet, going off of forum updates) so I would hope she understands why he's unable to put a veil over his feelings.

All that said and done, what their marriage is greatly lacking right now is communication. They were phenomenal at it before their confession, but iss ILY ne toh inki shaadi shuda zindagi ki samjho jaan hi le li!

Honestly I don’t expect them to show the story in a realistic way…there won’t be any story to tell…if everything is normal between the prince & the princess and they live happily ever after then the story ends…and interesting story is all about presenting an unrealistic situation in a relatable & logical way….