Originally posted by: helenm88
that's because he IS changing, he is falling love with Tejo, but also still has feelings for Jasmine, so he is flipping back and forth, but he doesnt understand that his feelings for Tejo are of love yet, 1) he thinks he is still thinks Jasmine as his true love, he doesn't understand yet that she was his first love/obsession/ infatuation, and not his true love. So in his weird man/child brain he is trying to stay loyal to his "love" and is getting confused with what he feels for tejo, he is currently still in love with both,. But the turning point now is he actually likes and admires Tejo, while he does not like Jasmine or admire her as he used to. He is slowly/painfully growing up, and finding jasmine more and more childish and selfish. And this is what I want, Fateh to spend time with Jasmine and fall OUT of love with her, and FALL in love with Tejo. NOT chose Tejo as a substitute/ backup or second choice. I want him to get to a stage that given a free choice, he will pick Tejo every time. At th end of the day he married Tejo, while he WAS still madly and blindly in love with Jasmine. While I hated the EMA how else was Fateh supposed to get to know the real Jasmine and Fall out of love with her ? I wish he had been honest with Tejo with his struggle and told her what was going on when it actually was, HOWEVER Fateh had fallen in love with Tejo's admiration of him, and did not want Tejo to stop admiring and thinking highly off him, BUT that ended up being a double-edge sword. AS time progressed and she continued to admire and praise him, he started to feel more and more guilty each time she expressed her feeling of admiration ect , as he got guiltier and guiltier, he could help but feel disgust in himself and a GREAT Panic of being caught and exposed to Tejo. And you saw that each time he thought Tejo would find and e would get caught, he got into a mindless PANICED & RAN !!, then top it with his jealously, he mind was a mess, swing all over the place. And you could see that why he also avoided physical contact with Jasmine. Until the end when he thought Tejo was cheating on him. He is literally throwing tantrums all over the place, not sure what he is feeling, and reacting aggressively, towards Jasmine, Tejo and himself.
I feel he character is going to go through one enormous painful growth. Because even though his was nicer in the beginning he was a rich, handsome, famous spoilt child in a mans body. Now while unpleasant , he is making mistakes, with everyone, he is finally beginning to grow up, and see that his choices have consequences.