Doormat Anupama??!! - Page 3

Right,she must leave the house soon and not leave Samar and Nandini behind to jhelo this circus,to become mahaan in the name of parivaar na todna because I am sure baa will keep taunting Nandini for her infertility,I mean Anu ko 25 saal Bina wajah tana Marti thi,now for Nandini,she has a very good reason to taunt her at every step,which she will not let go of..

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Baa ka attitude dekh kar laga in future she will not allow anupama’s second marriage.

Jab reunion party mai bhi nahi jane deti toh anupama ko dusro shaddi kya khak karne degi baa !🤢

Anupama Aj jaise baa ki permission ka wait kar rahi thi waise he future mai Anuj se shaddi karne ke time bhi baa ki permission ka wait karegi ! 🤢

Baa is the worst. I truly despise that woman. She has no business exercising her right over Anupamaa's life and the decisions she makes for herself. She is not her daughter-in-law anymore and she is not her obnoxious son's wife anymore. Naam se beti bulaane ka yeh matlab nahi hai that she can pry into her life whenever she wants. Kaisi shakal bann gayee thi jab Devika ne baahar jaane ki baat ki. Dekh kar itna ghussa aaya. The way she was constantly interfering in their conversation. Made me want to throw up. And Kavya? LOL. You remember jab koi doosri tension chal rahi thi tab she took her idiot husband to meet her friends for a cup of coffee? Lekin jab tension ke mahaul mein Anumpamaa ke bahar jaane ki baat aayee tab madam ko problem hai. And Baa too. Khud kulfi khaane baahar jaana hai lekin Anupamaa nahi jaa sakti. Sab ek hi thaali ke chatte batte hain. Apni 'beti' Anupamaa ko kabhi ek cup paani nahi pilaya, usko cancer ho gaya tab bhi nahi. Lekin maide ki katori ke liye khud coffee banake parosa tha the great Baa ne. Vanraj, Kavya, Baa and Toshu deserve each other. Sab same to same hain.

Originally posted by: ...manal...

Baa is the worst. I truly despise that woman. She has no business exercising her right over Anupamaa's life and the decisions she makes for herself. She is not her daughter-in-law anymore and she is not her obnoxious son's wife anymore. Naam se beti bulaane ka yeh matlab nahi hai that she can pry into her life whenever she wants. Kaisi shakal bann gayee thi jab Devika ne baahar jaane ki baat ki. Dekh kar itna ghussa aaya. The way she was constantly interfering in their conversation. Made me want to throw up. And Kavya? LOL. You remember jab koi doosri tension chal rahi thi tab she took her idiot husband to meet her friends for a cup of coffee? Lekin jab tension ke mahaul mein Anumpamaa ke bahar jaane ki baat aayee tab madam ko problem hai. And Baa too. Khud kulfi khaane baahar jaana hai lekin Anupamaa nahi jaa sakti. Sab ek hi thaali ke chatte batte hain. Apni 'beti' Anupamaa ko kabhi ek cup paani nahi pilaya, usko cancer ho gaya tab bhi nahi. Lekin maide ki katori ke liye khud coffee banake parosa tha the great Baa ne. Vanraj, Kavya, Baa and Toshu deserve each other. Sab same to same hain.

Fir bhi anupama ko divorce ke baad bhi inke sath rehna hai! 🤢 Bapuji is no less! Beti beti bol kar anupama ke gale pura ghar bandh diya 🤢

Originally posted by: SmithaRam

Vanraj! He was the first one to interrupt Devika. The gall of this man!! I wish Anupama had turned around and given him a fitting reply, instead of Devika prompting Kavya to shut her man up. I like how Devika's indirect jibes at V. And his egoistic looks are classy! 😊

Baa thinks she owns Anupama. I wish Anupama had retorted to her too. I dont understand why Anupama continues to take trash from baa. Stupid woman, never learns.

Vanraj, after expressing jealousy, ego, he is seen beaming with a smile when he sees Anupama dressed up for the party! 🤔

Every time that man opens his mouth I want to punch something. And Baa is worse than Vanraj. Vanraj ko aisa naalayak aadmi uski Maa ne hi banaya hai. Mothers like Baa are a threat to every woman. They never hold their sons accountable and the daughters have to pay the price for it. Itna sab kuch ho gaya lekin uss aurat ka nazariya nahi badla. I can 100% guarantee that she is going to be the first to object if Anupamaa and Anuj were to get married in the future. Jab ki iss matter mein bolna ka haq agar kisi ko hai then it is Anupamaa's biological mother. Not her children and definitely not her ex-in-laws.

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Fir bhi anupama ko divorce ke baad bhi inke sath rehna hai! 🤢 Bapuji is no less! Beti beti bol kar anupama ke gale pura ghar bandh diya 🤢

Anupamaa has no mind of her own. Kuch bhi ho jaaye lekin woh apne Baa Baapuji ke khilaaf kuch nahi bolegi. She doesn't even let her children speak against them, even when they are clearly wrong. Kya logic hai yeh? Just because you are an elder you can mentally abuse your own children? Why do desi people wear this atrocity like a badge of honor? To suffer silently at the hands of your elders? How and why is it acceptable? Especially in this day and age?

Anupamaa has suffered so much at the hands of Baa and Vanraj, she has almost humanized their abuse. This is psychological. It is a survival technique. This was the only way she could live her life as sanely as possible. And now this has become a habit. Aur aadat chootne mein time lagta hai. I am counting on Anuj. I am not expecting him to do the work for her, but to support her as she unravels from the trauma and realises her own worth.

i told you earlier that it is all Bapuji s plan who will lookaftre the house if Anupama goes away and encouraged her to get the loan by Rakhi so all the pressure and blame goes on her and what he said to his son yesterday that Leela took me with all my faults not the other way around ,he is just being sweet and getting every thing what his family needs it .

Originally posted by: ...manal...

Every time that man opens his mouth I want to punch something. And Baa is worse than Vanraj. Vanraj ko aisa naalayak aadmi uski Maa ne hi banaya hai. Mothers like Baa are a threat to every woman. They never hold their sons accountable and the daughters have to pay the price for it. Itna sab kuch ho gaya lekin uss aurat ka nazariya nahi badla. I can 100% guarantee that she is going to be the first to object if Anupamaa and Anuj were to get married in the future. Jab ki iss matter mein bolna ka haq agar kisi ko hai then it is Anupamaa's biological mother. Not her children and definitely not her ex-in-laws.

Whole heartedly agree! Anupama too should put an end to it. Instead, by seeking baa's permission to step out the house, she is enabling Baa's evil behavior. Why should Anu let Baa run her life? Just, tell her not to interfere. I am sure Anupama can do this in a very nice way too.

Originally posted by: SmithaRam

Whole heartedly agree! Anupama too should put an end to it. Instead, by seeking baa's permission to step out the house, she is enabling Baa's evil behavior. Why should Anu let Baa run her life? Just, tell her not to interfere. I am sure Anupama can do this in a very nice way too.

YES! 100% agreed.

Originally posted by: ...manal...

Every time that man opens his mouth I want to punch something. And Baa is worse than Vanraj. Vanraj ko aisa naalayak aadmi uski Maa ne hi banaya hai. Mothers like Baa are a threat to every woman. They never hold their sons accountable and the daughters have to pay the price for it. Itna sab kuch ho gaya lekin uss aurat ka nazariya nahi badla. I can 100% guarantee that she is going to be the first to object if Anupamaa and Anuj were to get married in the future. Jab ki iss matter mein bolna ka haq agar kisi ko hai then it is Anupamaa's biological mother. Not her children and definitely not her ex-in-laws.

Agree...but fault also to a great deal lies with Vanraj's dad, who was never able to reign in the ugly behaviour of his wife. Where he wants he can pacify her, but didn't... it's only after Vanraj truth about affair with Kavya came out in the open that he began to be vocal. He admitted this, but because he chose to stay quiet, both Vanraj and Baa got to be this toxic.

I have little sympathy for Anu because she allowed herself to be emotionally blackmailed & stayed back instead of moving on. I'm almost sure she didn't want to leave that house because she needs to be ordered around & give daily bhashan. Who will she give that to if she lives alone

Baa is a terrible witch...she hasn't changed and never will. Sad part is now even Kinjal is becoming like Anu & tolerating her shit

Aunty Anu & Behen ji Kinjal = match made in doormat heaven